i met dtrell today...

[isabeau]

hey you guys quit hijacking my thread lololol but stephy poo can hijack it anytime she wants.

and ticklejen thank you i love you also

and for the record i did tell david last night. some of it anyway. he was mad at first but he got over it because he trusts me

isabeau

 

[isabeau]

I think the real question here is if Isabeau's husband lived out a sexual fantasy with another woman because she was unwilling to perform a certain sexul act, how would she feel? She would feel betrayed, hurt, and mad as hell. I see no reason why her husband wouldn't feel the same way.

As for those preaching how "you have no right to judge someone," I got news for you, you little (or oin some cases not so little) self-righteous hypocrites - I can judge anyone I want in any way I see fit. That's the magic of freedom of speech, baby. Just because you think it's okay to cheat on a spouse (although I think the operative word here is husband or man) doesn't mean everyone else has to subscribe to your moral bank.

On a side note, I seriously doubt if a man came on here and posted about his tryists it would receive the same warm, encouraging welcome. I think many females here would be calling him a cad, a bastard, a liar, etc.

In several states, adultry is a punishable offense in divorce court. Isabeau better pray here husband never figures out what she did, because if he does, he has every right to go after her legally, and he could use this very thread for his own legal benefit.

excuse me it was not sexual in the least. if you dont believe me ask dtrell. sex was the last thing on both our minds. and as i just stated i told david, because i cannot keep things from him, its not my way. thank God he isnt you. he knew i didnt have sex.

and btw from a man who calls women vaginas hardly qualifies you on advice.

isabeau

 

[OBleedingMe]

Hi, Isabeau.
I'm glad that you don't feel guilty, because you did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel guilty about.
Don't worry over the judgement of somebody who has no right to judge you in the first place.

Would you give the same moral immunity to a man living out a sexual fantasy with another woman without his wife's knowledge?

 

[dtrell]

sexual fantasy

theres youre problem mr. know-nothing....it was not sexual. period. so stick a sock in it and go back to trolling other threads.

 

[venray]

Funny, I never posted support for the action and got judged as an "amoral Prick" Something that wasnt posted publicly. I support the right of someone to post what they want here without being jumped on by those that think they are more "moral" than others...when the fact is that they (and you) are no more moral than the next person that posts in this fetish forum....

Sorry...you do NOT have the right to judge here by trashing someone else...that is against the rules of this PRIVATELY OWNED forum....total free speech is not an option.....not here nor in the vanilla world...

Some would argue that is was free speech to print the cartoons in Denmark that others find highly offensive. In reality free speech is only a right when you do not infringe on someone else's rights...so if you wish to judge morality, go preach in a church, but it holds no water here.....

Especially when it comes form a poster who is into many things that I (and you) would probably find far more offensive than a tickle session......

 

[steph]

(does Cartman voice...)

KICK ASS!
that is great honey~YAY!

Ok, I'll be good now, I promise!
XOXO

hey you guys quit hijacking my thread lololol but stephy poo can hijack it anytime she wants.

and for the record i did tell david last night. some of it anyway. he was mad at first but he got over it because he trusts me

isabeau

 

[isabeau]

OK I AM GOING TO SAY THIS ONE TIME AND ONE TIME ONLY. IN ALL MY 27 YEARS OF MARRIAGE I HAVE BEEN FAITHFUL TO MY HUSBAND. WHY I NEED TO TELL A TROLL OR TWO THIS IS BEYOND ME. WHAT HAPPENED THE OTHER DAY HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX. I NEVER FELT LESS LIKE WANTING SEX. IT WAS PURELY TICKLING PLAIN AND SIMPLE. I WASNT AROUSED IN THE LEAST. I WANTED A TICKLING SESSION I ASKED DAVID OVER AND OVER HE SAID NO. I CHOSE TO DO THIS AND I AM NOT REPEAT NOT SORRY I DID. AND YES I TOLD DAVID LAST NIGHT. I TELL HIM EVERYTHING EVENTUALLY. THATS HOW I AM I CANNOT LIVE WITH GUILT.

isabeau

 

[OBleedingMe]

Isabeau, I'd like you to dredge up where I ever call a woman a "vagina" or I deemed all women "vaginas." I never said that. You're being deceptive... but then again, that may be your speciality.

