Sensitivity goes a long way...
I want to apologize for having briefly posted a message here in this spot that was meant for a whole other thread. I've deleted it, but it will probably confuse persons who got it through E-mail.
Now for the post I really meant to put here.
Unlike others in this thread, the least of my worries is whether "hotnticklish" is as "hot" as she says she is. I hate the word hot. When men use it about women I consider it predatory and exploitative, and when women use it about themselves I consider it narcissistic. Friends, there is no such thing as it being an objective fact that a woman is either hot or not. There is only the fact that you find someone hot, or that someone finds you hot.
I'm in my mid-40s, and I get up to New York quite frequently, but what makes me reluctant to answer this call is the lee's desire for the lers to be "hot," and honestly, the people who use the word "hot" generally don't use it about me, and the ones who do generally turn out to be a bit nuts. For tickle play I fail to see what "hot" even has to do with it. If you're a female lee, I'll be glad to tickle you no matter what you look like--we're talking tickling, not marriage--but I get the feeling this particular lee will want to subject me to a looks test when I arrive, so for that reason, I'm inclined to let the male lers who are more confident of their own hotness have the honor of checking out hers.
Have fun!
Hey, if it's any consolation you
*sound "hot"
Humor's a greater aphrodesiac
from here (sp? Oh well).
As far as the rest, it's always a risk, and there's no reason to presume guilt first
(though I understand in some cases it's experience talking,
I've read the "yes I'm really a wo/man, etc., and I've been lying for years" posts also...).
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-So it's just wise to exchange pictures privately or at LEAST meet in a really well lit, public place in the middle of the day
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-MAKING SURE THE PERSON MATCHES THE PICTURE
so it's a LITTLE less likely they'll try anything funny, thinking you have their face in your last email...
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-after telling at least one other friend you're going to meet someone for a "date" at that location, with full description, etc. etc., in case you disappear, hopefully not.
I'm also not going to fault someone for being happy with themselves.
🙄
More women
should be "cocky" about their appearance, skinny, fat or otherwise, there's a perfect fit for everyone somewhere
and the hell with our bulimic advertising industry.
And no one needs to prove it with an online photo that they may later regret posting...
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AS IF a person can't get multiple shots of some gorgeous creature from so many websites to "borrow" here, so that's just a little pointless regardless)
If you are the woman you claim to be, hotnticklish, good luck sorting through all that male mail 
If not, a tickle pox on you!
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Extracting foot from big mouth here...
] uh, manners 
Gentlemen aren't supposed to TELL!!!
)
