Jealousy

[Amanda]

Now for some of us here at the forum, it is fantastic to see someone tickled.
For some of us it is spirit lifting to hear someone say they are extremely ticklish.

For some reason, though, i can't help but get jealous!
When i see someone tickled, I want to be the one being tickled, and when someone is extremely ticklish, I want to be the one who is extremely ticklish.

Anyone else out there get jealous from time to time?

 

[Fire_Sprite]

Not often. I have a g/f I tickle and it helps to get it out of your system. I sometimes get jealous watching a mainstream clip of a guy tickling his roomate or some girl he's friends with.

 

[steph]

interesting question...

I think your problem is fairly common but no.
I'm not really a watcher though~I'm more of a "action girl"~I like to be part of the fun. 😛
But then again, yanno what? I really don't know what jealousy feels like, I've never experienced it but I've known it when I see it in others. For me, jealousy is what I file under "wasted emotions," like guilt. It serves no purpose but to make you feel like shit. I can bring that on my self if I want, course I never do. Wanna get rid of guilt, stop the behavior. Problem solved. Don't waste time feeling jealous~jump in!

XOXO

 

[theshire]

I can't say I ever feel jealous about it, as such, but I'm a Ler who still hasn't fulfilled his fantasies yet and it gets me frustrated from time to time.

 

[TicklishLurker]

Mmm - not jealous so much of people here, I will admit to jealousy though when I see fantasy stories about Hillary Duff or Avirl, and other pop tarts like them. I mean, here's these girls who are IRL tone deaf, can't carry a tune in a bucket, their voices 100% altered by computers, with recording contracts they do not deserve. Then to add injury to this insult, men here fantasize about these little tramps when the men could have real women who actually want to be tickled. Sure, we may not have makeup artists and plastic surgerons on call, but at least we're attainable unlike those twits. So, yeah, I get jealous of them. But not women here who are actually into it. I feel happy for them.

Edit: And before anyone calls me "hypocrite" cause of my own fantasies about famous or fictional men tickling me - I'm willing to admit that those stem from a fear of regection and a fear of commitment. I'm never going to meet Mr. Spock or Barry Manilow. So therefore they're safe to daydream about.

 

[Mimi]

I used to, Amanda, before I met Lazzy. I used to watch my friends with their boyfriends, or just female and male friends in general, goof around and get into tickle fights and such, and it used to just tear apart my insides to watch it and not be involved. -I- wanted to be tickled. And during that time when I was so tickle starved, any sight of it at all set off pangs of pain and jealousy deep inside me.

So yeah, I've been there, know what you mean. The best solution is finding a friend or partner with whom you can share your interest in tickling. They don't have to be one of us necessarily, just willing to go along for the ride and have fun with it. Easier said than done, I know, but it can and WILL happen if you're patient and open minded. Hang in there darlin'.

Mimi 😉

 

[Mitchell]

For myself, even though I am both ler and lee, I find I get more jealous if I see a guy tickling a girl, and wishing I was the tickler, as opposed to a girl tickling a guy, and being the lee. While I love to switch, my jealous desires stem more from wishing I could be a tickler.

Mitch

 

[MrPartickler]

Now for some of us here at the forum, it is fantastic to see someone tickled.
For some of us it is spirit lifting to hear someone say they are extremely ticklish.

For some reason, though, i can't help but get jealous!
When i see someone tickled, I want to be the one being tickled, and when someone is extremely ticklish, I want to be the one who is extremely ticklish.

Anyone else out there get jealous from time to time?

I'm with Fire Sprite on this one. You just need to get it out of your system. My number is 555-...lol. (kidding... 😀 ...besides you strike me as the jealous type )

In all seriousness, it's only when I'm going through a major withdrawal due to lack of tickling someone am I susceptible to such feelings (i.e., jealous of some guy who's tickling a woman I like). I just remember that there are outlets. Since it's just tickling, all you need are friends to "take the edge off" so to speak--not a serious tickling partner or s/o or soul mate, which might take forever to find. I'm sure you have friends who you kid around with plenty. Now get out there, instigate a little, and get your fix! lol 😉

 

[Illtcklu]

I think your problem is fairly common but no.
I'm not really a watcher though~I'm more of a "action girl"~I like to be part of the fun. 😛


XOXO

That's right Hasbro will be issuing it's new Steph "action girl" doll, get yours NOW supplies are limited!!!!!! -lol


Steph your a true goddess!!!!

 

[Illtcklu]

Now for some of us here at the forum, it is fantastic to see someone tickled.
For some of us it is spirit lifting to hear someone say they are extremely ticklish.

For some reason, though, i can't help but get jealous!
When i see someone tickled, I want to be the one being tickled, and when someone is extremely ticklish, I want to be the one who is extremely ticklish.

Anyone else out there get jealous from time to time?

I guess you could say that I do! Jealous might be a bit strong for it, more like left out........

But HEY!!!! If it makes you feel better Amanda, I'd like to tickle YOU!!!!!!! Anyone else wanna sign up?!

 

[leeboy]

I know what you're saying Amanda ! Sometimes I feel the same way.

