Been there, done dat...The Ex That Would Not Die...I agree with Strelnikov, don't rely on the cops...They generally laugh behind the back of a man who cries stalking or abuse (I tried both). I didn't have to beat up 3 punks, luckily...just one. the worst part is that she was the best tiklee I've ever encountered. Damn shame. Anyway, be careful YOU don't get thrown in jail on some false charge like I did...cops take stalking and abuse of women seriously, even if it never happens. And hope that ex-hag of yours doesn't show up on this forum, doing a little cyber-stalking! Come home soon.