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How important is tickling to your relationships?

I totally agree with you. I "have" to have a ticklish girlfriend. Life just wouldn't be fun without hearing her giggles and if she loves it..:hysteriatrain:
 
I got married before my fetish really came to full bloom. My husband doesn't care for tickling, so it isn't important in our relationship.
 
Without trying to sound too harsh, at this point I wouldn't bother getting close with a guy if he wasn't at least supportive of my fetish. He wouldn't absolutely have to be willing to come to gatherings, etc, but I'd totally need him to play with me quite frequently, and be okay with my involvement in the community. I'm willing to compromise a little bit, but with this, it's kinda my way or the highway.
 
Very important. Tickling is the type of thing that I enjoy so much, I'd be lying to my partner if I wasn't honest about my desire to make it a regular thing. That's the world of strong fetishes for ya. If I'm extremely lucky, I'll end up with somebody who gets it on the same level that I do.
 
It's very important to me and I have been lucky to only have run into one non ticklish woman...my ex fiance is trying to get back with me and she sent me a pic of her feet(highly ticklish) on my cell with the message "dont you want to tickle me?" ....I put the pics in my albums
 
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Sometimes I feel that its a little too important for me. With Dating I've always kept my options open and I would judge the few guys by how much they tickled me. Affection is very important to me but I feel affection and tickling go hand-in-hand. The Guys I've dated casually and hung out with who never tickled me also weren't affectionate or cuddly at all:sadcry:. They also weren't into even hugging me or cuddling, never mind tickling. And they turned out to not treat me the way that I wanted them to. I always felt that a guy if he was REALLY REALLY into a girl he'd tickle more. If a guy isn't that into a girl but is trying to deal with her or keep her around for whatever altierior motive he has, they're not as cuddly affectionate or into tickling her. I just feel that it is one of the most affectionate things to do to someone. I had one boyfriend who knew about me and the fetish and supported it, didn't think it was weird. He had nothing against the fetish but never acted upon it. He was the type to kiss me ass and pretend to like certain things to humor me so I don't know for certain anymore how he really felt. He would pretend to like my music and to like sushi and dark chocolate just to humor me, why wouldn't he pretend to like that too? He never did anything about it and we never spoke of it again and that's why hes my ex lol. He was about as boring and dull as vanilla pudding. He did not have much of a personality. Go figure he was also horrific in the bedroom. I can deal with a guy not being ticklish because then its harder for me to fight back anyway lol. But I would prefer a ticklish guy.
 
It would be important for me as well.
No my life doesn't relvolve around it, but it far to strong an interest to completely ignore, or try to pretend doesn't exist.
 
It's really important to me, though sometimes I think I bring it up too quickly. There's no way I could have a satisfying relationship with someone not ticklish.

I was in a pretty serious relationship with a super-ticklish girl who only liked to be tickled at certain times, and even then hated to lose control. I could also never get her to tickle me properly because we were in college dorms and she didn't want me to make too much noise! 🙁

Some fantasies, like tying and tickling (and being tied and tickled), are more like icing on the cake. My ex wasn't into that, but I could definitely have lived with it had it worked out otherwise between us. I would be content never engaging in bondage with tickling if I was in a solid relationship (though I like to think the person I end up with will like to spice things up now and then).

BTW, I still talk to her and she knows I'm going to NEST (maybe she'll even see this post.). It was more of a curiosity for her, I think, than anything else.
 
For better or for worse, it's a requirement for me. Not a prefernce, not a desire, a requirement.
 
I think at this point I would need someone to at least be supportive of this "interest". If they wouldn't play WITH me, then they would need to let me play with other people to satisfy that need.
 
