If you were dating someone and found out that he/she didn't like tickling.....

[King of tickles]

I agree about the tolerating it. And none of my friends know about my fetish. They know I usually tickle girls I like once I get to know them but I don't do any hardcore tickling. Just a couple seconds of it and thats it. I'm glad my last ex wasn't friends with any of mine because she knew I liked tickling. It never got far enough into it for her to figure out how much I was into it. I think alot of the discussion here is how can you tell she hates it or is tolerant? I mean, alot of girls and people will say they hate being tickled but actually meaning they truly hate it is something else. Being annoyed or being tickled all the tie and/or long periods of time they might hate. They may not mind if it's a few seconds here and there or every once in awhile.

 

[pinosavac]

I have relations when girl hate to be tickled and it can also can be great relation. Girl-guy relation is much more complex than one common think. Also I had girls who hate to be tickled but like to tickle me! Life is strange 🙂

 

[King of tickles]

I find it annoying when girls say they hate being tickled yet tickle all of their friends, male or female.

 

[smokinj]

That's awesome. Unfortunately for you, all her friends and new boyfriends definitely have been told you are into tickling as a sexual stimulant. That's the only thing that kept me from telling my ex. I knew if it ended that tickle fetish would be outed to everyone, and she knew lots of people I knew.

Well I never came right out and said tickling turns me on but she got the idea. She suspected it I guess but it was never an all the time thing, just a playful poke or quick foot tickle most of the time and she used to tell me ALL her boyfriends tickled her. I bet MOST people tickle at least sometimes. Even if they aren't getting sexual satisfaction out of it. For a fetish, this one and foot fetish seem waaaay mild compared to some unmentionables. lol

 

[ndj101982]

Well I never came right out and said tickling turns me on but she got the idea. She suspected it I guess but it was never an all the time thing, just a playful poke or quick foot tickle most of the time and she used to tell me ALL her boyfriends tickled her. I bet MOST people tickle at least sometimes. Even if they aren't getting sexual satisfaction out of it. For a fetish, this one and foot fetish seem waaaay mild compared to some unmentionables. lol

Yea I hear ya. I used to tickle my ex all the time and she knew it turned me on because it used to get me aroused and in the mood quite easily. She never thought it was a fetish or anything so she thought nothing of it and used to tickle me first sometimes because I think she liked when I tickled her. Most new couples have a lot of tickling. It's really one of the best ways to flirt before getting intimate. I don't think my ex told anyone, although it was awkward after the one of the first nights we hung out. I pulled off her shoes and tickled her feet a few times and she told her mom we tickled each other all night...lol. No biggie though.

 

[smokinj]

Yea I hear ya. I used to tickle my ex all the time and she knew it turned me on because it used to get me aroused and in the mood quite easily. She never thought it was a fetish or anything so she thought nothing of it and used to tickle me first sometimes because I think she liked when I tickled her. Most new couples have a lot of tickling. It's really one of the best ways to flirt before getting intimate. I don't think my ex told anyone, although it was awkward after the one of the first nights we hung out. I pulled off her shoes and tickled her feet a few times and she told her mom we tickled each other all night...lol. No biggie though.

Yes that happened to me too very frequently, my girl would try to tickle me and she knew I would retaliate in spades lol. They seemed to genuinely enjoy being tickled and no matter how long the tickle fight lasted she/they were never mad. Highly aroused though! That is the best sex too, wow.

 

[brannyle1981]

There was this one girl I knew recently who admitted to me that she hates being tickled and doesn't like her feet being touched but would only go through with them if she was being paid since she loves money so much *she wasn't a prostitute*. And that killed it for me along with the fact that she's a drama queen because I refuse to go broke to indulge a fetish to satisfy some girl's monetary desires.

 

[ndj101982]

There was this one girl I knew recently who admitted to me that she hates being tickled and doesn't like her feet being touched but would only go through with them if she was being paid since she loves money so much *she wasn't a prostitute*. And that killed it for me along with the fact that she's a drama queen because I refuse to go broke to indulge a fetish to satisfy some girl's monetary desires.

knowing she's only doing it for money is a kill-joy.

 

[brannyle1981]

knowing she's only doing it for money is a kill-joy.

