TIP # 19 How long to tickle?
TIP # 19 How long to tickle?
I know this was a question asked on a previous thread but I will give my take hear in the tips section because it is after all a tip.
First of all it depends on what you are looking for in a tickle session. If you do not care how your ticklee feels about it, then tickle away, but be warned, you will not get as many chances to tickle if you overstep the time table of good tickling.
Tickling can and does turn unpleasent if you go to long with it.
I say this, tis better to leave em wanting more tickling than wishing you would get your freaken fingers off of them.
A few sessions of you not knowing when to quit can put you in the tickle turd hall of fame.
Usually you want your ticklee to enjoy it, thus wanting you to do it more.
HOW DO I KNOW WHEN TO STOP?
This is not so hard, just look for the signs.
1. The word stop as any experienced tickler knows, does not always mean stop. Stop, can either mean, "I am enjoying the crap outta this, or it can mean, "Please, stop, this is not fun anymore!"
You need to know the differences. When your victim says stop in an excited energetic tone, you pretty much know to tickle on because they are eating it up.
When they say stop in a tired, drained, painful, wining, wimpering, tired, angry, or crying tone. STOP YOU BASTARD!!
Unless you plan on being a lonely tickler for quite a while, and who the heck wants that?
Stop usually means, "I need a break for a sec." When my girlfriend says stop, even if she seems like she doesn't want me to, I stop for a sec. By doing so, you give them time to breath and get ready for more ticklin that they love. I will also pause my hand wherever I was ticklin, and then say in a cute voice, " do woo weally want me to stwop?" Then my girlfriend hastely and so adorably replies, "HECK NO!"
2. FATIGUE
If your partner seems to be getting worn out, you need to call it a day. Tickling can feel aweful if done to much. Please tell me you do care about your victims feelings. Unless you are a video producer in charge of models who could possibly be faking it, do not over tickle.
3. What is your relationship with your ticklee?
If you know and have a relationship with your ticklee wether it be friends, lovers, whatever, being a tickle turd will not help the relationship. Yes, tickling is just awesome and we all love it like crazy but it should never come before the health of the relationship between you and that person.
You are not a tickle vid producer, and your partner is not a paid silicone model. I am afraid people want to do all that they see on videos. That is not a good idea. Some videos maybe, but not all of them.
Trying to do some good ticklin by watching a video is like trying to be a better lover by watching porn where to fake people fake it in front if a camera. Maybe, it will help, but be careful not to take everything you see as beneficial.
I will close this tip by again saying. Be a tickler that someone wants to get tickled by, not some dictator who people cross their arms and run from.