If you love ticklin, you gotta check out this thread

[iluv2tkl]

here here

SyDemon, I find that we are kindred spirits.

You have the same feelings toward tickling as I do.
You have hit the nail on the head.
Me and my fiancee thoroughly love the feeling of what we share, and it is to be enjoyed.

Now my girlfriend's ultimate fantasy is to be tied up and tickled by her one true love, and when we get married, that will take place.
The difference in this type of boundage is that she wants me to do it, and we are lovers.

She also knows that I would stop when I need to.

For now, I just tickle her unbound and it is amazing.

I am glad you like my tips. I get extremely turned on just by thinking about tickling her, but no one else. Then when I actually do tickle her, well, I am reeeeaaaaaaaalllllyyyy excited.

 

[Mousepawz]

It's okay, asking is the only way of knowing. As far as with tips, I was merely expressing that I knew of your desire to only play with your fiance, which is good. And no, I have no desire to play with one that is not into playing with me. I don't really have to go out looking for lers to play with, somehow they seem to find me.

I am always upfront and honest about tickling and just about everything else. I am very protective of my body as well, I am a very jumpy person. The people that tickle me know that I allow them to. Sounding a little silly, one must know they have my permission to lay hands on me.

I manage to completely seperate my sexual tickling from my playful tickling. I am just that kind of person. I am that way with other things as well, friendships, horsing around, lots of fun stuff lol.

Pawz

 

[SyDemon1]

Ah...

iluv2tkl, yes I agree with you on that one.

When a 'lee wishes to be tied up and tickled, a new level of trust has been attained and I congratulate you my friend.

Your fiancee places her complete trust in your tickling hands and it is the perfect bliss......(dreaming)

Yes, it is a very very exciting thing to know that your 'lee loves your tickling so much that she wants to be tied up to actually make sure that she does not interrupt your session with too much struggling.

While I mentioned that a bound unwilling 'lee is traumatising to me, a 'lee requesting to be bound simply blows my mind to bits!

 

[SyDemon1]

Drool

*Drooling over the fantasy* 😱

 

[iluv2tkl]

O I C

Oh I see.

You females are certainly more capable of controlling your bodies.

I understand now.

I guess, this type of ticklin that is done to you is a way of life, and to you it is easy to separate the two.

Us guys could not do that. I mean being tickled sexually by a female in one instance and then being tickled by many females at one time and saying that was not sexual.

If I guy could do that , I would call him lying.

I do understand this. My lover had been tickled before at different times in her life as well, just as all of us have, but she says that there is simply no remote comparison between the two.

I had a hard time accepting at first that she had been tickled.
To me it was like she had lost her virginity
(which we both still have).
I however was the first to tickle her while she was completely passive to it, the other times were quick playful things.

To this very day though it still hurts me though.
I mean we both agree that tickling is a highly sexual fetish we have and she has fantasized about it for years.
My problem is that there was a guy before me that had little tickle fights with her. Now granted they were both attacking and it there was no clothes removal, and she said that it was all just fun and she never really felt any ticlkling because of the wrestling with the arms, this still bothers me.

I guess I can't see how if she does have a tickle fetish, which she admits she does, how can she say that was not in any way more than harmless horseplay which she claims?

This still eats at me, for the most part I have forgotten it.

MAYBE you can help me on this one paws.

 

[iluv2tkl]

one more thing

Another added heartache is thatI had never tickled a girl until her because it was sacred to me.

I definately though am the only one to tickle her while she was submissive, unclothed in certain areas, and directly sexually.

I guess I just have to trust her on this one which I do.

 

[iluv2tkl]

yeah SyDemon my friend

When you find a girl like I have, you will be very very pleased.
My friend, I hope you do as well, you deserve it.

 

[iluv2tkl]

Oh wow

Well, SyDemon, my brutha.

I just noticed that you are only 9 months and 1 day older than me!

We also have some of the same interests as well as views on the sacred power of tickling.

Ah, a kindred spirit.