Yeah, it's one thing to not like someone's fetish but it's quite another to go through something like that strictly for $$$

 

[ndj101982]

Yeah, it's one thing to not like someone's fetish but it's quite another to go through something like that strictly for $$$

That's why I refuse to ever go to one of those arranged footparties or do paid sessions with tickle models because I feel like they are secretly looking at you like some creep that is paying them to do something they aren't into. Much like the way I refuse to go to strip clubs and pay a girl money to shake her tits in front of me because I know most of the time they just think the guys are all perverts (and believe me you find lots of creepers at strip clubs), but they see you as cash machines so they pretend to like it.

 

[brannyle1981]

That's why I refuse to ever go to one of those arranged footparties or do paid sessions with tickle models because I feel like they are secretly looking at you like some creep that is paying them to do something they aren't into. Much like the way I refuse to go to strip clubs and pay a girl money to shake her tits in front of me because I know most of the time they just think the guys are all perverts (and believe me you find lots of creepers at strip clubs), but they see you as cash machines so they pretend to like it.

Yeah, different strokes for different folks. I always found it funny how someone will put another person down for liking feet or tickling yet give major props to someone who does porn or whatever's the norm.

 

[ndj101982]

Yeah, different strokes for different folks. I always found it funny how someone will put another person down for liking feet or tickling yet give major props to someone who does porn or whatever's the norm.

I don't get that either. My friends made me feel awkward once when I mentioned I once subscribed to a porn site (it was a tickle site but I didn't want to tell them that), yet they drop 200 bills at a strip club on any given weekend and don't see how that is 10 times what I spent for a whole month's subscription to a clip site.

I went to a strip club a couple of times and it's a scam. I didn't even ask and these two girls walked over and sat on my lap for like a minute (probably closer to 40 seconds), got up and each said "that's 20 bucks a piece." I said that's not right and they threatened to get the bouncer (who probably would've taken me in a back room and beat the fuck outta me) so I reluctantly paid them and then avoided any strippers like the plague the rest of the time my friends were there.

Also, like you said, how can people who have fetishes be dubbed creepy when you have weird looking old guys paying for "private" dances with strippers young enough to be their daughters?

 

[brannyle1981]

Also, like you said, how can people who have fetishes be dubbed creepy when you have weird looking old guys paying for "private" dances with strippers young enough to be their daughters?

Probably because they couldn't get any of their daughter's friends to do it since it would sully their reputation as an upstanding citizen.

 

[smokinj]

That's why I refuse to ever go to one of those arranged footparties or do paid sessions with tickle models because I feel like they are secretly looking at you like some creep that is paying them to do something they aren't into. Much like the way I refuse to go to strip clubs and pay a girl money to shake her tits in front of me because I know most of the time they just think the guys are all perverts (and believe me you find lots of creepers at strip clubs), but they see you as cash machines so they pretend to like it.

I am 100% on board with that, going to strip clubs is a complete waste of money. I guess I'm not turned on by seeing a beautiful girl(sometimes) or a crack ***** shake her tits at me and expect me to keep giving her money. What do I get out of it, not much. I mean, you aren't going home with her! Please. The only acceptable time to go to such a place is a batchelor party. Just my opinion.

 

[ndj101982]

Probably because they couldn't get any of their daughter's friends to do it since it would sully their reputation as an upstanding citizen.

Last time I was at a strip club, in January, this attractive stripper was with this rich looking asian businessman. Apparently the guy goes in whenever he's in town and likes to meet with that girl and he must pay out a ton of money to her to give him private dances. She acted super nice to him, smiled, laughed the whole time. As I'm on my way out the door later on she was just finished her shift and talking to another stripper at the main entrance. I overheard her saying "that guy is so creepy but he's easy money" referring to the guy she buttered up the whole time he was there.

 

[ndj101982]

I am 100% on board with that, going to strip clubs is a complete waste of money. I guess I'm not turned on by seeing a beautiful girl(sometimes) or a crack ***** shake her tits at me and expect me to keep giving her money. What do I get out of it, not much. I mean, you aren't going home with her! Please. The only acceptable time to go to such a place is a batchelor party. Just my opinion.

I'd pay more money out in tips to the girls at Hooters than I would give a stripper money to shake her tits in my face. At least the girls at Hooters have enough self-respect to keep their clothes on, and do actual work...lol. I don't think I've been to Hooters though since I was 20 so it's been a while, and I mainly went there for the food, not the girls. I may not understand a word they would say, but being rich I'd have the universal language form of communication....A pocket full of green paper.

 

[Tickleslave83]

As a ticklee into femdom if she doesn't enjoy the tickling I can't get turned on by it.

