Is there anything I can do?

[Mona Liza]

Hey!
I am not used to talk about tickling and this is my first post so please be gentle.

And now to the point. I am very ticklish girl and I love to be tickled and to tickle also. My boyfriend knows that and he is very knowing; he is trying to make me happy so he tickls me time to time but... well he is doing that just because he knows that I want to.. and he can't stand being tickled so.. well I wanted to know is there any way how to make it fun also for him? Maybe you have any experience in such a situation. I will be very grateful if you would help me.

 

[rajee]

Hi Mona Liza and welcome to TMF. I hope you enjoy your visits here. To get him to overcome his dislike/uncomfortableness of being tickled might be difficult or tricky. Try playful gentle tickling.
To make it fun, try adding it to card games or board games. Since you enjoy being tickled perhaps have a penalty for you when you lose a card game/board game/videogame to be tickled by him for xx amount of minutes.

I hope this helps.

 

[drew70]

First of all, welcome to the TMF and congrats on your first post.

I might suggest perhaps a kind of game to make it fun. For example, you could lightly scratch his back. This feels good to just about anybody. Then you start moving your gliding fingernails out from the middle of his back towards his sides. Try to find that point in which it tickles him but he's still barely able to maintain. This is a good way to "introduce" his body to the tickling sensation without sensory overload.

 

[isabeau]

welcome to the forum and i would agree with drew which is a shocker lolol not really

isabeau

 

[Mona Liza]

Thanks for your advices.

Yes I have tried to give him a massage and tickle him a bit. And you know, his reaction depends of his mood. Sometimes it is ok for him , but sometimes he gets quite angry. But I'm not saying anything about it because he is very, very knowing and sweet to me about this so.. I just want to make this all comfortable for him too.

 

[Myriads]

Hello Mona,

Welcome to the forum. It's nice to see you are comfortable asking us questions here.

As to your question, the advice above is good, and worth trying. I'll add that sometimes partners do things for each other that they are not 100% into simply because they know thier lover enjoys it, and they like to make them happy. Perhaps your partners fun is in seeing you happy.

I know that idealy you'd want him to be as into the activity as yourself, and that would make it better. However, you have a 'knowing' bf who is attentive and caring to your likes. Enjoy. Odds are there are some things he enjoys that you do in turn, that are not in the top five of your 'to do' list also. It all evens out.

Myriads

 

[Mona Liza]

Thanks, for answering my question.

Of course I appreciate what he is doing and I know that he is doing it for my pleasure. So all I want now is to make it more enjoyable for both of us that it is now.

 

[Mimi]

Welcome to the forum, Mona. We are very happy to have you here with us. 🙂

Try incorporating light, soft, more erotic tickling into your play. Don't go for the fast firm tickling that causes you to immediately try to stop it, but rather soft sensual strokes. The kind that make you giggle, but not have to pull away or hide or stop it. Those sensations can be very enjoyable, even for someone who normally does not like being tickled.

Good luck!

Mimi 😉

 

[tickle_feety]

Hey!
I am not used to talk about tickling and this is my first post so please be gentle.

And now to the point. I am very ticklish girl and I love to be tickled and to tickle also. My boyfriend knows that and he is very knowing; he is trying to make me happy so he tickls me time to time but... well he is doing that just because he knows that I want to.. and he can't stand being tickled so.. well I wanted to know is there any way how to make it fun also for him? Maybe you have any experience in such a situation. I will be very grateful if you would help me.

give him a BJ and while down there give him a few random tickles on your favourite spots...im a very ticklish guy and believe me it is awesome! you never know, he may really enjoy it and want more tickling! sometimes i think its fear more than anything... but thats just my opinion...