Sadistickler1
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Wow! This is my 40th post! It may not seem like a lot to most of you, (with posts up into the thousands!) but to me it seems like a milestone. I’ve only been on her a couple months, and I already feel like part of the family.
I've noticed reading a lot of posts, there are people out there with regrets of their pasts, not tickling one particular girl, or being to she to help tickle someone when they had their chance, (I know a lot of it was when they were growing up, and we all know how awkward that was), But it seems to me that even some are soo shy they have a hard time even talking to women in real life.
This post is just a note of encouragement and hope for all those out there looking for your tickle partner. Be it forever, or for a time. Don’t despair people. Embrace life; do not stay in the closet about your fetish. Tickling is more widely accepted now then ever before. Talk about it with people openly. Don’t be ashamed of something you love and enjoy. You’d be surprised at how accepting of it others might be. Myself, I’ve always been open about it, and it hasn’t hurt me one bit. Let me give you some tips on what I’ve done that have worked. Now, just remember, these things have worked for ME, but in the way that I do things. Each person is different and unique in their own special way. They might not work exactly the same way. You will have to use your own style.Don't get discouraged. Just move on to the next one. experiment a little. The more you try, the easier it will become until it becomes completely natural, And the better you will become at it. Ok, here we go.
Look for opportunities. They are everywhere. If given an opportunity, don’t freeze up and let the chance get away from you. I know, a lot of you are shy. Well, get over it, or you won’t have as much fun. Look at yourself and find that wonderful YOU inside. Play upon that. Have a sense of humor. (This one’s for the guys) Women love a guy with a sense of humor. Be a little silly at times, crack some jokes. Even corny ones. One time I even created an opportunity with a lovely lady during a happy hour party at a bar. We were all talking, and I was cracking her up with my silly jokes. Then I looked at her with a serious expression and told her, ”I bet I can make you laugh hysterically with out even saying a thing. And not a funny face either.” She said I couldn’t, but try anyway. So I asked her to give me her ankle. (She was in heels and hose and a skirt) .She lifted her ankle up to me, and I grasped it, removed her shoe, told her to hold it, (the shoe) and began to tickle the hell out of her foot for about a minute or two. She laughed hysterically and tried to pull her foot away. But, agreed that I won the bet. See? That is just one little thing you can do to tickle someone.
All my friends know I love to tickle people. I talk about it openly, and a lot of times when my friends introduce me to new girls to our group, they even say, ”This is Tony, watch him, he’s a ticklemonster.” Or something to that effect. But what they’re really doing is creating for me, an opportunity without even realizing it. It’s just up to me to jump on it or not. Most of the time I do. LOL!
Opportunities are everywhere around us if we look, and think. Find out what makes them tick, and use your brain. People like other people that are fun. So guys, (and girls) don’t go around being glum and gloomy, be happy inside and out, it will show to others. I know women gravitate towards a guy that is having fun, genuine fun, not like a “PLAYER” who’s only looking to get laid. But REAL fun. Just enjoying life, and the time they are spending at the moment. Don’t be shy around these women, just be you, and enjoy. The women will notice. They may not look like they notice, but they do. If you like someone, and want to get to know him or her, just do it. Don’t stand there and gawk awkwardly. Go up to them and just say hi. (And don’t use those STUPID pick up lines!) Women, see right through that crap. Women are highly intelligent creatures. Much more so than we have ever given credit. Be yourself, talk about things that might interest her, and number one…. LISTEN to HER a little bit. That’s the one thing that I’m sure all the ladies reading this will all agree about. Guys don’t really listen to what they have to say. If you listen, you might learn something.
Now, for the girls, well, us guys are pretty easy to approach actually. In fact, if you walked up to a guy, said hi, introduced yourself, and flirted, I bet you could EASILY get away with say, dance a slow dance, and reach under and tickle his ribs or armpits a little, and grin slyly as you do it. He’s hooked! Even if he’s not into tickling. If you did that, the guy would be putty in your hands for the most part. (Now Guys, Am I right?).
Now, I know there has to be a physical attraction for most things to occur naturally, and that’s a whole new ball game. But there’s one thing that’s a constant. CONSISTANCY. Be consistent. It’s like sales. If you knock on a hundred doors, you might get 10 yes’s and 90 no’s. Keep trying. All you really want is one anyway, right?
