Neutron said:I ust bought a 3000 square foot 3 garage, 4 bathroom 5 bedroom house and pretty much the sde of a mountain for 225,000 dollars.\
I can deal with that!!
Tron
kis123 said:Congratulations on your new job Tron. Maybe the weather's nicer out there but I'd rather shovel snow until June than deal with southern living! Not my idea of a fun thing at all!
Sorry southerners-you probably feel the same way about us northerners too!
TKpervert said:AH ! ok. I've always been a left-coaster, thanks for the insight on how things work back there toward the right coast.![]()
Tron, when I read your opening to this thread, it sounded like you were off on a TDY assignment to clean up some problems then return home.
Buying a place to live makes it sound a little more permanent.
Do us all a favor and clean up that nuke muy pronto.
Congrats.
jugner said:Don't for a second think what kis said is how things work here. She's speaking for herself.
kis123 said:"Kis, as a black woman, I'm sure you don't like when the african american race is referred to as 'they'. That removes individuality. You just said the word 'they' when referring to southern men. I'm sure you meant the southern men you have had contact with rather than they."
I am really hoping this is the last time I have to clarify myself:
I said it was my experience, not anyone elses. I also have family in the south and it's been their experience as well. If it happened to me, it's happened to others. No experience is exclusive to one person.
Please read the post again. "They" refers to the men I've had experience with, not ALL SOUTHERN MEN!! I don't know every man who lives in the south and it's ridiculous to think that I do. At the same token, you don't know every man who lives in the south, moves north and thinks he's supposed to dominate, manipulate, and basically control his woman and confuse that as showing love either. But I have dealt with several SOUTHERN MEN and have had the same experience-too much machismo for me, thank you very much!!! I don't like controlling men-that is my choice to feel that way and I don't apologize for that at all!! Don't try to compare this with some kind of race thing--you're taking this way too personally and way too far out of context.
Now that I think about it, the worst offender came right out of your state! On the other hand, my grandfather who was the nicest and sweetest gentleman I have yet to meet on this earth came from AL as well. If I ever found a man like him, I'd marry him on the spot! So see, I'm not REMOTELY attempting to label EVERY southern man. It sounds like that's what you're trying to do though.
You don't have to defend the entire southern region of men because of one woman's personal opinion. Sometimes you have to make like a duck and let it roll off your back if comments on this forum don't apply to you. If I commented on every racist and sexist thing people write around here, by fingers would be broken.
I'm sorry you took offense to the comment, and I already apologized and excused myself twice-I see no need to continue to apologize for how I feel about a particular subject matter. I gave an opinion, not an edict etched in stone. Are we done with this, or would you rather continue to drag it out and ruin Tron's thread? Of course, the choice is up to you.
jugner said:Well, your last two sentences seemed to be really trying to egg me on, but, I'll just let this all go.
😕 😕
Psycho said:So let me clear this up. I haven't had sex with my sister. I have never shot a dear. I have only dipped once and hated it. I have never been abducted by aliens. I have never hung a "nigger". I do not own a chia pet. I have never rode a horse in my bedsheets. I have never burned a cross, and I did graduate high school. (it just took 15 years) lol.
Congradulations on the job opertunity and the move. Hope you like it.
p.s.(ycho) I just realized that I posted an entire rante and what I replied to say to start with was just two sentences at the end.
Psycho
TummyDragon said:Now, just a brief word concerning the southern 'offended'. I think it's rather unbelievable that people can be so anally retentive and thin skinned. I mean really, do you actually *care* about the opinions of people so much that you become offended?
I don't find Kis's opinion offensive in the least and I was raised/lived in Georgia until I was 35. In fact, Kis has been nothing but polite and respectful to me. If she *does* think I'm a kuntry bumpkin, hell, I don't care because she shows me nothing but respect, and if she didn't, I'd simply ignore her. I certainly wouldn't waste my time and energy being offended. It's just her personal experience she's relating.
Hell, some people don't care to talk to me because of my southern drawl, and I'll be honest, some types of northern accents become like nails on a chalkboard to me after a while. That's not very 'rational', but it's not something that I can just wave a wand and have disappear.
We all have opinions based on our experience, and many are not all that rational, but, that still doesn't invalidate them.
Now, to "dispel" the southern myths.. no, I would not have porked my sister, even if she hadn't moved out before before I reached puberty, she's just too damn ugly. All cute cousins, however, are fair game. I *do* attend family reunions to get new numbers for my little black book. I thought "The Nutcracker" was something to be done from the High Dive, etc etc.. 🙂