How Do You Tell Someone About Your Fetish?

[NHLovenlaughter]

When you decide to tell someone about your tickining fetish, do you slowly bring it into conversation day by day or just put it all out there and except whatever response you get?

 

[maniactickler]

I do it methodically. theres a method to my madness.

 

[Wildtime]

I only bring up the topic with people that I have an intimate relationship with. Even then, I'll try to find out if they have any unusual fantasies or fixations beforehand, and hopefully we can reach an agreement accommodating both our interests. If she's just plain vanilla, I'd tickle her playfully in order to gauge her attitude towards tickling. When all else fails, I put on my "Tickle Monster" T-shirt and start wavin' feathers at her in order to illicit a reaction.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Have courage!

 

[LD_Tickler]

If I'm getting involved with someone, I casually let slip at some point that I have a few kinks. For one, the mystery drives 'em crazy, and second, they start imagining things way worse than tickling. So when the time comes for the big reveal, it's no big deal. 😎

 

[3xPIN]

I don't bring it up. But I often get called on it.

 

[ticklemepls]

i've only ever told my ex-husband... which actually turned out to be a mistake- but before you jump to conclusions HE was fine with it... I just ended up not being ok with him trying to take part in it .. long story... ANYWAYS

i just simply stated that there was something i was into, and was kinda a turn on for me... understood if he thought it was weird, etc... actually told him about the forum (didnt really show it to him though)... turned out just fine (he accepted it whatever...)generally speaking, even if people think its odd, tell them its a turn on and suddenly they have no issues performing said act- especially when they want sex... just sayin'

 

[Deleted member 66627]

I shoveled snow.

No bullshit.

 

[guitarman]

If I'm getting involved with someone, I casually let slip at some point that I have a few kinks. For one, the mystery drives 'em crazy, and second, they start imagining things way worse than tickling. So when the time comes for the big reveal, it's no big deal. 😎

This for sure.

 

[BellybTickler]

I used to be more trusting with it, that came around to bite me in the ass. So, now I'm only open with select people, usually significant others and "battle-buddy" friends.

 

[Ishaanshah]

i share it with people of same interest , not with every one.

 

[mustang]

Yeras ago,when I was still in the closet, two of my buddies on different occasions non-chalantly announced the fact that they had a foot fetish in a pubic setting. On one occasion one of my friends was talking to a barefooted girl, looked down at her feet and very matter-of factly told her that he had a foot fetish. I was stunned by his public admission, but no one else batted an eye. On another occasion, I was at a yard party with about 20 people sitting in a big circle in lawn chairs. A buddy of mine was sitting next to his girlfriend who happened to be barefooted, put her feet in his lap and announced that he had a foot fetish and that women's feet 'sexed him up'. He sat there and rubbed and scratched her soles for a long while and nobody thought a thing about it. It took me a while longer to come out of the closet, but I finally did. I find it best to make the admission in a matter-of-fact, no-big-deal manner. And sure enough, no one bats an eye. For instance I was recently at a bar and noticed a girl who had high-arched feet and was wearing some sexy sandals. I told her that I had a thing for pretty feet and she just said, 'Wow! That's different'. I always admit to my foot fetish first, because most people seem to know that it is a prevalent thing. I only divulge the fact that I get off on tickling girls' feet to the girl herself while I am doing my 'foot thing'. I just tell them that rubbing and tickling is part of the fetish. I have been completly out of the closet for a number of years now, and believe me...no one cares or thinks anything about it. Just don't act weird about it and no body will think a thing about it.

 

[FLBowler]

I believe there is always a time and place for everything, also how you bring it up and say it to them is what will ultimately lead to a better end.

 

[TickleMyFancy]

I only tell those I'm interested in tickling and if I have a feeling they will be understanding and accepting of it. It's worked 4 out of 5 times lol. The 5th though... O.O

 

[Dialon]

I just tell them that I like to be tickled. That's really all there is to it. It's really easy that way, i'm more of a lee anyways. I think if I just straight up said I have a fetish for it, it might be a little more ackward, at least i'd assume so.

 

[asutickler]

Definitely throw it out casually, without making a big deal about it.


I mean, unless you WANT to look like a stereotypical fetish creep. In that case get all nervous and clammy, tell them you have something HUGE and SECRET to reveal, and make them spend the next hour dragging it out of you like a cop in an interrogation room. 'Cuz that always goes over well.

 

[scorpionldr]

When you decide to tell someone about your tickining fetish, do you slowly bring it into conversation day by day or just put it all out there and except whatever response you get?

I've generally been pretty forthcoming about it upfront, online, when I feel like there's some other chemistry going on.

And I think I set an example that it's not really a good thing to do at all.

 

[CD216]

Just be honest. Its the best advice you'll ever get. I tell people when the opprotunity arises if its necessary. If a person truly gives a damn about you, they'll accept it as a part of the person you are.