I have a sort of undercover interview that I use personally. Like we would be dancing, and just out of the blue, (If I can’t see her feet because of her shoes) I’ll ask her, so, do you paint your toes? She’ll answer, and I’ll say, cool. I like painted toes. Then I’ll ask her, are your feet ticklish by any chance? If she says yes, then I flirt about it a little. Hmmm, you could be lots of fun, stuff like that, and then just drop the subject and move on to other topics. (If she says no, and seems like it’s an honest answer, I thank her for the dance, and go away. But I find out immediately what I need to know to even pursue or not to pursue. I’m sorry, if that last statement makes me seem very shallow, but I’m a guy who has to involve tickling in a relationship or it would not work out at all. And then two people would be hurt in the process. If she’s not ticklish, I wouldn’t be interested in anything more. It’s just me. Maybe some of you feel the same way, maybe you don’t.
I also as I get to know a woman, brag about my great foot rubs, that always peaks a girls curiosity. (Ladies, Now be honest, what girl in her right mind does NOT like a good foot rub?) Eventually, if you push it a little, most women give in if they feel comfortable with the guy. Then as you rub her feet, tickle them a little and see how she responds. From some of the stories I’ve heard, a lot of you guys do this, and most of the women respond in a positive manner to the foot tickling. So, there’s your IN.
Well, I’ll not bore you to death with general ramblings, I just wanted to put a good word out there to all of you, and give you hope and maybe even cheer you on in your pursuits of the right tickle partner. They’re out there, just look, listen, think, and most of all, be YOU. Embrace your love for tickling and share it with others. If everyone in the world could love tickling as much as all of us on this forum does, think how wonderful the world would be. (Imagine, no wars! If you disagreed with someone, challenge them to a tickle fight!) . Ok, enough rambling and “Feel the Love” sentiment. I just feel very comfortable here. I’ve only been a member for a couple months,(I’ve been a guest off and on for a couple years) but the warmth I feel from the other members is very nice and encouraging. I thought I’d try to encourage back to those in need of it. Well, Good night everyone, and Happy tickling!
Sadistickler
I've noticed reading a lot of posts, there are people out there with regrets of their pasts, not tickling one particular girl, or being to she to help tickle someone when they had their chance, (I know a lot of it was when they were growing up, and we all know how awkward that was), But it seems to me that even some are soo shy they have a hard time even talking to women in real life.
This post is just a note of encouragement and hope for all those out there looking for your tickle partner. Be it forever, or for a time. Don’t despair people. Embrace life; do not stay in the closet about your fetish. Tickling is more widely accepted now then ever before. Talk about it with people openly. Don’t be ashamed of something you love and enjoy. You’d be surprised at how accepting of it others might be. Myself, I’ve always been open about it, and it hasn’t hurt me one bit. Let me give you some tips on what I’ve done that have worked. Now, just remember, these things have worked for ME, but in the way that I do things. Each person is different and unique in their own special way. They might not work exactly the same way. You will have to use your own style.Don't get discouraged. Just move on to the next one. experiment a little. The more you try, the easier it will become until it becomes completely natural, And the better you will become at it. Ok, here we go.
Look for opportunities. They are everywhere. If given an opportunity, don’t freeze up and let the chance get away from you. I know, a lot of you are shy. Well, get over it, or you won’t have as much fun. Look at yourself and find that wonderful YOU inside. Play upon that. Have a sense of humor. (This one’s for the guys) Women love a guy with a sense of humor. Be a little silly at times, crack some jokes. Even corny ones. One time I even created an opportunity with a lovely lady during a happy hour party at a bar. We were all talking, and I was cracking her up with my silly jokes. Then I looked at her with a serious expression and told her, ”I bet I can make you laugh hysterically with out even saying a thing. And not a funny face either.” She said I couldn’t, but try anyway. So I asked her to give me her ankle. (She was in heels and hose and a skirt) .She lifted her ankle up to me, and I grasped it, removed her shoe, told her to hold it, (the shoe) and began to tickle the hell out of her foot for about a minute or two. She laughed hysterically and tried to pull her foot away. But, agreed that I won the bet. See? That is just one little thing you can do to tickle someone.