Oh please... not sexual! Swetheart, if you really think this guy tickled you for fun and he isn't masturbating about it, you've got another thing coming. The definition of a fetish is an activity other than sexual touch that arouses a person. If it wasn't sexual for you, I can assure you it was sexual for the male you were with. If you don't believe that, you've gotta be the most naive person on the planet. I'd love to hear you argue to a jury that a guy tying you up and touching you all over WASN'T sexual! Hell, I'd pay to see it!

Look, I don't care what you do in your private life. I don't care if you cheat on your husband 1,000 times and you never get caught. What I do care about is how much in denial some members of this forum are when it comes infidelity. We've got some Orwellian double-thinkers round these parts!

 

[isabeau]

actually yes i am that naive others will tell you so

isabeau

and ps this is the last time i on this thread

o and it was the thread about for men only

 

[venray]

WHY I NEED TO TELL A TROLL OR TWO THIS IS BEYOND ME.
isabeau

You hit the nail right on the head....You do not have to explain anything to someone who has probably done far worse judging from his prior posts in this forum....so.....dont bother with him, love.....trolls thrive on attention....mostly negative....so ignore him and those like him.....really...ignore and pass over his posts....

 

[dtrell]

obleedingme, if i respond to your last post as i would like to, i would be banned from here and this thread deleted...as it is i am going to report the post to the mods like a good boy, and youll probably be banned from tickling discussion for a while until you calm down.

 

[OBleedingMe]

Really, Venray? Since your getting publically personal, let me return the favor. What have I ever admitted in this forum that is "worse" than what Isabeau did? By the way, by saying I did something worse puts a negative spin on Isabeau's actions, saying that what she did was bad, but OBleedingMe... that sack of poop... he's a REAL scumbag!

Isabeau posted, I gave my opinion on the matter, just like everyone else on this forum did. I mentioned the potential legal ramifications of what she did. If nothing else, I gave her a warning that she could be legally raped for this. I really don't see where I went wrong here.

 

[dskodj]

Congrats to ya Is/Mel (dont really know ya so ill call ya both lol) Its awsome you got to experience a long time fantasy! As for trying to explain yourself on an open forum (or to anyone for that fact)..you shouldnt even. Its not anyone's business but yours to what you do. Why cant the damn drama stay off this forum? We'll never know...but the bottom line is, you got what you wanted (alot more than some of us) and your happy with it 🙂 For future reference my suggestion is dont even bother to try to explain yourself to anyone (even off the internet) that isnt directly involved in your personal life...not worth the headache or breath. WAY TO GO GIRL!!!

 

[OBleedingMe]

If I'm banned for voicing my opinion on the matter, you won't see me here anymore. I don't post in a place where everyone must hug, kiss, and accept another person's behavior when you disagree with it.

I think a thread like this really touches a lot of nerves. Plenty of people have been cheated on before. Most of us know how it feels tobe betrayed int he most intimate of ways.... and then to come here and see people encouraging it, it makes one want to voice their opinion, and that's what I did. I don't apologize for it. It's how I feel.

 

[venray]

By the way, by saying I did something worse puts a negative spin on Isabeau's actions, saying that what she did was bad, but OBleedingMe... that sack of poop... he's a REAL scumbag!

Well....I wouldnt have used the phrase "sack of poop"...but the rest seems to fit pretty well...... 😛

 

[OBleedingMe]

Well....I wouldnt have used the phrase "sack of poop"...but the rest seems to fit pretty well...... 😛

NOW who's judging? Hmm? I thought no one had a right judge anyone here! C'mon Venray, get off the high horse. We all judge, in one or another.

 

[venray]

Not judging ....just agreeing with you.....

 

[Mastertank1]

Right on!

You hit the nail right on the head....You do not have to explain anything to someone who has probably done far worse judging from his prior posts in this forum....so.....dont bother with him, love.....trolls thrive on attention....mostly negative....so ignore him and those like him.....really...ignore and pass over his posts....

Damn right, Venray! 😀 I was going to respond to the troll until I read the above by you. Good thinking (something I notice you doing a lot of ) and I will follow that path.
Isabeau; what Venray said. Religious fanatics are not worth the wood it takes to burn them at the stake. He's just not bleeding enough; he's still breathing.
Mastertank1

 

[isabeau]

ahh once again i must post here. i for one do not judge others. remember the saying do not judge lest ye be judged? i am far from perfect too far to judge others.

isabeau

 

[TMF Jeff]

I haven't read this thread, and I don't really want to read the whole dicussion, so let me just say this in general: everyone who isn't talking specifically about the actual point of the thread, please stop posting in it. If you have some abstract point to make that is only peripheral to the thread, either open a new thread or take the conversation to PM if its between two people.

