Is it dangerous (to me) to mail a letter to someone asking if her feet are ticklish?

[NonConTickler]

I have always had a tickling fetish, and there were girls I went to grade school with (7th-8th grade) who I really wanted to tickle or at least know if they were ticklish on their feet. Back when a boy could grab girls and tickle them against their will and people didn't get all "human rights violation" on you. But I was an outcast and too timid to grab the girls and tickle them because they would probably have somebody beat me up.

I had this idea recently of using one of those "people search" websites, find these girls I went to school with and basically say "I always had a tickling fetish and always wanted to know how ticklish your feet are, so how ticklish are they", and give my return mailing address in case they choose to respond.

Firstly would I be looking at any legal consequences if they got offended, (these women will probably barely remember me if at all since I'm 34 now)? And if not legal consequences, how likely is it that if they got offended they'd send someone to beat me up (maybe in that case I should get a PO Box for my return address)?

 

[theshire]

Well I'll tell you something, even if it doesn't directly answer your question:

If you email anyone asking them how ticklish their FEET are rather than just how ticklish they are in general, you don't have a tickling fetish; you have a foot fetish.

 

[BigJim]

I have always had a tickling fetish, and there were girls I went to grade school with (7th-8th grade) who I really wanted to tickle or at least know if they were ticklish on their feet. Back when a boy could grab girls and tickle them against their will and people didn't get all "human rights violation" on you. But I was an outcast and too timid to grab the girls and tickle them because they would probably have somebody beat me up.

I had this idea recently of using one of those "people search" websites, find these girls I went to school with and basically say "I always had a tickling fetish and always wanted to know how ticklish your feet are, so how ticklish are they", and give my return mailing address in case they choose to respond.

Firstly would I be looking at any legal consequences if they got offended, (these women will probably barely remember me if at all since I'm 34 now)? And if not legal consequences, how likely is it that if they got offended they'd send someone to beat me up (maybe in that case I should get a PO Box for my return address)?

Probably neither, but they may well think you're a fuckwit with no social skills.

 

[asutickler]

Something tells me that this topic has got to be a joke of some sort. However, I'll give you a serious answer just in case:

From the sound of things, you weren't even friends with any of these people back in Jr. High School. Now you're going to send them a letter 20 years later to ask them if their feet are ticklish? I would say that there is about a 99.9999999999999999999% chance that every single one of them will be too creeped out to respond. I'd also say that there is a small chance that one or more of them will be creeped out to the point of filing for some sort of restraining order, especially if you still live near them.

Why don't you just go find a girlfriend instead?

 

[Bugman]

Forget about it and get on with life would be my advice.

 

[Mz Chaos]

Wow... those must be some handsome tootsies if you're still obsessing over them 20 years later.

Speaking from a woman's perspective... even though I am a 'Lee, if I got an email like that... well... yeah... creeped out would be up there among some of the reactions, however, responding to the email would not even be a consideration.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Well I'll tell you something, even if it doesn't directly answer your question:

If you email anyone asking them how ticklish their FEET are rather than just how ticklish they are in general, you don't have a tickling fetish; you have a foot fetish.

GEEEZ....Are you still draggin` that around

 

[Mitchell]

I've posted this before, but will do so again for the purpose of this thread. Before I joined TMF, I had female letter pen pals, as did my friend who got me into talking about tickling, Don Fraser. What we would do was to write to girls in something called friendship books, which were little books with lists of names of people wanting pen pals. After a couple of "Normal" letters, we would then write to them, telling them experiences of how we had been tickled in the past, and were ticklish, and then asking it such had ever happened to them, and if they are ticklish. Many times, our questions would get answered, because of the presentation. We didnt present it like:" OMG, we're two pervs who just want to find out your tickle info". It was all very low key and matter of fact.
That being said, what you proposed was a different matter, and is far riskier. Sending sexual questions such as tickling questions through the mail, to someone you havent talked to in a long time, is, to me, taking a huge risk. Mt best friend knows someone who got in trouble, and got called by the cops, simply for sending a pen pal a poem about another girl. I was very lucky from 1997 to 2002 when I asked tickling questions of pen pals through the mail. I dont do it anymore, for risk reasons.
If I were you, I wouldnt do what you are proposing. It would be too risky. I dont think I could ever contact a person I hadnt spoken to in years, and just be like "Hi, I'm Mitch, remember me from 20 years ago, and oh, by the way, are you ticklish?" The person might get creeped out, and, based on what happened to my best friend's friend, you might get in trouble.
My suggestion: Stick to discussion of tickling, and asking girls tickle questions, on this, or similar, websites. Since this is the subject matter of the site, such is appropriate. What you are propsing, doesnt seem appropriate. Only my view.

Mitch

 

[vsa7a]

yes to the low extreme theyll ignore you, be creeped out by it and maybe put a restraining order on you. to the utmost extreme theyll call the cops on you and/or come or send someone to kick your ass. move on with your life. go get yourself a girlfriend. if youre really obssessed with tickling. make some female friends and when theyre barefoot and you can catch them off guard....

the point is: Actions speak louder than words. Actually do tickle them and NOT write that your going to tickle them or something else perverted.

the difference between tickling someone and writing that youre going to do that to them or indicate that you may do that to them. when it comes down to investigation. it is harder to prove that you actually tickled them whereas you would be convicted just because it is in WRITING.

