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I'm a straight male...considering letting a male tie/torture me. Thoughts/advice?

I agree with sleepyhead, especially if you don't know this guy that well. There's safety in numbers. That being said, I've been tickled by many a gay man, and if you get to a point where you feel you can trust him, then you can go to his torture basement.
Hello,

I would make an arrangement to have it done in a public dungeon where others are around.
 
Straight yet you want a guy to tickle you?
Yeah that totally does not sound like a straight thing to do at all!
 
I'm not very active (or active at all) on here, and I really do appreciate all of the sincere advice and encouragement, much of it was very helpful.

I was, however, pretty surprised by a lot of the ignorance and homophobic reactions. A forum for those with a fetish, one would think, would have a bit more of an open minded membership.

That being said, I still haven't decided. Has nothing to do with me thinking it "makes me gay," I'm very comfortable with my sexual attraction to women. Only factor I'm considering is that he is very experienced and seems to tend toward the more intense side of the kink, so we're talking that all out. He is trustworthy and I don't doubt he'll respect my limits...just trying to learn/decide what those are! Anyway, thanks to all who offered help and encouragement. You guys are great.
 
I've been closeted about my fetish for my entire life...and I'm ready to indulge. I'm not an arrogant person, but I'm a decent looking/outgoing fellow, yet after an exhaustive but patient search, I haven't found any women nearby who share the fetish. What I have found, is a trustworthy gay man who shares the fetish, who is very keen on getting me into his dungeon and torturing me to/beyond my limits. Tickling is a largely sexual thing for me...so I'm rather conflicted. The whole "if you're blindfolded does it matter who's tickling you?" thing doesn't really make a lot of sense for me...

anyway, and thoughts/advice would be appreciated.

If you're a straight male and tickling is sexual for you(like it is for most of us) why would you even consider being tied up and tickled by another dude?
If you're that desperate, try to find a female escort or dominatrix that's open to tickling. There should be a ton of women available to tickle the crap out of you in a major city like Chicago.
Of course it'll cost you money, but a quality domme who loves tickle torture is worth it.
 
Hey, if you want to experiment with the whole bi thing, knock yourself out, its a free country.
 
I can see that others have already given quite a bit of feedback. I almost didn't respond, because the first thing that came to my mind was "Hey, if you're okay being tickled by a guy, go for it."

However, after further reflection, I have a question. You said tickling was sexual for you. Is it sexual for this man, too? Is it possible that, while he's tickling you, he's going to be getting aroused? It might sound like a minor issue to some, but have you considered how'd you feel about that?

Also, you said you aren't very active on the forum. I haven't been all that active as of late, either. However, I have been active enough to know that at least two females on this site offer paid tickle sessions ('lee or 'ler). Since you're straight, and it sounds like you'd ideally like to have a female tickle you instead of a male, you might want to look into that before having a guy do it. Also, like someone else said, there probably are some dominatrices in Chicago who could indulge you as well (though you'd probably have to pay for it).
 
Upon reflection I think the OP is simply a troll with 'unusually good color sense', like the rest of those men on this forum who've asked the same question at various times.

No harm in the consensual practice between two men previously so inclined, but can we please call a spade a spade, gentlemen, instead of attempting to recruit by subterfuge?
 
Hey,

I have sex with women.
I tickle women.
Men and women tickle me.
Does it make sense? Nope.
Does it matter that it doesn't make sense? No.

Labels are for vegetables.

Go for it. People like to get worked up about his. That's ok. It's their preference to get worked up about this. But it just doesn't matter.

You have to stop defining yourself and think instead about what makes you happy. If you want to be tickled by a gay guy, go for it. Meet him in a public space first. Then set out your limits. See if he can give you references. Be safe.

But all this business about being straight or bi or gay... It 's for the birds man. If you want more good advice, message me.
 
I was, however, pretty surprised by a lot of the ignorance and homophobic reactions. A forum for those with a fetish, one would think, would have a bit more of an open minded membership.

That's because you underestimate the mental age-range of this forum over all. People are not capable of being "open minded" here and some are just down right rude. They lack the mental capabilities to be more open minded because they live in their own little demented mind without contact with the outside world. 🙂

I still say rock it out- if he's that experienced, you should be able to tell him your reservations (like start off slow and you're not sure you're ready for HIS all out session) and he should have no issues accommodating you 🙂 You honestly probably wont be able to hammer all details until you give it a go and see how you feel, something that you might not think will bother you may and vice versa- something that you thought would bother you wont.... If you all are close enough, maybe meet for a type of test session where you go over what he typically does and see if it's something you're ok with. It might also help you relax a little. But what do I know? 🙂
 
I agree with some of the other people here that actions don't make you gay/bi only attraction and feelings do.
 
Upon reflection I think the OP is simply a troll with 'unusually good color sense', like the rest of those men on this forum who've asked the same question at various times.

No harm in the consensual practice between two men previously so inclined, but can we please call a spade a spade, gentlemen, instead of attempting to recruit by subterfuge?

The sexual ambiguity movement has been with us forever; from ancient Sumeria, to classical Greece, DeSade, so on and so forth; Rocky Horror; to this very day. Physical sexual dimorphism is one thing in homo sapiens, but what drives libido is a squirrely thing at best. Sexual ambiguity is also like a coy little social game and has unspoken flirtatious rules, but these only apply to those that wish to join in the game. If one is not into playing the game; its pointless to apply rules from other games.

A weakling, weighing ninety-eight pounds
Will get sand in his face when kicked...to the ground
And soon in the gym, with a determined chin
The sweat from his pores, as he works for his cause
Will make him glisten...and gleam
And with massage...and just a little bit of steam
He'll be pink and quite clean

He'll be a strong man, oh honey...
But the wrong man

He'll eat nutritious high protein and swallow raw eggs
Try to build up his shoulders, his chest, arm, and legs
Such an effort...if he only knew of my plan
In just seven days, I can make you a man

He'll do press-ups and chin-ups
Do the snatch, clean and jerk
He thinks dynamic tension
Must be hard work...

Such strenuous living
I just don't understand...
When in just seven days,
oh baby, I can make you a man!
 
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If he owns a "tickle dungeon" chances are once your tied down he's gonna slap a ball gag on you and literally tickle the piss out of you lol.
 
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