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coolkid12585

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i have a question for you guys. Does anyone else get really anxious about telling someone your "thing" for tickling? fearing that they may get freaked out about it or just think your a total weirdo?
 
Yes, actually, and I also have a foot fetish in addition to tickling, which can be an awkward thing to share as well. Anytime someone has a "preference" "fetish" or "alternative lifestyle" as tickling and feet can be called, it can be very uncomfortable to share with people.
Your post didnt specifically state whether or not you have a significant other that you are trying to share this with, so I really couldnt tell the point of your post. I havent been into tickling for that long, and I dont have a girlfriend at the moment, but when I did last have a girlfriend, I had my foot fetish. The way I handled the foot fetish with her is that I got to know her for a while, and made the fetish just a part of our overall sexual conduct. It seemed to go over better that way. Sometimes a significant other will be more responsive to their partner's "fetish" or "preference" as it may be if they feel like their needs are being met, and the fetish is just a part of their partner's affection for them. I dont know if this helps, but this is what I find. When I again find a girlfriend, my intent is to get to know her well first, and then after a while, get into the foot worship, and playful tickling, before completely expressing the depths of my tickling fetish, and finding out whether she is receptive to serious tickling, bondage, or such. My philosophy is that if she feels comfortable with me, knows that I care about her feelings, and understands that it is important to me that she is satisfied and happy, she will hopefully be understanding and be more responsive to what I need from her as far as my fetish or preference.
I hope what Iam saying helps you, because this has just been my experience with having a fetish and girls. Take it slow, be understanding, and hopefully, you will end up being rewarded.

Mitch
 
well...i've been into tickling for a while now. but i've never been able to tell anyone. Say you were in this situation, you like a girl and you wanna tell her really bad about how much you wanna tickle her, but cant seem to find the right words. my biggest problem is like i said before, im worried they'll think im crazy or that they wont trust me about it. And it really sucks because im not looking to harm anybody, just to have a little fun that's all. if anyone has ever been in this kind of situation before, i'd like to hear about it and what you did to overcome being such a damn worrier like i am lol.
 
I am too open about it to get anxious about telling others about it. I rarely give it a second thought.

TTD
 
No, they think I'm a weirdo anyhow...😛

But seriously, I don't overanalyze this stuff, I call the resulting syndrome "paralysis by analysis"! I'm playful physically by nature. Either they respond in kind or not, no need to make some huge overly dramatic confession about it, just my two cents...

XOXO

coolkid12585 said:
i have a question for you guys. Does anyone else get really anxious about telling someone your "thing" for tickling? fearing that they may get freaked out about it or just think your a total weirdo?
 
Sometimes it is easier for us who have been into it for a while (or all of our lives...lol) to tell you not to sweat it and that it is no big deal...which is ACTUALLY true in a sence. But I remember when I use to get really weirded out over trying to tell someone...especially if they were the one I wanted to tickle! I think Mitchell's post sums it up pretty good. But if your looking to just have tickling fun...then just tickle them and see where it goes...you usually know right away how far you can go.

peace out,
daddy
 
I used to let it twist me up in the head...

...but in recent years, I've gotten a LOT more relaxed about it. Somehow, knowing that I'm not "the only one" anymore makes it a lot easier, ya know? Of course, it's still not something I start conversations with, but I don't shy away from it, either. 🙄
 
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