i met dtrell today...

[Ticklerguy4u]

i'm wondering if another man would have been such a gentleman under the circumstances? i mean there i was tied up and helpless with someone i had just met in person.


isabeau

You know I would have, but then again you know my story.

 

[ShadowTklr]

Well Melanie, it was "bound" to happen. We have spent endless discussions on this very topic and I was always aware of the magnitude of this desire in you.

My greatest hope is that as you ease into this conversation with David, he will appreciate that he has contributed, in no small way, to this happening with someone other than himself. Individual growth is not always something that is easily suppressed.

I hope you know how I feel about you and that I'm happy you have finally unlocked the mystery for yourself. I also hope this will be an epiphany for both you and David to build upon. I would love to hear that he was spurned to explore and support your individuality as you have supported his for so many years. 😉

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

Husband. I repeat: Husband. "Won't tell your husband."

All of you who are saying "congrats" ought to be ashamed of yourselves.

Get off your soapbox and stop preaching to us. You oughta be ashamed of yourself. You call yourself friend to Mel? I know Dtrell. Let me tell you, I trust him. If he was there to tickle her then that is all they came away with. Besides who appointed you judge and jury. I don't remember getting a vote on it. Mel you should not have to tell your husband, you did NOTHING WRONG. I would TRUST Dtrell with my better half with or WITHOUT me there. If she wants a session with him all she has to do is call. And I don't need to know. That is how much trust there is in the relationship and in Dtrell. Go find a church to preach in and I will make sure to throw a quarter in the collection box for you.

 

[isabeau]

Get off your soapbox and stop preaching to us. You oughta be ashamed of yourself. You call yourself friend to Mel? I know Dtrell. Let me tell you, I trust him. If he was there to tickle her then that is all they came away with. Besides who appointed you judge and jury. I don't remember getting a vote on it. Mel you should not have to tell your husband, you did NOTHING WRONG. I would TRUST Dtrell with my better half with or WITHOUT me there. If she wants a session with him all she has to do is call. And I don't need to know. That is how much trust there is in the relationship and in Dtrell. Go find a church preach in and I will make sure to throw a quarter in the collection box for you.

thank you George. funny thing is i didnt feel the least bit guilty about this. then i woke up today and read the various responses and did start feeling rather down. i am the queen when it comes to guilt. and yes i trust dtrell completely. to make an example, yesterday i didnt wear a bra and had on a sleeveless top. he never ever went under my top to tickle anything there. he only tickled bare skin that was showing, and didnt even tickle my upper thighs. he never once went near my crotch area at all. he tickled my lower abdomen above the panty line. and tickled through my top. but never went under it at all. he mainly focused on my armpits, sides, hips some, and of course my feet. and some on the backs of my knees. and get this, i had an itch on my nose, and he scratched it for me. talk about a gem.

isabeau

 

[Deuce]

I have to agree with Ticklingfeet4fu I met Tdell last Oct at the Motown Party and he is a nice guy and any women on her should feel safe with him congrats buddy. As far as all this other stuff why is it so wrong if a couple has a open and honest relationship that they can't meet other people, we do it at gatherings and on are own as singles or couples so if both can look themselves in the mirror the next morning I think people should just keep there 2 cents to themselves and be happy for them since all they did was tickle. I like to see more posts on tickling and less on ones personal feelings and beliefs, too many in here feel they need to know everyones personal life and how they choose to live theres. I wonder why it was asked if Mimi could look at Laz and say that but it wasn't her so who cares how he would react. I been lucky and have met some great people on here and some not so great so for you not so great GET A LIFE.

 

[shooter]

I'm happy for you Mel. I hope you're happy with yourself.