 

[saratk]

Here's my thing...I have dated 3 girls in my life seriously, and messed around with a few others. here were my thoughts
#1. She was so incredibly ticklish on her feet, that I really couldn't tickle her very long or do anything to her feet, so ther was no way we could incorporate tickling into the relationship, but giving her little quick tickles was FUN. so it was worth it. plus she was mildly ticklish on upper body and would allow that and even liked it..broke up for other reasons.
#2. was totally fine indulging tickling at first, it was fun, then she all of a sudden stopped being ticklish on her feet (my main spot) thought it was weird and would make fun of me. made me lose all interest.
#3. currently with someone who is ticklish will allow it on upper body, especially when we are making out, which is awesome, not a fan of her feet being tickled, but not a big deal.

I've messed around with girls who loved loved loved being tickled, but we didn't connect any other way. I"d much rather have someone who is better in every other way and can tolerate a little tickling. a little is enough for me if i can watch it.

 

[ndj101982]

Here's my thing...I have dated 3 girls in my life seriously, and messed around with a few others. here were my thoughts
#1. She was so incredibly ticklish on her feet, that I really couldn't tickle her very long or do anything to her feet, so ther was no way we could incorporate tickling into the relationship, but giving her little quick tickles was FUN. so it was worth it. plus she was mildly ticklish on upper body and would allow that and even liked it..broke up for other reasons.
#2. was totally fine indulging tickling at first, it was fun, then she all of a sudden stopped being ticklish on her feet (my main spot) thought it was weird and would make fun of me. made me lose all interest.
#3. currently with someone who is ticklish will allow it on upper body, especially when we are making out, which is awesome, not a fan of her feet being tickled, but not a big deal.

I've messed around with girls who loved loved loved being tickled, but we didn't connect any other way. I"d much rather have someone who is better in every other way and can tolerate a little tickling. a little is enough for me if i can watch it.

As for girl #2, sometimes when a girl first likes you she will act more ticklish than she is just because it enhances flirting. Seems like after you got to know her better that "magic" of the early stages disappeared. I don't think it's cool she made fun of you. No girl I have ever dated gave me a hard time for tickling them. From my experience, some girls like to instigate tickle fights if they think you like to tickle.

 

[NonConTickler]

That's why I refuse to ever go to one of those arranged footparties or do paid sessions with tickle models because I feel like they are secretly looking at you like some creep that is paying them to do something they aren't into. Much like the way I refuse to go to strip clubs and pay a girl money to shake her tits in front of me because I know most of the time they just think the guys are all perverts (and believe me you find lots of creepers at strip clubs), but they see you as cash machines so they pretend to like it.

I don't get why a guy would care what a stripper thinks of him. She's nothing to him but a toy that he's renting the use of, so what does he care if she sees him as a wallet with a "creepy" guy attached to it? I'm more talking about paying strippers to let me tickle them, not just stand there and shake her boobs in my face. If I can't touch her then it is a waste of money.

 

[ndj101982]

I don't get why a guy would care what a stripper thinks of him. She's nothing to him but a toy that he's renting the use of, so what does he care if she sees him as a wallet with a "creepy" guy attached to it? I'm more talking about paying strippers to let me tickle them, not just stand there and shake her boobs in my face. If I can't touch her then it is a waste of money.

You are a terrible human being and I truly wish you'd stop trolling on people's threads.

 

[King of tickles]

I wonder if I could convince a stripper in a tickle session. Both tickling me and vice versa.

 

[ILuvShoes]

When I look for someone to join me in my life I would prefer that he have a playful side. If he doesn't right off the bat forget it. If I'm attracted to someone and get lost in his energy I might have issues with moving forward if he isn't into it.

It's not the end of the world but I won't stray. I have heard SO many people in the tickling community have, or not happy with their marriage or they make a pact with him or her to tickle someone else. Either way it's cheating. If you make that commitment then stick with it or just simply look for someone who likes tickling as much as you do ...

I personally would end the relationship. Right up front I would know and certainly won't allow the relationship to go any further. Tickling doesn't dictate my life ... I love to be tickled just like the next person and of course I can't understand why no one will tickle me but that's neither here nor there.

I love the pure enjoyment of laughing, being restrained by him in just fun playtime if it happens and he loves to tickle me to see that cute helpless reaction. Now if I could only find that "guy" LOL

 

[King of tickles]

Right here lol. I'll tickle you anytime. 🙂

 

[Laff_it_up]

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