I question to the Lee's and Lers here....

[fttickler]

A question to the Lee's and Lers here....

I was gonna post this in the polls section, but.. well hell changed my mind 🙄. Let me tell you of something I saw yesterday then pose my question. I was at my local Fry's Electronics store here in SD ( for those who do not know of Fry's.. It is about the Size of California Adventure in Disneyland full of anything you could need.. in other words.. a great place for a techno geek like me ) Anyway I was online and keying my cellphone ( was looking down at the time when I saw out of the corner of my eye a pair of perfectly formed and well taking care of bare feet in flips ( for those who know me, I am a tickle fetist with a prefernce to the female foot though I do love all tickling ). Now that was fine and I wanted to see what this woman looked like. Well she was about 55+ and then it happened.. she looked more like a man than the man she was with. OK. Here's the question, and let me say now that what I am asking is your opinion. I am not looking for flamers or people to jump on others for their opinions. I am just curuios. How much ( and remeber this goes out to Lee's and Ler's alike, male and female )does attraction or comfortableness ( is that aword ) play into allowing someone to tickle or be tickled by another person. In my own brain, what I find attractive in a person and what others do maybe completely different. I have always liked the girl next door look, not super models that are so thin you can see thru them, but the feet ( remember this is my idea ) must be : attractive " for me to want to tickle them.

So guys and girls and lers and lees, for the lers, must there be a physical attraction to the person you want to tickle ( or are you just so non caring that you will tickle anything that moves ) or maybe do you just need to comfortable with the person to be able to tickle them. And for the lee's, must the person you let tickle you ( yes we all know there is a trust thing here ) be drop dead fantastic looking ( in your own opinion ) or just someone you can be friends with that makes you comfortable? Wow this is the largest post I have ever done... I should get double credit for this. Again for me, it does not have to be someone that I find dating attractive in my mind but at least must be a friend that I am comfortable with enough to let my fetish come out. OK LETS HEAR FROM YOU....

Adam

 

[OnnaOtaku]

Personally, I don't have much experience with it at all, but I do know that I would have to have a physical and emotional attraction to the person. So I couldn't see myself tickling anyone that I wasn't involved with as far as a relationship goes. It's too intimate to me. But more on the side of if looks matter, I think they do. Goes both ways with tickling and being tickled. I'm sure this might be more flexible depending on how "addicted" to tickling you are. But I, yes, have to be attracted to the person.

 

[sabaki]

I agree with GDIT. I have to be into that person physically and emotionally, and they have to be taking care of their body. That goes when I'm a 'lee or 'ler. And I fully expect others to hold me to the same standard.

 

[Senbab]

Looks always play a part eventually. In my mind, the single most important factor for relationships is my compatability with the person. Their personality and such. Looks are sort of an add on bonus in my opinion.

As for simple tickling, im really a casual tickler. I don't put thought into who the person is im tickling because it's not serious. Tickling thus far has simply been a way to pick on cute girls at parties for me. That of course isnt saying I wouldnt like to get into a more serious level of it with someone. In the event of which, I would likely have to trust the person with my life, or something of that level.

 

[jersey_tickler]

I also have to have attraction to that person, both physically and personally. And yes, i want to tickle someone who takes good care of their body as well. Nothing personal, i just know what I like.

What's really odd is I don't care who tickles me, as long as they are female.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Physical attraction bears no role in my deciding to play or not play with another person. I've known guys who are very attractive. But, I have no desire at all to play with them. On the flip side, I've also known guys for whom I feel absolutely no physical attraction but would love to play with because they're a fun person. The same would go for women even though I don't find myself physically attracted to women. It's the PERSON, not the body that interests me....in this or any other area. Tickling, for me is primarily a purely platonic expression of affection. While it is certainly ABLE to be a sexual thing, it generally isn't.

Ann

 

[Mitchell]

For me, I would actually need both. While the person that I am tickling, or being tickled by, as I am both ler and lee, doesnt need to have stepped out of a beauty magazine, I would want and need at least a degree of emotional rapport, and physical attraction, to want to engage in playing with, and tickling, or being tickled by, that person. We dont have to connect on all levels, but at least a friendly rapport, good friendship if nothing else, and a degree of physical attraction. If those factors were present, I would have no problem with either tickling, or being tickled by, a particular girl.

Mitch

 

[fttickler]

yea me!!!!!!!!!!

6 people have read and responded to a post I made. Thats right..ME!!!ME ME ME.. ha aha ha....damn male menopause

 

[gabrielle]

...and here's another one..it's an interesting question after all. 🙂
I am strictly 'lee, so I don't care about tickling anyone, no matter how attractive he might be
For letting someone tickle me, not talking about a few pokes and squeezes here, I definitely have to be attracted to him emotionally. Physical attraction alone would not be enough for me.

cheers
gabrielle

 

[fttickler]

ok.. a new face I have not met yet....

hi gabrielle. Welcome to the TMF. Thanks for answering my post. I am available for Birthday Parties and Bar Mitzvah's....lol

 

[steph]

What they look like doesn't matter to me. The way I feel around them is everything. Everything.