All my friends know I love to tickle people. I talk about it openly, and a lot of times when my friends introduce me to new girls to our group, they even say, ”This is Tony, watch him, he’s a ticklemonster.” Or something to that effect. But what they’re really doing is creating for me, an opportunity without even realizing it. It’s just up to me to jump on it or not. Most of the time I do. LOL!
Opportunities are everywhere around us if we look, and think. Find out what makes them tick, and use your brain. People like other people that are fun. So guys, (and girls) don’t go around being glum and gloomy, be happy inside and out, it will show to others. I know women gravitate towards a guy that is having fun, genuine fun, not like a “PLAYER” who’s only looking to get laid. But REAL fun. Just enjoying life, and the time they are spending at the moment. Don’t be shy around these women, just be you, and enjoy. The women will notice. They may not look like they notice, but they do. If you like someone, and want to get to know him or her, just do it. Don’t stand there and gawk awkwardly. Go up to them and just say hi. (And don’t use those STUPID pick up lines!) Women, see right through that crap. Women are highly intelligent creatures. Much more so than we have ever given credit. Be yourself, talk about things that might interest her, and number one…. LISTEN to HER a little bit. That’s the one thing that I’m sure all the ladies reading this will all agree about. Guys don’t really listen to what they have to say. If you listen, you might learn something.
Now, for the girls, well, us guys are pretty easy to approach actually. In fact, if you walked up to a guy, said hi, introduced yourself, and flirted, I bet you could EASILY get away with say, dance a slow dance, and reach under and tickle his ribs or armpits a little, and grin slyly as you do it. He’s hooked! Even if he’s not into tickling. If you did that, the guy would be putty in your hands for the most part. (Now Guys, Am I right?).
Now, I know there has to be a physical attraction for most things to occur naturally, and that’s a whole new ball game. But there’s one thing that’s a constant. CONSISTANCY. Be consistent. It’s like sales. If you knock on a hundred doors, you might get 10 yes’s and 90 no’s. Keep trying. All you really want is one anyway, right?
I have a sort of undercover interview that I use personally. Like we would be dancing, and just out of the blue, (If I can’t see her feet because of her shoes) I’ll ask her, so, do you paint your toes? She’ll answer, and I’ll say, cool. I like painted toes. Then I’ll ask her, are your feet ticklish by any chance? If she says yes, then I flirt about it a little. Hmmm, you could be lots of fun, stuff like that, and then just drop the subject and move on to other topics. (If she says no, and seems like it’s an honest answer, I thank her for the dance, and go away. But I find out immediately what I need to know to even pursue or not to pursue. I’m sorry, if that last statement makes me seem very shallow, but I’m a guy who has to involve tickling in a relationship or it would not work out at all. And then two people would be hurt in the process. If she’s not ticklish, I wouldn’t be interested in anything more. It’s just me. Maybe some of you feel the same way, maybe you don’t.
I also as I get to know a woman, brag about my great foot rubs, that always peaks a girls curiosity. (Ladies, Now be honest, what girl in her right mind does NOT like a good foot rub?) Eventually, if you push it a little, most women give in if they feel comfortable with the guy. Then as you rub her feet, tickle them a little and see how she responds. From some of the stories I’ve heard, a lot of you guys do this, and most of the women respond in a positive manner to the foot tickling. So, there’s your IN.
Well, I’ll not bore you to death with general ramblings, I just wanted to put a good word out there to all of you, and give you hope and maybe even cheer you on in your pursuits of the right tickle partner. They’re out there, just look, listen, think, and most of all, be YOU. Embrace your love for tickling and share it with others. If everyone in the world could love tickling as much as all of us on this forum does, think how wonderful the world would be. (Imagine, no wars! If you disagreed with someone, challenge them to a tickle fight!) . Ok, enough rambling and “Feel the Love” sentiment. I just feel very comfortable here. I’ve only been a member for a couple months,(I’ve been a guest off and on for a couple years) but the warmth I feel from the other members is very nice and encouraging. I thought I’d try to encourage back to those in need of it. Well, Good night everyone, and Happy tickling!
Sadistickler
): he talked to a girl, it must have been an easy and relaxed conversation. My hubby easily manipulated the girls into saying something like "I do this" or "I don't do that", when this happened he said "if you do/don't do that, I will tickle you till ... whatever" and watched the reaction. If she smiled and said "you wouldn't" she was his, if she didn't react to that he backed up. He didn't try this on me however because he just started tickling me on the stairway without asking 
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