Hey all

[Lass]

Just posted this elsewhere but this seems busier.

Been interested in tickling for ages now but think it's time to take my fantasies into reality.

Any tips?

Kinda scared

 

[BlackestLily]

Just posted this elsewhere but this seems busier.

Been interested in tickling for ages now but think it's time to take my fantasies into reality.

Any tips?

Kinda scared

My advice is to be careful posting this. There are many who would love to take advantage of this without a care in the world for how you feel and the proper pace for you.

If you're looking for people on here to meet with, I would talk to someone for a while, and make sure they aren't a creeper. People who are more active in posting here have a good posting history to look back on and find out the kind of person they are.

Gatherings are a good, safe, happy place to try because you don't have to do anything you don't want to do, and it's a good way to dip yourself in the water. Everyone there has your fetish, you can talk face to face with others to see if you get along well, and then you can discuss having a session, and discuss expectations, safe words, etc. beforehand.

And as the internet rules always go, don't give them your address, don't meet them at their house, etc. First meet in public, a few times if necessary, and make sure everything gels well in your mind.

But this is all assuming you're looking for someone here. 🙂

So how about this...what are you looking for? What is your idea of how you'd like to take your fantasy to reality? And what parts are you scared of the most?

 

[Lass]

Wow, thanks Purrbast.

I'm a looking to be a ler...I am unbearably ticklish myself and would hate to be tickled..ha.

I would like to get to know someone (preferably male) and for the tickling to happen "by accident" so role play would be involved.

Other than that, I haven't thought about it much. I just know it turns me on beyond belief. I guess I am just scared of meeting some weirdo 🙁

Your tips are great though-thanks again!

 

[minerva]

^^ this

Very good and thought-out advise here.
I did it the same way, I started to post here, got to know people, continued to chat privately to some I got along with well and then met some of them at a gathering (NEST) which is by far the safest environment to get things started and its a great experience and a lot of fun as well.
Good luck!

 

[Lass]

^^ this

Very good and thought-out advise here.
I did it the same way, I started to post here, got to know people, continued to chat privately to some I got along with well and then met some of them at a gathering (NEST) which is by far the safest environment to get things started and its a great experience and a lot of fun as well.
Good luck!

Thank you very much!

 

[kered]

As stated by all above take time to really know people before looking for a play partner. It won't hurt to ask other's about a certain person you may want to know because in the end it is your safety that is paramount.

 

[Fangz]

Welcome and listen to the good advice in this thread. 🙂

 

[kurchatovium]

Hi Lass. I would start up some chats with people. Get to know them. Go to the chat room get to know some peope there as well. You have to know people before you can play so the key is to be patient. Also dont give out any personal info till you know the person is good and not out to take advantage. Most people here are good but there are few who arent.