I bet you feel my pain on this other thing about my girl being tickled before. I believe her but it is just something I am trying to get over.

 

[iluv2tkl]

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DON'T FORGET, THIS IS STILL A TIPS THREAD.

PLEASE:

POST COMMENTS, TIPS, OR QUESTIONS

mousepaws and I are here to assist!

 

[SyDemon1]

Oh yeah

Well actually I do have a partner, she's not as into tickling as I am but she is completely understanding on my fetish and allows me to tickle her as a sign of love and trust (darling I cannot thank you enough in this lifetime).

She was also the very first lady I've ever tickled. She had not been involved in tickling activities before since she's not really into it. She is however, the most ticklish lady I've ever met is not shy to laugh out loud when I tickle her.

I cannot accurately duplicate your situation in my mind (that your partner has had tickle activities before) but if she had I would be wondering about what she would have done during such activites. I understand what you mean regarding the "virginity" concept.
It would seem like another person had a share of this sacred side of her before.

I wish you all the very best for your wedding, if I were you, boy would I be playful after the wedding event!

For me, the day would probably end with me chasing her around the home with tickling and finally ending up engaging in a lovely and passionate tickle fight on the bed.

 

[Mousepawz]

Well iluv, that's a toughy. I have to say that is something you and her will have to workout. I will say you have to trust her when she tells you such. That she even told you shows a trust and desire to be open about things.

Honesty is key. I have to say, I have experienced tickling sexually with a partner before, though I am still a virgin (tee hee would never believe it). Think of it kinda this way if you so choose. Almost every person has had some form of a relationship before they're married or engaged. Acts such as kissing and making out can be construed as sexual contact. For me when tickling is sexual, it is a lot like that, kissing.

You can think of it that way. I think this is probably something you need to talk to her about and let her know how you are really feeling about it. Keeping each other informed of one another's feelings in any relationship (friend or sexual) is important to maintain a healthy one.

Either way, I wish you luck.

Pawz

 

[His Divine Shadow]

Great ones, iluv2tkl and pawz! Just wish I had someone to try #28 out on. (Boo Hoo!)🙁

And yes, I do get your avatar. 😎 Very cool idea!😎

 

[iluv2tkl]

Thanks guys

I do trust her. We are beautiful together. Tonight I held her in my arms on the couch as we talked about our love. We kissed a fiew times as I lightly caresses her back. She really likes that.

I guess paws, I am just afraid because it does seem so unreal how we found each other, but I am accepting that my time has finally come after 21 years of being single.

Yeah SyDemon, we regularely talk about our honeymoon night, and if we do not get married soon, it will happen early.

I haven't forgot you His Divine Shadow, you are my most frequent commenter, thanks buddy.

 

[iluv2tkl]

Hey SyDemon Tip # 29 Get em into it

I know some ways that might make your current partner more into tickling. Of course you sound like if there was a way, you would know it.

Here are some things I think would be worth a try. The goal is for her to just enjoy it.

Body Caress:
Have her lay down on her back on a comfy surface with a pillow under her head. You can do this with a shirt on or off. Now have her rest her arms on the surface she is laying on above her head.
Take your hands and just rub her from her elbows all the way down the sides of her body to her hips. I did this to my girl tonight. Her resonse, "I just love the way that feels". I mentioned this on a previous tip. If you want to try and incorporate some tickling in start using some fingers instead of your whole hand. This is a sensual and relaxing technique.

Back or Tummy caresses:

Almost everyone likes a back or tummy rub. Just caress her all over her back or stomach slowely working in tickling techniques.

If she likes the way something feels, she is going to want you to do it.

Foot rubs are a good way to weave in tickling as well.

Oh, and I though you might wanna know that I did that bra trick tonight too. I unhooked it from the back while she was laying on her stomach and I tickled her back. I could go as intense as I wanted because she had incintive not to get up.

 

[SyDemon1]

WOW

I have not tried many different ways of getting her into it, a lot of my tickling on her is fun and not sensual. That is mainly because I hardly have intimate times with her nowsdays 🙁 I have been busy with my stuff and her with hers.