 

[brianspencer66]

And keep in mind they may just send someone to beat you up.

 

[NonConTickler]

yes to the low extreme theyll ignore you, be creeped out by it and maybe put a restraining order on you. to the utmost extreme theyll call the cops on you and/or come or send someone to kick your ass. move on with your life. go get yourself a girlfriend. if youre really obssessed with tickling. make some female friends and when theyre barefoot and you can catch them off guard....

the point is: Actions speak louder than words. Actually do tickle them and NOT write that your going to tickle them or something else perverted.

the difference between tickling someone and writing that youre going to do that to them or indicate that you may do that to them. when it comes down to investigation. it is harder to prove that you actually tickled them whereas you would be convicted just because it is in WRITING.

Oh well I would have no intention of trying to meet them, just to ask them that in the letter for my own fantasizing. But that's okay, it was just a passing thought that I had, a "what if scenario". Even if I had thought there would be no risk involved, I most likely would never have gone to the trouble of actually doing it.

 

[The Last Laugh]

You really should be more careful what you write. This idea of yours is, as many others have pointed out, creepy at best. Then there's this from your profile:

"Biography: Fantasize about tying up a woman and tickling her until she is literally crying and screaming for help. I have a lot of anger toward women."

I do understand that a fantasy is just that: a fantasy. But that anger towards women bit tells me that what some people suggested about finding a girlfriend might not be such a good idea after all.

 

[The Last Laugh]

If you email anyone asking them how ticklish their FEET are rather than just how ticklish they are in general, you don't have a tickling fetish; you have a foot fetish.

Can't someone have both? God knows there are a lot of people on the TMF who are passionate about tickling and whose favorite targets are the feet. Even then, it doesn't necessarily mean that they have a foot fetish per se. And how is this relevant, anyway?

 

[TMF Jeff]

I don't know if it's dangerous to do it, but I think it's dangerous to you to WANT to do it, because it means you've got your fetish in the drivers seat, where your brain should be...

 

[kered]

With all the other answers, maybe you should think about the bloody pulp you might be at a class reunion when the husbands or boyfriends of these women get a hold of you.

 

[Bizkit]

They would probably think your nuts.Fuck it dude go for it.

 

[tickleboynyc]

here's my advice. get counseling.

no,seriously. if you have 'anger issues' with women, you need to deal with those. counseling may be one way. talking to friends, especially female friends that you're close enough to-provided you have any!- is another way (in other words don't just sit around bashing women with a bunch of losers)
some self-reflection is in order. where do these anger issues come from? is there a way to work through them? you do realize that 'anger towards women' is irrational, stupid and wrong, right?
again, this is where counseling may really be necessary. don't just walk around with this stuff. and ESPECIALLY don't use it as a motivation to tie and tickle females. EVER! because that, my friend, would truly make you a pervert.

remember, for some, tickling really IS torture. it's not fun.

once you've dealt with your anger issues, find some female friends. talk. get to know them. then the subject of tickling can be brought up, very casually. eventually you'll hopefully bring it into your life as a reality, not just a fantasy. but RESPECT is crucial. always!

 

[Babbles]

here's my advice. get counseling.

no,seriously. if you have 'anger issues' with women, you need to deal with those. counseling may be one way. talking to friends, especially female friends that you're close enough to-provided you have any!- is another way (in other words don't just sit around bashing women with a bunch of losers)
some self-reflection is in order. where do these anger issues come from? is there a way to work through them? you do realize that 'anger towards women' is irrational, stupid and wrong, right?
again, this is where counseling may really be necessary. don't just walk around with this stuff. and ESPECIALLY don't use it as a motivation to tie and tickle females. EVER! because that, my friend, would truly make you a pervert.

remember, for some, tickling really IS torture. it's not fun.

once you've dealt with your anger issues, find some female friends. talk. get to know them. then the subject of tickling can be brought up, very casually. eventually you'll hopefully bring it into your life as a reality, not just a fantasy. but RESPECT is crucial. always!

Possibly the best answer, if your online identity and this thread are sincere. If they *are sincere, that honesty is appreciated, though from your profile I'm sure you realize this isn't a healthy scenario for you or anyone you'd interact with, in any way.

To borrow tickleboy's terminology, "respect" is necessary, both ways.

Simplifying, if you're considerate, take time, offer a safeword (and adhere to it, nothing less)
you'll be respected in return,
and you'll probably find you won't be at a loss for friends or partners, in reality, as tb mentioned above.

I also agree it's best to talk to (women in "normal" social settings) and also a professional counselor (the professionals do just that themselves, they know the value of talking through their own dilemmas to find solutions...)
to deal with this anger until it's hopefully no longer an issue.

 

[jk666uk]

They would probably think your nuts.Fuck it dude go for it.

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