I just can't shake that shiver of creepiness and the feeling of nausea that comes with the thought of some poor woman being a victim to this person's intentions. Too bad we can't get in contact with her just to warn the poor woman to lock her doors.
Hmm, I believe you'd do well to take some of your own advice. Some people are into things that you may not approve of, doesn't make them right or wrong unless they're physically acting on it. Just a thought 😉So you're creeped out. You're nauseated. So what?!
It's not your life or decision. It's his.
Get over it.
I'm thinking what raised the ire of so many was that he wasn't really soliciting advice in the first place, and when it was rammed down his throat he chose to ignore it and do what he wants.
The garbage that brings us shame is all of this moral hand-wringing over the very thing that's supposed to unite us all. The garbage is this shameful lynch-mob mentality to go after one of our own, along with anybody who has the "gall" to defend him.And there you have it; garbage like this is part of what brings us shame.
OMG. Tickling one's aunt is "assault??"Go ahead, defend what amounts to assault. And if you don't like being called out for that, guess what? Follow your own advice and "get over it".
And while Coldneck is off licking his wounds from that devastating blow, allow me to point out the profound lack of maturity in asking a question and then metaphorically putting fingers in both ears while singing "LA LA LA LA I DON'T HEEEAR YOUUU!"BTW, don't bother answering; you are now on my Ignore list.
Oh God, this just keeps getting better and better. Yeah, I can just hear THAT conversation...It's too bad we don't know the names of anyone involved; if we did, we could warn this woman to look out.
Why does a man climb a mountain? Because it's there. Why does a man tickle his Aunt's feet. Same reason. It's no more complicated than that.
It's pretty clear to see that I'm not.I hope you're not comparing someone's aunt to a mountain here?
Of course, Mistress. I hear and obey.Because if you do that, don't ever try to complain again when someone uses tickling someone against their will and rape in the same post.
Did I read that correctly? Tickling someone and rape is comparable?? Wow, how misinformed some people are.
It's pretty clear to see that I'm not.
It isn't sex and it isn't harmful, so I'm not going to judge him.
It's those consequences that we're trying to warn the OP.
I'm just wondering who besides myself has difficulty taking this story seriously, especially with the old man in question conveniently absent and hence, unable to present his side of the story. Quite frankly, I don't believe a word of it, and here's why.Okay, I will share a little story here that I haven't told to very many people before, because up to this day I still feel uncomfortable about it. I hear so often, that it doesn't matter if the person tickling others gets aroused from it or not, but believe me, it does!
When I was younger, my grandma used to have neighbors that I sometimes used to visit and bring them leftovers from what my grandma cooked. They were about my grandma's age, and the guy always wanted a hug. I never quite liked it, but hey....I was a kid, so I did it. When I grew older, about 14, 15, one day when the guy hugged me I realized that he had a boner pressing against me. I never ever went there again, I felt confused, dirty, used and abused. And that was just a hug!
It does something in people when you use them to get your rocks off, and even though it took me a long time to realize that it happened, in the end I realized what was going on, and it made me feel bad. Eventually, stuff like this comes out, and there most likely will be hard feelings involved.
I'm just wondering who besides myself has difficulty taking this story seriously, especially with the old man in question conveniently absent and hence, unable to present his side of the story. Quite frankly, I don't believe a word of it, and here's why.
You said you were 14-15 years old? And this guy you said was your grandparents age? That would put him at about 55-65 years old. Men of that age don't achieve erections that easily. We're talking the marketing demographic for Viagra, here. Unless you "examined" him, for all you know he may have had something in his pocket, a scenario I find a lot more plausible than an old man sporting a hard-on like that of man in his 20s. Unless you're going to tell us that at 14, you'd had enough familiarity with male genitalia that you could identify an erection beyond the shadow of a doubt.
Secondly, even if the guy did have an erection, so what? It's a bodily function that we can't always turn on and off like a light switch. Many guys wake up every morning with a full erection that has absolutely zilch to do with sexual arousal. Sometimes, Little Elvis stands at attention at odd times during the day or evening.
Third, even if he was truly aroused, you're only assuming that you were the cause of it. For all you knew, he could have had an image or scene stuck in his head, the way sometimes that song in your head just won't go away. Without his testimony, we can only speculate as to what caused his alleged arousal.
Fourth, even if you were the cause of his alleged arousal, that doesn't mean he planned for it to happen. He may have been taken by surprise and felt worse about it than you claim to.
But no, it makes for better drama and impact if we all just assume he was deliberately fondling the neighbor's granddaughter, which would of course make him a pedophile, rendering this entire "example" moot, since the OP's Aunt was in her thirties.
But of course, that was the whole point of this story. To cast people like the OP in the same moral category as pedophiles. To suggest that not only is tickling somebody unaware of your fetish akin to rape, it's akin to pedophilia as well.
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To cast people like the OP in the same moral category as pedophiles.