Your tip sounds superb! I would try that when I get the chance to. However, instead of getting her to lie down and thus letting her know that I'm about to tickle her, I'll going to just do it when she least expect it 😀 combo with tip #22! "surprise!"

I also want to take this opportunity to tell you that all your tips and contributions and sharing of experiences in such great detail is thoroughly appreciated! It is when you open up that encourages people to do the same.

 

[iluv2tkl]

dude that is beautiful

Thanks SyDemon. I feel like you are my brother from another mother!

I wish you the best as well.

 

[His Divine Shadow]

Thanks a bunch for #29! I really needed an idea like that.😀

 

[iluv2tkl]

You are welcome HDS

If there is any thing I can help you with, let me know.

Sometimes I cannot bring to my memory things I know about tickling but when someone presents a question or problem, I usually have the way.

 

[elder]

Thanks to iluv2

Hi iluv2 !!

I have just read through your thread and I have to say: THANK YOU!!!

The tips that you posted are more then GREAT!! They are overwhelming...

😉

And thanks that you kept up posting, even when the replies were quite rare...

:weird:

I love tickling, in all of its forms.
Light tickling, sensual tickling, ...
But if I have the choice I prefer bondage and mercyless tickling. "Tickle Torture" you could say...
I like it equally to tickle or be tickled.
Unfortunately I do not have much experience, since I haven't had many chances to tickle or be tickled intensely.
🙁

Reading through your posts was a very unique experience... There are not many people like you who share their thoughts so open with everyone...

Since you always say that people should ask you questions, I have one for you:
Does your girlfriend know, that you are posting in this forum?
If yes, what are her feelings concerning this fact?

Thank you once more for the great work you have already done!!
I can't wait to hear more of your experiences...

😉 Georg

P.S.: Sorry, some of my sentences might sound a bit weird... but I am from Austria, so my mother tongue is German and not English. I hope that it is not too bad and that you can guess what I wanted to say... :weird:

 

[iluv2tkl]

Thank you elder

Your response was great and I apreciate it.
I had no problem understanding your words, you type very well.

To answer your question, no I have not told my girlfriend.

I do not believe that she would have a problem with it, but I haven't told her. I know that I discuss some intimate things on here and it is possible that she may not be ok with that.
The way I see it, know one knows who I am or who she is.
I do put info of myself on here but not too much.

There are certain factors in my life that would possibly make it harmful for people to know who I am and that I wrote these things.

I am sure you and other tickle lovers can understand that.
I do not attend tickle gatherings nor do anything with mainstream tickling.

As I have said before, I only like tickling the woman I love and be tickled by her so I am in kinda a different classification of ticklers, but that doesn't affect the quality of the tips I give.

Thanks for your question, feel free to ask more. If you do not get to do alot of tickling as many tickle lovers don't get to, I am sure you have questions reguarding tickling.

I am here to help all of you.

 

[elder]

Hi iluv2!

Thanks for your answer...

I completely understand that you want to remain anonymous.
I did it the same way for a long time. But some time ago I changed my mind.
I think the chances to meet someone who has similar interests are much higher if I reveal some personal information about myself. That was when I put the keyword "tickling" into my icq profile (by the way: my icq number is 159934598, if anyone wants to know) and so on.

Since there seem to be absolutely no people interested in tickling in the area where I live, the chance that someone will recognize me is quite low. And even if that would happen: I don't have a problem stating what I think. I love tickling and I stand in for it if necessary.
For example also all of my best friends know, that I have this kind of fetish... They think it is a bit strange, but they accept it...

 

[elder]

continueing

....

Well I don't know what happened, but suddenly my browser has posted what I typed, even if I wasn't finished yet...
:weird:
So I will just continue...

what I wanted to say was, that now I don't have any problems in revealing my identity, but I fully understand everyone who has...
For those you haven't already noticed: I have also posted a pic of myself in the thread called "what does a tickle luver look like"... and somewhere I think I have also posted the URL of my homepage, if I am not too wrong...

