Jealousy

[isabeau]

btw: if anybody tickles steph, isabeau, or some of the other TMF goddesess in the future, please allow me to live vicariously through you.

wow thank you so much for lumping me in with steph, whom i adore... and uh i'll live vicariously also, as i don't get hardly any tickling action.. sighs...

isabeau

 

[steph]

Mmmmm...

ibtw: if anybody tickles steph, isabeau, or some of the other TMF goddesess in the future, please allow me to live vicariously through you.

 

[brokenblue]

I've never been tickled for real - would love to be tickled and to tickle my tickler.....my tickler moved before we had the chance to do that... sad? yes. jealous of somebody being tickled? a big yes.. even came to a point when I would tell myself that maybe he finds me not good enough or not ticklish enough.... when I see some couple on the train/bus tickling each other, that's where everything would hit me-- sadness and jealousy at the same time....

 

[cloudgazer2k]

wow thank you so much for lumping me in with steph, whom i adore... and uh i'll live vicariously also, as i don't get hardly any tickling action.. sighs...

isabeau

all in due time, m'dear...i've got plans going on to meet some of these wonderful people (venray, ever caused havok and chaos at 3:00 a.m.?), and you are on my list. no matter how negative or positive you may feel, isabeau, you're a beautiful person.

 

[Fidji999]

(by the way, knowing who Rolo Tomasy is, is one of the wants in a woman)

why ? just curious.

fidji

"Hush, Hush, Off the record & On the QT" 😉

 

[Aragon]

An intelligence thing. If the person can discuss things with me, it helps. Knowledge of Tom Bombadil, Richard Phillip Feynman and Rolo Tomasy is kinda an allegory of my style of knowledge. The two of us would never be bored with one another.

 

[crydun]

Mmm - not jealous so much of people here, I will admit to jealousy though when I see fantasy stories about Hillary Duff or Avirl, and other pop tarts like them. I mean, here's these girls who are IRL tone deaf, can't carry a tune in a bucket, their voices 100% altered by computers, with recording contracts they do not deserve. Then to add injury to this insult, men here fantasize about these little tramps when the men could have real women who actually want to be tickled. Sure, we may not have makeup artists and plastic surgerons on call, but at least we're attainable unlike those twits. So, yeah, I get jealous of them. But not women here who are actually into it. I feel happy for them.

Edit: And before anyone calls me "hypocrite" cause of my own fantasies about famous or fictional men tickling me - I'm willing to admit that those stem from a fear of regection and a fear of commitment. I'm never going to meet Mr. Spock or Barry Manilow. So therefore they're safe to daydream about.

I so agree, Jamie. I've never understood it either. Why daydream when you can have the real deal???

 

[isabeau]

all in due time, m'dear...i've got plans going on to meet some of these wonderful people (venray, ever caused havok and chaos at 3:00 a.m.?), and you are on my list. no matter how negative or positive you may feel, isabeau, you're a beautiful person.

again thank you very much..you are very sweet....

to get back to the topic.. i get rather envious, but not jealous.. jealousy is a wasted emotion.

isabeau

 

[Lea28]

Yes, I am jealous

My bf and i split and he has rebounded fast... he is dating a new woman and because I know how much he likes to tickle and be tickled, I am very sad.

We were different in other ways and that caused problems, but I wake up each morning knowing that he is definitely tickling his new gf's feet, as he did mine, during morning sex. I miss stroking his sides and feet with my nails as we make love... i read another thread tonight where someone was writing about tickling his gf's feet during "doggie" and I started to cry... he used to hold one of my feet in his hand and tickle me slowly with his fingers as we made love. But what hurts most is thinking how he tickled both of my feet at once when i was on top, as i tickled his sides, and the reality that he is driving another woman to orgasm with awesome ticklesex.

Yes, jealous! Lea

 

[rhiannon]

Cheer up, Lea!! Maybe she totally hates to be tickled and he already wishes he had you back!!

 

[milagros317]

No, I don't get jealous. I like to see it almost as much as I like to participate. 😀

 

[starburstz91]

Eh, I guess I get kind of jealous, but that's what writing's for. Writing down some inner... feelings and fantasies, I guess. I don't know, that's how I cope with it.

