Help: Telling GF about Fetish or Not

[Crazy Wabbit]

I think BellybTickler and Wolf pretty much summed that one up (at least for me anyways). I am convinced. Ticklee4life, you might as well go for it. And since you already said she tries to tickle you everytime she sees you, you have plenty of opportunities to subtly let her know while she is actually doing it or trying to anyways as opposed to just bringing it up completely out of the blue.

 

[tickle_viking]

Ok. I think that there is some good advices out there and some not so good.

I have had a very similar experience to the one your having right now. I never had told anyone about my fetish almost five years ago when I had seen a girl for a while and we had gotten really close. We talked about personal stuff but hadn´t really been sexual. Still I trusted her. I knew she was ticklish and had great feet!

At a point she told me she was interested in me. That just made things easier for me as I knew she wanted to be close to me and liked me.
some days later we where alone and talking about things we did and did not like. I don´t know how we came to the subject but she told me that she didn´t allow anyone to touch her feet and she didn´t like it at all. At this point it was clear to me that if I would be fair to her I needed to tell her about my expectations in a would be relation. I took a chance then and there and said " that is a piy because I do." She looked at me in embarrasment ( NOTE that she was embarrassed by this statement not I. ) " If feel so stupid now. Do you mean like a fetish?" she asked.
"Yes. I like tickling too." I admitted. "Ok, I am sorry I feel so stupid. I shouldn´t have said what I did." Then she told me what see like to do in bed.

I was terrified when I admitted my fetish to her but she was just as afraid to be branded as strange or whatever as I was. Now five years later we have been engaged for more than 3 years. All fetishes have been tried and are working pretty well, althought I am still very shy about my fetish.
She however finds no problem with it. So it is really I who create all the drama around it. Feels like there is a few more around here who do the same thing.

My point with this story is: Stop being a big drama king. Do you trust her and do she trust you? If yes you can build on that. If not start with building trust. Be sure to be clear with what you expect from her and the otherway around before you are too intimite with each other. Just talk to her about what she likes and she will wonder what you like. If tickling isn´t her cup of thé ( which you should have known by know as you have been tickling her ) the satisfying her need will make her willing to satify yours in 99 % of the cases. If not she will not she don´t care about your needs and you shouldn´t waste time with her.

Lastly just do as NIKE does: Just do it! Because when life is over you will regret the things you didn´t do not the things you did.

Be honest! That is my opinion.

 

[paracarl44]

Don't use the word FETISH.

You're relationship will grow naturally if you keep tickling each other.

Does she know about this forum, or have looked into tickling on the internet?

 

[TickVix]

Maybe you can see how she feels about tickling in general. Obviously she doesn't seem to mind you tickling her and vice verse, so she may actually embrace the idea even more all because she would know it relates to part of you that you really want to share with her. And as someone else mentioned, I'd avoid calling it a fetish. I mean, it's who you are and if a person cannot accept all of you, then they probably aren't the best person for you. I wish you all the best!