 

[theshire]

Hmmm, let me give my worthless opinion on this.

First to the whole 'tickling is sexual' thing. Yes, I agree with that. It's a fetish, therefore it is sexual. I'm a strange one in that I don't like tickling clips to be fused with sex. I don't like clips which feature vibrators or handjobs as well as tickling. But at the same time it is clearly arousing to me. I once CAME while pinning and tickling MY OWN SISTER for less than ten seconds. That means it's pretty sexual, and in a way I can't say I understand since I have no other sexual reason to come from touching my own sister. You can't get around it; it's a sexual thing.

On the other hand, I am genuinely happy for Izzy. I knew her for a little while, but eventually I decided that I didn't really enjoy chatting to her. I can't say we are currently on the greatest of terms. But I knew all about her situation with her husband and I believe in the same situation I would have done the same thing. I am still awaiting my own first tied tickling experience (as a Ler) and I know that if I was stuck in a relationship that didn't allow it I would seriously consider finding other ways to get my needs satiated. As a bloke, would I be happy if my wife/gf did the same thing? Probably not, but then I wouldn't be such a bastard in the first place as to deny outright her chance of fulfilling her fantasies.

Some people on this board really are holier-than-thou......at least that's how they view themselves.

 

[OBleedingMe]

🙄 Sure, Venray.

Can I ask why you think that of me? Because I don't agree with cheating on a spouse or because I'm a BDSM enthusiast? Perhaps my stance on Men's Rights? I don't know... to judge someone you don't know wis awfully, well... judgemental!

Anyhow, I gotta go to pick up my girlfriend. We have a dinner reservation. Go ahead, make all the glib and witty remarks you want about my relationship or how stupid my g/f must be to be with me. I'll be out in the real world while you type away.

This has gotten waaaaayyy off topic, lol.

Congrats, Isabeau!

 

[OBleedingMe]

Hmmm, let me give my worthless opinion on this.

First to the whole 'tickling is sexual' thing. Yes, I agree with that. It's a fetish, therefore it is sexual. I'm a strange one in that I don't like tickling clips to be fused with sex. I don't like clips which feature vibrators or handjobs as well as tickling. But at the same time it is clearly arousing to me. I once CAME while pinning and tickling MY OWN SISTER for less than ten seconds. That means it's pretty sexual, and in a way I can't say I understand since I have no other sexual reason to come from touching my own sister. You can't get around it; it's a sexual thing.

On the other hand, I am genuinely happy for Izzy. I knew her for a little while, but eventually I decided that I didn't really enjoy chatting to her. I can't say we are currently on the greatest of terms. But I knew all about her situation with her husband and I believe in the same situation I would have done the same thing. I am still awaiting my own first tied tickling experience (as a Ler) and I know that if I was stuck in a relationship that didn't allow it I would seriously consider finding other ways to get my needs satiated. As a bloke, would I be happy if my wife/gf did the same thing? Probably not, but then I wouldn't be such a bastard in the first place as to deny outright her chance of fulfilling her fantasies.

Some people on this board really are holier-than-thou......at least that's how they view themselves.

Good post, theshire. I'll cecede I don't know the whole situation with Isabeau... nor do I care. It just apalls me how many people here rationalize these sort of actions as a good thing.

 

[dskodj]

I'll be out in the real world while you type away.

OH GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK!! PLEEEEEEZEEEEE!!!!!!! LOL I wasnt gonna say nothin to anything else after my 1 post but come onnnnnnnn...another one of these "real world vs internet" freaks. The internet is just as real as "out there". Everyone is real people etc. The people that have to stress and prove and make points about "ill be out in the real world" or "in the real world im a hot shit and get laid all the time..." blah blah blah, it honestly cracks me up...fucking pathetic! I think every single one of us actualy does stuff and knows people in "real life"...its just we dont feel the need to discuss it and rant about it. Grow up guy!

 

[TMF Jeff]

I'm not kidding about bringing this thread back on track. I'm not going to pull it, or lock it, because that's like conceding that anyone can just trash any thread that they want to.

Starting now, everyone who posts in this thread except to say something about the very first post that started it will get a 1 week ban.

I'm going to lock it for ten minutes to make sure nobody misses this post and fires past it.