XOXO

 

[maniactickler]

As ive always said, looks and personality are equal for me. must have both.

 

[lk70]

What they look like doesn't matter to me. The way I feel around them is everything. Everything.

XOXO

What she said.

 

[fttickler]

Your Right Steph...

personally I feel with my hands. LOL Hey.. so anything new on Goddess Birthday.... Mines on Sat you know

 

[steph]

Thanx Lynnie!

Happy early birthday then Adam, and you sir are hijacking your own thread--one birthday spanking, COMING UP!

XOXO

 

[fttickler]

Ooooooo

promise... and ywould that be you administering it???? he he he

 

[amalelee4u]

looks dont matter

when it comes to tickling appearance is not important to me.

 

[drew70]

There are several degrees of attraction. For me, women can be attractive, unattractive, or downright repulsive. I enjoy being tickled by both attractive and unattractive women. However, I would not want to be tickled by a woman who to me is repulsive. As far as looks go, I find very few women I ever see fall into the repulsive category. Even if a woman is overweight, underweight, not very pretty....I can usually find something attractive about her. A certain curve, skin tone, or hair style, perhaps.

There are also personalities and character traits that can be attractive, unattractive, or downright repulsive. Again, the only category of personality that would preclude me from enjoying tickle torture would be those few that fall into the repulsive category. Slutty women who will screw several guys at the same party. Women who insist on defending the men who beat them. Fortunately, I find such women to be few and far between, so I can enjoy tickling from the vast majority of women with whom I interact.

 

[Mimi]

What Ann and Steph said.

Appearance means nothing to me. The only person I both tickle and get intimate with is Lazzy, so he is the only one who needs to be attractive to me. And in my eyes, he's the sexiest man in the world.

Since I won't be intimate with anyone else I engage in tickle play with, what they look like means nothing at all. I need to be emotionally and mentally comfortable with them in order to have a good time, but it's all about the personality and nothing about the shell it's cased in.

Mimi 😉

 

[Deadsea7777]

What they look like doesn't matter to me. The way I feel around them is everything. Everything.

XOXO

A lady that smoke without filter, a rare exquisite mushroom so rare to find but so hallucinogenic. If you find it, bite it!

 

[kingp]

Some attraction is needed....

There is usually a physical attraction at first and then an emotional one just kicks it up a whole lotta notches.

There have been cases in my youth though where I didn't think a woman was attractive until I found out she was ticklish. Then it set off like a radar or something. Has that ever happened to any of the other ler men here?



ROPE. TREE. TERRORIST.

SOME ASSEMBLY REQUIRED.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Well, I'm strictly a lee so the ONLY time I would EVER tickle someone is in an attempt to get tickled back LOL but even that's a rarity - but to answer the question, looks really don't play a part in who I'd feel comfortable being tickled by. It all depends on the person and what kind of relationship we have. I used to work with a G-O-R-G-E-O-U-S guy, and I mean gorgeous, but I never ever wanted him to tickle me cause he's a jerk. I mean we got along alright between us, but the way he treated other people was horrible. If he ever would have tickled me I probably would have just laughed it off, but I would NOT have enjoyed it. I also used to work with a guy who was not, by traditional standards, very attractive, but we had a GREAT time working together. He tickled me once or twice (until he quit *sigh* so hard to find good help these days) and I absolutely loved it 🙂 I was always egging him on, teasing him, secretly hoping he'd strike again LOL So, to make a very long story short, it all depends on the relationship 🙂 My rambling is done 🙂

 

[Mislaffsalot]

I think I somewhat have to be attracted to the guy that's tickling me, or the guy I'm tickling. I don't really know why, it's just that way with me.

 

[jersey_tickler]

That's what I'm saying, i'm glad we see eye to eye missy!

If I'm just tickling someone for the hell of it, i have to at least be friends with them. I don't necessarily have to find them attractive, but we have to have a friendship basis. And I'll admit, my new girlfriend, is very attractive. Blonde, 5"9", very well endowed, and a size 10 shoe. But she is so much like me, and we have a great connection. But I'm not gonna lie and say that her gorgeous looks weren't what drew me to her. Physical attraction to me is always the start of the hunt, so to speak. But obviously you can be the most beautiful woman in the world and also the biggest b#### too.

And I personally think that it's easy for people that aren't very attractive to not care about the way their ideal mate looks too. I'm not trying to step on any toes here. My stepsister and I came up with this theory being that we have both been in Psychology. So just know that I'm not picking on anyone, and if anyone is offended I apologize.

And I may sound shallow, but it's not all about who I am. I see the inner beauty too, because I've found other women attractive that my friends wouldn't touch with a 391/2 foot pole.

 

[lk70]

And I personally think that it's easy for people that aren't very attractive to not care about the way their ideal mate looks too. I'm not trying to step on any toes here. My stepsister and I came up with this hypothesis being that we have both been in Psychology.

Well ouch.