My life doesn't revolve around having this fetish....but I also can't hit the off button and completely shut this out...It is just a part of my life now. If I had a choice, life would be much easier. I feel the way I can't change my skin or eye color, i can not get rid of this fetish nor do I want to. Some people would think that for the "right person" I'd shut it out for them but that's wrong. The right person will want to turn me on and do things that I like. With the right person, whatever makes me feel good should make him feel good about himself and the relationship; but the problem is that I never bring it up in the beginning of a relationship. They will respect it, and learn to understand it (perhaps not as much as we all understand of course)
 
tklee88 said:
I think at this point I would need someone to at least be supportive of this "interest". If they wouldn't play WITH me, then they would need to let me play with other people to satisfy that need.
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Thank you, well said =) I definitely believe in that but it didn't work for me. I've played with other guys strictly for tickling while I had been in relationships but It didn't make me happy.

 
tklee88 said:
I think at this point I would need someone to at least be supportive of this "interest". If they wouldn't play WITH me, then they would need to let me play with other people to satisfy that need.
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Exactly. I'm insanely lucky that it's not like this for me. My boyfriend is more than supportive - we are both extremely into it.
 
I've been in relationships where my partner doesn't "get" the tickling thing, and sometimes isn't too comfortable with it. However, my interests are varied enough so that they were able to indulge me in other ways 😀
 
While my life doesn't revolve around it, its definitely a big part of me.
He'd at least have to be supportive of this. I can compromise things
but this interest is such a big part of me, there would at least have
to be an understanding and if said person wasn't into playing with me
then they'd have to let me play with other people.

He'd would have to be supportive of me being a part of this community
as well.
 
Tickling is actually becoming less important for me in my relationship. It used to be a massive part of my relationship- everyday I would tickle my girlfriend senseless until she was begging for me to stop and everytime I stay at hers I would tie her down and tickle her for at least 20 minutes. Now we have been dating 2 years 3 months it is becoming a minor part of it and I really don't mind. I am not tickling her as much and the past 2 times I stayed at hers I have not tied her and tickled her. I think I tickled her last time for a total of 20 minutes over the whole week!!! Rather than in one session. She said she has noticed that I don't tickle her as much as well. I don't feel the need to do it as much anymore. It still turns me on like hell though and I do use it as part of foreplay but not to the intensity that I did before.

However it is important for me to have a ticklish girlfriend yes. I couldn't date someone who wasn't ticklish and I know that sounds shallow.
 


Not reeeeally that important. It can be fun, part of foreplay and all but I can function without it being a must.
 
I am glad that this isn't a hard wired thing for me. I almost feel sorry for some because they're so hard wired that I believe that good people who aren't ticklish or who's feet aren't perfect get passed up. But that is truly their lbusiness and not mine to judge. For some, it is what it is and nothing else will satisfy.

I haven't had a man in my life who is one of "us"; but it's odd that they get into the tickling thing really fast. I think that it's because men will do (within reason for the most part) whatever to please a woman physically. If he discovers that she likes to be tickled, you won't have to tell him twice!

My biggest problem is letting him into my world. Would I tell him about TMF? Would I introduce him to the gathering scene? I honestly don't know because I've always viewed this place as my secret special place that I don't want to share with anyone. I know that sounds strange, but it's how I feel. Maybe if I meet someone who I feel I can actually trust enough for full disclosure I'd think differently. But for now, I don't see the need to share this world with anyone.
 
It's important...

Tickling is very important because it is a strong part of my sexual needs. If a girl I was seeing turned out not to be ticklish it would probably not be something I would be happy about, but there is more to a relationship with a woman then weather or not she is ticklish (I was going to put in a corny sexist remark but fuck it). I am sure I could have a great relationship with a woman who wasn't ticklish, especially if she was cool with me playing with somebody else (not likely but hay weirder shit has happened in life). However I would probably have a lousy time with a girl who was ticklish and completely hated it. Know somebody hates something you love, and is a prime target for it would be nearly unbearable.

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Tickling is incredibly important in my relationships. I tend to bring it up early in the relationship so there isn't a huge attachment and pressure yet. Usually, guys are pretty cool with the idea. If they're not (which I haven't had to deal with yet) I really have to think if I want to sacrifice what is such a big part of me and I'm pretty sure the answer will be "NO!"
 
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