I really hate it

[sillywiggles]

When I like a guy and all they do is use me. I don't have any back bone I just really hate it beacuse I am nice girl and I like help people but when it come down it. When I need something it like I get slap in the face. I just don't want to do anymore. Beacuse I hate being a bitch but sometime i am beacuse it piss me off.

 

[socktickler86]

ooo sounds like we got a story brewing here!

 

[Gothika]

i hear ya thereu dont need people like that in your life it sucks that people crap on the good ones just keep being your self no matter what happens 🙂

 

[love feet]

When I like a guy and all they do is use me. I don't have any back bone I just really hate it beacuse I am nice girl and I like help people but when it come down it. When I need something it like I get slap in the face. I just don't want to do anymore. Beacuse I hate being a bitch but sometime i am beacuse it piss me off.

This is my problem in relationship's to!
because s of that i have learned never to fully trust people!!
that is NOT to say i do not trust but i just ex-pt description as part of life!!!.

 

[sillywiggles]

I do got some good guy friend more like brother I tell them it hard for me meet a guy and try to trust them take me a long time to warm up and have my back but other guys get kinda mad b.c it take me a while to warm up to them

 

[Gothika]

always good to have friends like that and for every one its different for some its takes longer then others does not mean anything is the matter with them hopfully u can find a good man that can understand that and be there for u i think the guys that get made just want sex that is just my opinion tho hope things get better for you 🙂

 

[MrMacphisto]

When I like a guy and all they do is use me. I don't have any back bone I just really hate it beacuse I am nice girl and I like help people but when it come down it. When I need something it like I get slap in the face. I just don't want to do anymore. Beacuse I hate being a bitch but sometime i am beacuse it piss me off.

Maybe you're just approaching the wrong guys. Being introspective about what you want in a guy sometimes helps. You might figure out that you need to change a few of the things you aim for.

There are usually some red flags that come up when you're associating with a user.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Men are fools! Hate too break it you you. You have something else, a mind - use that!!! Become something and not someone!!

 

[socktickler86]

Men are fools! Hate too break it you you. You have something else, a mind - use that!!! Become something and not someone!!

How does one turn into a thing?

 

[Fire_Sprite]

How does one turn into a thing?

Cosmic radiation.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

It happens to everyone, babe. Sorry to hear you're frustrated.

 

[miskiduk]

There's a lot of shit people out there. Likewise, there's just a lot of shit out there full-stop! Don't let it get to you so much, and don't let it make you be "a bitch" because of it. You can be better than that, similar reasons are probably why they're arseholes in the first place. Break the chain, always be the best you can be. It's never a weakness to remain optimistic and good-natured - how much harder is that than the opposite? That's the way to beat it, always.
Keep your spirits up, good people are out there and I hope you find them. Now smile, oherwise we'll all have to come and tickle you 😉

 

[sillywiggles]

ah no tickling me I am too ticklish lol 🙂

 

[miskiduk]

See, you've cheered up already - or do you need more therapy 🙂

 

[sillywiggles]

lol no I am good

 

[GQguy]

Interesting. I think you must be honest with yourself as to why you like guys that have the potential to treat you poorly. Once you understand why I think you'll fair better. Remember that you must take responsibility for your life....or forever be controlled it.

GQ