 

[waitin2btkled]

Sorry to hear Lea28. Just remember as hard as it is to find a boyfriend that is as interested in tickling as you, you will treasure it THAT much more when another comes around. That was what my past experience taught me from my ex.

 

[Adam]

Cheer up, Lea!! Maybe she totally hates to be tickled and he already wishes he had you back!!

Quoted for the absolute truth. It is very rare to find someone with the common love of tickling. Chances are, this new girlfriend of his isn't going to be as willing as you were. He was very lucky to have you and will probably be crying in his soup when he realizes how badly he messed up. Keep your chin up. You have friends here. 🙂

 

[c7_assassin]

I miss stroking his sides and feet with my nails as we make love... i read another thread tonight where someone was writing about tickling his gf's feet during "doggie" and I started to cry...

I think I was the one who wrote that. If it makes you feel any better, she's not my girlfriend anymore; I'm just as heartbroken as you. Stay strong, we'll both make it through this!

 

[tulipangel]

i get a bit jealous from time to time. if i see a woman tickled by another woman i wish it was me sooooooooo bad! Oh now im pouting! lol

 

[Em Es]

If the tickler or ticklee is a girl I like

It has made me jealous seeing a girl for whom I had unrequited feelings either tickling a guy or being tickled by one. Otherwise, I would be happy for the guy and while I would wish I were in his place - especially if he's the tickler, which is my preferred role - it would not make me envious.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Awwwwww sorry to hear that Lea28 that sucks for sure. I am sorry you and your guy broke up. I am sure though you won't let it keep you down for too long. You seem like a really great awesome diva-sure soon you will be laughing and smiling later on for sure-finding the person you wish to be with-that will be a great fit for you-that next time the tickle sex will rock even triple times what you lost. You rock girl!! Love reading your threads and posts. Sorry you feel this sadness and bit of jealousy at this other woman receiving all that great ticklesex. But just do your best to hang in there-you will have the last laugh I bet. Hugs Oh and if ever you wish to chat-I am here for you always-feel free to pm me on here. Take care..have a good day.

 

[Lea28]

Thank you and sorry for u

I think I was the one who wrote that. If it makes you feel any better, she's not my girlfriend anymore; I'm just as heartbroken as you. Stay strong, we'll both make it through this!

Its really hard to withdraw; the whol ehead over heart thing is not working... Are u ok? What happend in your realtionship?

Thank u, Lea

 

[Lea28]

Thank u Bunny

Thats really sweet; I just need to stop being so damn sad.

Lea

 

[Em Es]

Lea28

Lea28, you said, "My bf and i split . . . he likes to tickle and be tickled . . . We were different in other ways and that caused problems . . ."

Making a relationship last is hard enough, let alone when you have a special need like tickling. Your story strengthens my belief that we in the tickling community should hook up with platonic tickle buddies instead of pinning all our tickling desire on lovers.

I mean, if you date somebody who indulges your need to tickle or be tickled, that's great, especially when tickling and sex are like chewing and swallowing to you. But while I wouldn't want to tickle a woman I did not find attractive, for the sake of having someone to tickle I prefer a platonic lady friend. That way, the ups and downs of marriage or exclusive dating won't affect my tickling life.

Anyway, it seems as though while you miss the action with your ex-boyfriend, you knew the releationship had run its course. What the hell, better to look back at good times gone than to have had none.

 

[FAIS]

I think we should all try and cheer Lea up ? we cant see our tickle buddy in such doldrums can we? should we? Lea I am with you

 

[ticklebunny 2]

That is ok Lea28. No problem. I meant it I think you are really sweet and really great. I know you are going to be a great catch for a very lucky man and you are going to be meet a great guy that is going to make you laugh and smile and who will show you the time of your life. Just remember try not to be so hard on yourself, right now your heart is broken and you are hurting badly-but if I know you-you are strong and very resilient and you will spring back friend I bet. Just be good to yourself and give yourself time to heal. I am here for you Hugs!!!
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