I have had some really cool tickling experiences... but that's already some time ago...
but every discussion about tickling, every photo, or every other thing which regards tickling makes me feel very hot...

So, iluv2 please go ahead with your tips... I can't wait any longer... 😉
They make me feel very excited...

And to give you some inspiration I have another question for you:
Since my favourite tickling spot are the armpits, can you give us any special tip for armpit tickling? I think you didn't mention armpits before, did you?

best wishes from Austria to all TickleTheater members...
😎
Georg

 

[iluv2tkl]

I understand

I hope you find that special someone for a tickle partner as I have.

The number one thing you need to look for is love first.
As weird as it may seem, forget about the tickling.
Alot of people love tickling and being tickled but just do not know it yet because they have not had a good experience. You have already read in a previous tip that you must make tickling enjoyable to your partner and then they will want it more.
Woman like to be touched in a loving way by the man they love.
I really don't see how a woman who falls in love with a man could not in some way enjoy tickling.
Surely a man that has read these tips could turn into a tickle lover very fast.

Just look for a good girl who you have a great relationship and chemistry with, then go from there. Just remember, when you find this girl, don't rush things when it comes to tickling.

I also recommend that you do not sat thing like,
"I want to tickle you mad".
Now that turns my girlfriend on because she knows she loves it but you will scare other girls off with that.

Just tell them that you want to touch them and please them with your touch. After all, that is the truth.

My next few tips I am sure will help you. You inspired me to write them. These tips will be about...

Creating a love for tickling.
and
Armpit tips.

Thanks again my friend for your participation

 

[iluv2tkl]

one more thing

You said that tickling makes you hot. Well, me too buddy.

Nothing turns me on more than tickling my girlfriend, especially when it is on bare flesh.

I tickled her today as well, and we are also planning on doing some tickling tommorow.

You learn how to make a female feel good with your touch, and she can't get enough of it.

Today I tickled my girl bare feet, armpits, chest, tummy, back, and all of her legs. Of course she got so turned on I had to tickle another unmentionable place as well.

Gee, I wonder if some of you think I am lying about all the tickling I do. Well, believe it, and you can too if you get good at it and do what I have said to get a tickle partner.

I cannot stress enough that you do not need to go looking for a girl who likes tickling if you are looking for the ultimate partner.

I know it makes you hot, but worry about getting a good girl first, then you can take care of the tickling thing later.

 

[iluv2tkl]

Tip # 30 Creating a love for ticklin, the psycology behind the pleasure

Some things in life we are just born liking or disliking.
There was no incident that sparked my love for tickling at a young age, I just always thought about how much I would love to do it.
Somehow I lasted all this long without tickling a female until my girlfriend came along. She is my one and only tickle partner.

Now for other people, the first time sets in their psycological make up wether they like something or not.
Take for example, fishing. If someones first time fishing, they don't catch anything, the weather is bad, they get sick, bugs bite them, or any other bad thing that could happen, they will likely not like fishing for as long as they live.
However if they catch fish and have a great time, they will likely always like fishing.

Tickling is much the same way. If someones first times are good, then they will like it. If they were constantely held down and tickled against there will and laughed unwillingly to tears then odds are they will not like tickling.

If you find someone who has not had much tickling experience, then you can pretty much program them to like it. Wich actually, teaching someone to like tickling, I think is doing them a favour.

My girlfriend and I were both born with the fetish of tickling, yet even if she didn't know wether she liked it or not, I could teach her body to by making it feel good. If something feels good to the body, the body wants to do it and usually will.

For instance, you can take a young male and young female with absolutely no knowledge of sex and put them on a desolate island with no outside contact. By the time they hit 20, they will have at least had sex once and probably many many times.
Why? Because the body discovers naturally what feels good and then wants to do it.

Use this to your advantage and get someone into tickling by making it enjoyable. That is if they have not already had really bad expriences with tickling or any type of touching.