I think my gf knows....

[watermellon]

Well I've been seeing this girl since about mid april and we've really hit it off. I haven't said anything to her about tickling turning me on. Will have playful tickle fights sometimes and the other day we were laying in bed and she started to tickle me and I got hard as a rock in like .3 seconds. She goes "I think someone likes being tickled" to which I replied "nah it has a mind of its own" Idk if she believed me or not but I don't feel completely comfortable admitting my fetish (Im sure she has her own) but she likes tickling me, she thinks its funny that im outrageously ticklish. idk how to tell her

 

[ticklehound]

She knows, bro. She knows. Just admit it the next time she tickles you. "Yea, I like being tickled."

 

[watermellon]

fuck it. I think I'll admit it to her. Hopefully it goes good and some time in the future I can be tied up and tickled crazy by her

 

[rhiannon]

idk how to tell her

You just let the perfect moment pass! Geez, would it have been so hard to just answer "I sure as hell do!" when she asked you if you like it? Especially since you know she likes tickling you?

 

[watermellon]

yea I missed that opportunity. I just thought she might think I was weird or something

 

[asutickler]

If you act like it's some huge, shameful secret, you're going come across as some kind of weirdo or creep. Next time she mentions it, confirm her suspicions. But be casual and don't make a big deal about it. Everyone has quirks in the bedroom; this one is yours. Hell, maybe she'll tell you some of hers in return. Don't make it a big deal, and it won't be a big deal. 🙂

I'm hardly the smoothest or most charming guy around, but I've never had a girlfriend/partner/date/etc. react badly to finding out about the whole tickling thing. In fact, at least one really kinda liked it. Just play it cool.

 

[Dakine]

Tell her that you like it, dude. That you were a little embarrassed to admit it at that time.

 

[watermellon]

Thanks for the advice guys

 

[ticklehound]

Yea, don't get too broken up about missing that opportunity. I surmise her inquiry came as a surprise and may have put you on guard. However, just keep in mind, be casual about it when you do admit it to her (or anyone else).

But I mean, come on! it is extremely "hard" to lie to a woman when you've got an erection. She had you dead-to-rights; no matter what you said, she already knew the answer!

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

Dude, she likes to tickle you, she's figured out tickling turns you on, and she seems cool with it. This is a dream scenario. Next time she does it, just admit that it turns you on. Don't use the word "fetish." And for crying out loud, don't open your closet and immediately reveal your secret collection of tickle porn, TMF merch, and bondage equipment. You'll have to introduce her to that stuff slowly. After you admit to her that it turns you on, try to gradually incorporate more tickling into your sex life with her. Is she one of those girls who is cool with porn, and who will watch porn with you? If so, eventually you can say, "Hey, did you know that there's actually porn out there for people who get turned on by being tickled? Here, I'll show you!" I would be real careful though about showing her too much at once. If she sees that you are a regular here on TMF, she might decide that you have a "secret life" and that puts you into the infamous "creepy" category that girls often relegate guys to for all sorts of reasons.

 

[TickleMyFancy]

Dude, she likes to tickle you, she's figured out tickling turns you on, and she seems cool with it. This is a dream scenario. Next time she does it, just admit that it turns you on. Don't use the word "fetish." And for crying out loud, don't open your closet and immediately reveal your secret collection of tickle porn, TMF merch, and bondage equipment. You'll have to introduce her to that stuff slowly. After you admit to her that it turns you on, try to gradually incorporate more tickling into your sex life with her. Is she one of those girls who is cool with porn, and who will watch porn with you? If so, eventually you can say, "Hey, did you know that there's actually porn out there for people who get turned on by being tickled? Here, I'll show you!" I would be real careful though about showing her too much at once. If she sees that you are a regular here on TMF, she might decide that you have a "secret life" and that puts you into the infamous "creepy" category that girls often relegate guys to for all sorts of reasons.

All good advise!

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

All good advise!

Thanks 🙂 I had to learn most of this stuff the hard way myself -lol.

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

Dude, you didn't miss any opportunity. Your dick spilled the beans already. Spared you the embarrassment of having to find the right words and all that crap.

You're golden, my friend.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Dude, you didn't miss any opportunity. Your dick spilled the beans already. Spared you the embarrassment of having to find the right words and all that crap.

You're golden, my friend.

This is correct, remember: actions speak louder then words! 🙂

 

[Jagermeistered]

Dude, she likes to tickle you, she's figured out tickling turns you on, and she seems cool with it. This is a dream scenario. Next time she does it, just admit that it turns you on. Don't use the word "fetish." And for crying out loud, don't open your closet and immediately reveal your secret collection of tickle porn, TMF merch, and bondage equipment. You'll have to introduce her to that stuff slowly. After you admit to her that it turns you on, try to gradually incorporate more tickling into your sex life with her. Is she one of those girls who is cool with porn, and who will watch porn with you? If so, eventually you can say, "Hey, did you know that there's actually porn out there for people who get turned on by being tickled? Here, I'll show you!" I would be real careful though about showing her too much at once. If she sees that you are a regular here on TMF, she might decide that you have a "secret life" and that puts you into the infamous "creepy" category that girls often relegate guys to for all sorts of reasons.

I agree with this as well... The term, "fetish," is hated by society.

 

[immortalmelody]

We girls are more understanding than you might think. And, I know I have the fetish, but here's the thing. Tickling is a pretty harmless fetish to have. I could see your apprehension if you were about to unload your immense turn on of necrophilia. But she'll understand, I think. c:

 

[P[a]pi]

Dang, she gave you a perfect chance to say it too. If it comes up again just say, "I guess so." Play it off as if you didn't know until she started tickling you, like you just found out too.

 

[watermellon]

Thanks again guys. Can't tell you how much better I feel

 

[Phineas]

If it comes up again...

I see what you did there.

 

[Enderman]

Oh, she knows alright. Your willy told her so. While admittedly I have little experience in this regard, the most logical course of action to me seems to be to admit it the very next time the subject is broached - Not only was she not weirded out by it, she seemed to kind of (at the very least) like it. While she may not be "one of us" (though she may very well be, who knows), she seems to enjoy tickling you, and you definitely enjoy being tickled. Just play it cool (don't act nervous and creepy about it), say something like "Well yeah, as a matter of fact, I do enjoy being tickled." And, this is kind of risky speculation on my part, but... if you want to get her to tickle you right then and there (or to do so some more, if she already has been), add something like "What are you gonna do about it?" with a smirk or something. Granted, if you're in public at the time, given the nature and degree to which you "like" it that might be problematic... but anyway, yeah, she knows, and she likes. You hit the jackpot (or pretty damn close), bud, don't blow it.