 

[isabeau]

I'm happy for you Mel. I hope you're happy with yourself.

i think you know the answer to that shooter

isabeau

 

[natural tickler]

That is great to hear Izzyboo, and I am glad you had a great time. The first time is always nerve-wracking, but after that it gets easier, and you'll have a ball. Trust me, from what I've seen of Dtrell, if he had more time, he definitely would have turned ya into jello. He is that good. But what separates him from most, is that he puts your comfort above anything else, and that makes the comfort factor even that better. Glad you had a fun time, and don't worry about what folks think. If you are happy, then that's all that matters. There will always be jerks that will spoil the party, but they don't understand jealousy will get them nowhere


And a side note to all the wanna be holier-than-thou types:

GET A LIFE AND QUIT TRYING TO MAKE PEOPLE LIVE YOUR BORING DULL LIFE.
WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF, YOU SEEM TO HAVE A HARDER TIME DOING THAT THEN WORRYING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE AND BEING IN THEIR KITCHEN

ok, I'm done

btw, wished that was me tickling you 🙂

 

[crydun]

Mimi! I love that tiger in your sig!! could you send that pic to my e-mail. It doesn't have to have your name in it. I collect tigers, you see.... [email protected]

now, congrats Izzzy!! glad you had fun. Dtrell is on my list of top ten people to meet. I hope he can come to NWOG in July.....

Glad a good time was had by all...

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Why Is Everyone Being So Shy?

I don't have much to add to this thread that hasn't already been said. I've chatted w/isabeau a few times & I can honestly say that she is one of the most enchanting ... yes Mel , enchanting ... people I've had the pleasure to talk with from this forum. I met dtrell briefly at a Motown Tickle Party last June ... & the man can grill a mean burger , so I got nuthin' bad to say about him. Besides , if anyone has ever read a post by dtrell on this forum , can you really call him anything but honest?!

I spent most of my life growing up thinking that something was a little off w/me because I loved tickling & how it made me feel. I never shared that w/anyone in my life ... so I was kinda 'alone' in that aspect. Then I discovered the internet & soon after the TMF. I was absolutely flabbergasted when I found out that SO many other people shared the same weird , little fetish I had. To me , the TMF represents a place where we can all visit & share the joy of tickling ... if we choose to. That's what it's here for!

So , dtrell , the next time you get the chance to tickle isabeau ... you get her & you get her good. Tickle the living hell out of her & make her wish she had one of those enema-fetishes. Tickling is what she wants , so tickling is what she will seek ... & believe me , if I have my way , tickling is what she will get!

 

[milagros317]

Hi, Isabeau.
I'm glad that you don't feel guilty, because you did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel guilty about.
Don't worry over the judgement of somebody who has no right to judge you in the first place.

 

[isabeau]

I don't have much to add to this thread that hasn't already been said. I've chatted w/isabeau a few times & I can honestly say that she is one of the most enchanting ... yes Mel , enchanting ... people I've had the pleasure to talk with from this forum. I met dtrell briefly at a Motown Tickle Party last June ... & the man can grill a mean burger , so I got nuthin' bad to say about him. Besides , if anyone has ever read a post by dtrell on this forum , can you really call him anything but honest?!

I spent most of my life growing up thinking that something was a little off w/me because I loved tickling & how it made me feel. I never shared that w/anyone in my life ... so I was kinda 'alone' in that aspect. Then I discovered the internet & soon after the TMF. I was absolutely flabbergasted when I found out that SO many other people shared the same weird , little fetish I had. To me , the TMF represents a place where we can all visit & share the joy of tickling ... if we choose to. That's what it's here for!

So , dtrell , the next time you get the chance to tickle isabeau ... you get her & you get her good. Tickle the living hell out of her & make her wish she had one of those enema-fetishes. Tickling is what she wants , so tickling is what she will seek ... & believe me , if I have my way , tickling is what she will get!

hmm me enchanting. thats a new one. and thank you TKLMAN for that compliment. and thank you all for your mostly positive comments.

mils xoxo thank you very much my friend

isabeau

 

[Illtcklu]

Husband. I repeat: Husband. "Won't tell your husband."

All of you who are saying "congrats" ought to be ashamed of yourselves.

