Have you ever had to restrain yourself?

[tkl-pen]

One of the things I do in life is drive limousines part-time. Today I had to drive a Vietnamese wedding party around in a limousine bus - the women were all very pretty - in fact, even the mother was awesome. At one stop, a bridesmaid named Quinh bent down in front of me (this girl is a flight attendant and drop-dead beautiful) and there was another bridesmaid behind me. I said to the flight attendant 'don't do that, I might tickle you' and the girl behind me said 'maybe she wants to be tickled' - oh, God, how I had to fight the urge to tickle her.

Later on, when I told the mother how pretty she was and she thought I was coming onto her, I explained that was not at all the case but that I loved to tickle pretty ladies, especially on the feet, and that was why I was looking at her. So help me, she took off her shoes and showed me her feet when there was nobody looking - she wouldn't let me touch them, though.

 

[TMF Jeff]

To me that sounds like a great way to get fired.

 

[SlaverTickler]

Not a good idea...

I have often had to restain myself, I'd say you did a poor job in this case Pen. I'll see girls on the bus, women where I work, and the desire is there but the need to make money and stay out of jail wins out (thank god).

 

[Patio-Daddyo]

I restrain myself daily ... figuratively

I agree with Jeff. My urges to tickle a pretty woman have never trumped the risk of getting fired or ruining my personal/professional reputation. I've always kept my tickling fantasies to myself and never acted on them, as in trying to get a woman, other than my wife, involved.

 

[isabeau]

i would view it the same as sexual harrassment...or assault..especially if you are a complete stranger to that person...

 

[tkl-pen]

I never touched anyone here - don't get me wrong - perhaps I shouldn't have posted this - in the second case, the lady wondered and I so I told her - maybe I shouldn't have done that. I wonder if I should stop posting on this forum, too, because I often seem to say the wrong thing.

 

[Patio-Daddyo]

I wonder if I should stop posting on this forum, too, because I often seem to say the wrong thing.

We're just trying to help keep you out of trouble, bro! You just have more bravado than I do in talking to strange women about their feet and tickling. 😱

I think the original point by Jeff is that you were in a business relationship with those women. If you run into them later in a club or where you are "off the clock" then you might get the conversation turned to tickling in a less creepy (in the lady's mind) way. Do you see the difference and does it make sense?

 

[SlaverTickler]

I wonder if I should stop posting on this forum, too, because I often seem to say the wrong thing.

I don't want to see anybody stop posting in any forum. I almost made that mistake (stoping posting) but then I knew people would lose out on all my wisdom 😀. Anyway, everyone here at the forum add something, well most do, we just don't want you to get in trouble for saying the wrong thing to the wrong person. After all that lady may have thought you were really funny, and then mention to your boss (not meaning to cause any harm) and the next thing you know presto your fired. Be cool, come to the forum to express your fantasies, after all thats part of why it's here.

 

[isabeau]

lord don't stop posting...you asked for opinions..

 

[taptoematt]

OMG, restraint ? I have womens bare feet in my hands , all day long ! RESTRAINT is my middle name.

 

[tkl-pen]

I'm sorry, guys and gals, I appreciate the comments and I now realize that they are for my own good. You know, I have felt for a long time that I don't belong in this world - that I was born into the wrong place and the wrong time. I have had this tickling bondage fetish since I was about fourteen - it started with Ellie May Clampett on the Beverly Hillbillies and Maryanne on Gilligans Island. My entire life, though, it was only a fantasy as I never had the chance to actually do it - other than non-bondage tickling on my wife and a few of her relatives in the Philippines for a few seconds. Two weeks ago, for the very first time, I had a chance to actually have two tickling bondage sessions in a real Dungeon - for a fee, of course. It was wonderful but it didn't feel anything like I expected. Still, I wish I could do it again - there is no place here that I can go, though. Being a less-than-great-looking man over fifty, the chances of doing it outside of a commercial dungeon are pretty much impossible.

 

[isabeau]

that is so not true..i, like yourself, have had this fantasy for most of my life..and thought i was alone until i came here..i'm over fifty, and i don't feel out of place..age is just a number..and beauty is only skin deep..it's what is inside that counts..and i've always loved your words..your stories touched a place inside me...so don't give up..and at least you have gotten to indulge somewhat..i also am married to someone who doesn't care for it..and i went behind his back to meet with others to get my fetish fix...however he now knows about all those meetings..and i'm rather glad he knows, although it hurt him deeply...i'm glad he knows as i hated to lie and sneak around on him..and i won't do that again..it's too hard on me..

don't give up..something will happen..and you can always dream...works for me..

i would rather never get tickled again than lose my husband..