I'm visiting a dom soon and I need some advice.

[moose]

I've never been to a dom before but I figured you only live once so why not. Anyway since this is my first time, what should I expect? also should I tip her or something?

 

[NonConRon]

Save your money and find a girlfriend.
Eventually she'll get pissed off enough to beat your ass into submission.
AND ... you don't have to tip her.

 

[LD_Tickler]

I have zero experience in this area, but I was under the impression that generous tips are expected.

 

[NonConRon]

Here's an idea: tell her upfront that you don't believe in tipping.
Them you'll really get your money's worth.

 

[mike273273]

Dom's are very respectful and don't beat you if you don't want them to. I have been three times and each time was a playful session. The two recent times I preferred as I laughed heaps more. I didn't tip, but I am in Australia.

 

[TickVix]

Save your money and find a girlfriend.
Eventually she'll get pissed off enough to beat your ass into submission.
AND ... you don't have to tip her.

I'd have to agree on this one lol. Well at least this way you won't have to pay your gf at all. But if not, I would assume a dom would be expecting a hefty tip. I have one for ya....tell them to always look both ways before crossing the street 🙂. Well it IS a tip and a good one at that lol jk. Either way much luck to you.

 

[Squeekels]

just remember that you're the one paying, so make sure to be very clear about what you want. She'll most likely ask what you want or are looking to do, if she hasn't already. But yes, a decent tip will be expected.

 

[Em Es]

Is she independent or does she work for a dungeon?

moose, if this dominatrix is independent than she shares her fee with nobody and I recommend a tip only if she goes above and beyond what you expect.

But if the woman is one of several working for a dungeon, maybe half or even more of the fee you pay will not end up in her pocket. So unless she disappoints you, I recommend at tip of at least $20 for an hour session.

 

[milagros317]

Communicate before the session begins exactly what you want and what you don't want.

As Em Es said, independent Dommes set their own rates, knowing what costs they have to pay, so a tip is not required.

For a Domme working in a dungeon, I would tip 20% of what the fee was unless you are really disappointed in the session.