WTF? I got a masage the other day, was I cheating? This is STUPID and spiteful!!! How many others on here are married, have g/f's and tickle outside the relationship, COME ON!!
It's a fantasy Melanie wanted and we are happy for her! That's all! Melanie is an adult and I for one will respect her as adult, and not insult her intellegence by trying to explain right from wrong. If there even is a wrong here? Which there isn't!
Her husband didn't want to live out the fantasy. Period end of story. She even said "dtrell was a perfect gentleman". From that we all know there was no hanky panky. Sounds like you're just jealous or somthing?

Why would you come on and ruin her celebration like this?! If you have a problem, couldn't you have discussed it with her in private? Or even said nothing at all. We don't all approve of the things others do, and like I said she is an ADULT not a CHILD! Aren't YOU ashamed for doing that?!I do confess a little jealousy myself, I wanted to be the first IZZY! But that does not give me the RIGHT to say or judge what you've done!!!!

 

[MrPartickler]

First, congrats Mel. Welcome to the darkside.

Second, thanks for sharing (you certainly didn't have to do so) and we're happy for you!

Third, remember that "no good deed goes unpunished." Your sharing this news (and all these details) was a gift to us, and for that you're being penalized by some who cannot resist an opportunity to point fingers and judge....publicly no less.

Finally, never forget what the "mainstream" society would think of all of us regularly visiting a fetish/porn site and that'll always remind you of just how many of us here really have the moral high-ground (if there even is such a thing). 🙄 You know you're a great person so there's no need to defend or explain <i>anything</i> to <i>any</i> of us.

I'm glad you're doing what's right for you; it's the only thing that matters.

p.s. All the guys here are now officially jealous of dtrell! 😉

 

[steph]

Omg!

I JUST now told him this!
Glad ya had fun Melly~screw the naysayers...
XOXO
PS~Dtrell is the man... pass it on! (snickers and runs away...)

p.s. All the guys here are now officially jealous of dtrell! 😉

 

[Mastertank1]

A call for thoughtfulness and tolerance.

Certainly. Husband.

I really can't believe some of you people. Just because this website is an adult fetish site, that doesn't mean we have to support this kind of behavior, Mimi. I'm not a stereotypical amoral pervert. I AM all for the concept of the "ethical slut" and sexual freedom. I am NOT all for the concept of lying and deception and encouraging others to lie to their spouses.

You guys can flame me ALLLL you want for saying this, but you know I'm right and so do I. And if you don't, well, I hope no one ever trusts YOU.

This is not a flame. it simply a call to reserve judgement. Since my recent arrival on TMF, I have had the priviledge of becoming very good friends with Isabeau/Melanie, and perhaps a bit more, although we have never met physically. We have exchanged off TMF emails and voice phone calls for hours.
I call your attention to the old saying, do not judge another person until you have walked a mile in their shoes.
After what I've learned, and to some extent independantly verified, about that relationship, not only would I look Melanie's husband in the eye and tell him, I would spit in his eye and tell him. In my opinion, the fact that Melanie has not left him after what he's put her through makes her a candidate for sainthood, except that I don't believe in saints.
It is long past the time that Melanie stopped ignoring her own needs, and started to live a little bit for a change. Some marriages are mistakes that should never have been, and the sooner ended the better for all concerned. Hers is one of those.
I sincerely want Melanie to find happiness, and I truly believe that this can never happen unless she gets a divorce, or at least walks out on that so called marriage.
The one kind of person I have absolutely no respect for, is anyone who attempts to impose the religious beliefs of their own sect or faith upon other people of other faiths who do not happen to share those beliefs.
Mastertank1

 

[isabeau]

thank you everyone for your kind responses. and Mrpartickler they are jealous of me not dtrell. dtrell is perfect for anyone's first time experiencing this fantasy.

isabeau

 

[drew70]

I've known Dtrell on line since the old days at AMT. We've butted heads more than once, because he didn't like f/m tickling and I didn't like m/f tickling. Seems every personal tickling experience I posted, his reaction was always the same, "Well, didn't you at least tickle her at all??" as if that were the only thing that mattered.

He's an okay guy, I guess, but I'd much rather Isabeau's first time had been somebody a little less cocky and full of himself.

I would however like to take the opportunity to high-five Pete for effortlessly stirring up so much righteous indignation with just one or two posts. Man, that was beautiful!

 

[dtrell]

He's an okay guy, I guess, but I'd much rather Isabeau's first time had been somebody a little less cocky and full of himself.

I would however like to take the opportunity to high-five Pete for effortlessly stirring up so much righteous indignation with just one or two posts. Man, that was beautiful!

drew, we have known each other online a while since the newsgroup days. if you think i am cocky and full of myself then you really dont know me. you can ask the multitudes on here that have met me in person.

as far as stirring things up with one post, thats not saying much...it only takes one post saying the right ridiculous things to stir things up and make yourself an ass. thats not something to be commended, it just takes enough brains to press keys on a keyboard.

 

[isabeau]

I've known Dtrell on line since the old days at AMT. We've butted heads more than once, because he didn't like f/m tickling and I didn't like m/f tickling. Seems every personal tickling experience I posted, his reaction was always the same, "Well, didn't you at least tickle her at all??" as if that were the only thing that mattered.

He's an okay guy, I guess, but I'd much rather Isabeau's first time had been somebody a little less cocky and full of himself.

I would however like to take the opportunity to high-five Pete for effortlessly stirring up so much righteous indignation with just one or two posts. Man, that was beautiful!

o yes it was beautiful to attack me on the forum after he had said he would stop all communication with me a few weeks back. yes so beautiful of him.

and dtrell cocky hmmmm i never saw the cocky side of dtrell ever.

anyway i'm sorry i seem to have stirred up controversy with my innocent, yes innocent encounter with dtrell. i wanted to share my experience with this forum, as others have done before me. now i wish i hadnt....

isabeau

 

[venray]

I have never known D to be cocky, (nor would I want that picture in my head) Thanks D70

ROFL

As for stirring things up....it takes no talent...unless you consider ignorance a talent...then the oscar goes to.................................

 

[kered]

o yes it was beautiful to attack me on the forum after he had said he would stop all communication with me a few weeks back. yes so beautiful of him.

and dtrell cocky hmmmm i never saw the cocky side of dtrell ever.

anyway i'm sorry i seem to have stirred up controversy with my innocent, yes innocent encounter with dtrell. i wanted to share my experience with this forum, as others have done before me. now i wish i hadnt....

isabeau

Hi Sis! Just got home from work and couldn't wait to see what happened. Well, we have three and a half pages added since this morning. Remember what I said about junior high this morning and how some people react and keep your sense of humor, for pity's sake! All you did was laugh. We laughed this morning about this so don't let it bother you too much. It all works out in the end, dear Isabeau.

 

[isabeau]

Hi Sis! Just got home from work and couldn't wait to see what happened. Well, we have three and a half pages added since this morning. Remember what I said about junior high this morning and how some people react and keep your sense of humor, for pity's sake! All you did was laugh. We laughed this morning about this so don't let it bother you too much. It all works out in the end, dear Isabeau.

hi Brother! yes i remember and i will continue to follow your advice. xoxo

isabeau

 

[wendynpeter]

After what I've learned, and to some extent independantly verified, about that relationship, not only would I look Melanie's husband in the eye and tell him, I would spit in his eye and tell him.

Yeah. Isabeau and I had that discussion too, several times. Usually right after the conversation in which she defended him to the hilt, and when on and on about how she would never even *consider* leaving him because he completely takes care of her, how much she owes him, etc.

I'm pretty sure I know a lot more about that man's situation than you do, because I cared to find out. I didn't demonize him from the start.

In my opinion, the fact that Melanie has not left him after what he's put her through makes her a candidate for sainthood, except that I don't believe in saints.

And maybe that would have been true a week ago. Now, she's done something to him that he's never done to her. So much for sainthood.

 

[isabeau]

shut up wendynpeter

MODERATOR PLEASE DELETE THIS THREAD AND BTW PETER BOY I TOLD DAVID TONIGHT

isabeau

and he was ok with it after a while so much for knowing me and remember i have things on you also