 

[Fidji999]

well, for me it would really depend on who the 'ler is. If I'd see a guy, whom I'd really like a lot tickling another girl, well, yes, that would make me really jealous.
Just seeing a girl being tickled by anybody, no, would not make me jealous at all - or wait, I should be honest here, yeah, maybe a bit 🙂

fidji

 

[drew70]

I've been mildly envious of guys who get tickled by Lers of whom I've long desired a good tickling. But I also enjoy watching a good f/m or f/f scene, so even if I'm not the one being tickled, I still get something out of it. 😀

 

[The_Raptor]

Somehow!

Exactly the same feelings Amanda since I joined the forum a while, but a slight difference is that I exactly know how ticklish I'm and I don't ever want to be more ticklish ,so I'm not jealous to extremely ticklish people.
Keep it secret:
Somehow watching f/f or f/m (Mainstream Clips) , or any situation where a beautiful woman or a woman I luv as a tickler makes me a bit jealous from the lee
Not exactly that I wanna be in their places
(I have pity on them already), but somehow jealous from them.
That's my secret don't tell 😉

 

[witchtickler]

Hmmmmm......

Well, I don't get actually jealous. I just get outright DEPRESSED cause it ain't me **reaches for Prozac**

 

[miss_nylons]

Now for some of us here at the forum, it is fantastic to see someone tickled.
For some of us it is spirit lifting to hear someone say they are extremely ticklish.

For some reason, though, i can't help but get jealous!
When i see someone tickled, I want to be the one being tickled, and when someone is extremely ticklish, I want to be the one who is extremely ticklish.

Anyone else out there get jealous from time to time?

It happens to me sometimes, but rarely.

 

[battlecat]

Now for some of us here at the forum, it is fantastic to see someone tickled.
For some of us it is spirit lifting to hear someone say they are extremely ticklish.

For some reason, though, i can't help but get jealous!
When i see someone tickled, I want to be the one being tickled, and when someone is extremely ticklish, I want to be the one who is extremely ticklish.

Anyone else out there get jealous from time to time?

I wasn't until recently....but now yeh starting to !!!

My girlfriend split with me a few weeks ago and now the warm weather is nearly here again and the girls in their cute crop-tops are starting to bare those irresistble bellies again....I see them arm in arm with their boyfriends walking along the seafront, laying on the grass at Torre Abbey and yeh I feel a bit jealous....as for once in a couple of years I've got no lady of my own to tickle

I have girl 'friends' who I muck around with and I often get a few playful tickles in on them....and get tickled back 😛. But somehow it's not quite the same as having a ticklish lady to love and wake up to.

 

[Fidji999]

I wasn't until recently....but now yeh starting to !!!

My girlfriend split with me a few weeks ago and now the warm weather is nearly here again and the girls in their cute crop-tops are starting to bare those irresistble bellies again....I see them arm in arm with their boyfriends walking along the seafront, laying on the grass at Torre Abbey and yeh I feel a bit jealous....as for once in a couple of years I've got no lady of my own to tickle

I have girl 'friends' who I muck around with and I often get a few playful tickles in on them....and get tickled back 😛. But somehow it's not quite the same as having a ticklish lady to love and wake up to.

hey, sorry to hear about your split up. hope, you're ok besides not having anyone to tickle/get tickled by.
I know how it is to be without a 'ler, so I how what you feel like.

but you know what, why don't you walk around the seafront baring this irresistable belly of your's yourself. I bet it won't be long before you find a new girlfriend 🙂

good luck!

fidji

 

[battlecat]

hey, sorry to hear about your split up. hope, you're ok besides not having anyone to tickle/get tickled by.
I know how it is to be without a 'ler, so I how what you feel like.

but you know what, why don't you walk around the seafront baring this irresistable belly of your's yourself. I bet it won't be long before you find a new girlfriend 🙂

good luck!

fidji

Awww bless you Fidji…. and thanks for your concern !!! My world was turned a little upside-down ...but i’m fine thanks !! 🙂

Luckily, as I said, I have some good and trusted mates around me and once the weekend comes we all meet up, have a few beers, and joke, and tease, and flirt with the girls and basically just muck about and have a bloody good laugh together (please pardon the language!!).

We are a pretty mixed bunch…. a few (like me) are single, couple of couples are married to each other, and others boyfriend and girlfriend…. but we’ve all known each other for years now (some of us since school) and there’s a great dynamic about us….a warm and friendly feeling that I can only compare to (and this is gonna sound really soppy!!) when your really little and you get out of the bath and you’re Mum raps you in a big warm, fluffy towel and rubs you down. It just feels safe, natural and kinda right.

As far as tickling goes… we all know each other far too well for any of us to hide anything from the others… so I have always been very open about my love of it….it’s such a playful and fun thing after all...for me just about the best fun you can have with or without your clothes on !!

So don't you worry yourself there are more than enough girls in the group (often with the guys help) to make sure that tummy of mine is definitely not tickle deprived !!

So much so sometimes that it literally aches from all the laughing…..it’s the best workout I know !!



BTW thanks for your seafront suggestion. It’s still a bit cold to go completely shirtless this time of year in England but my torso will definitely be making an appearance when the sun really comes out in the summer…although I have to admit I am kinda shy about showing it off. I know that may seem crazy…. but believe it or not….it actually took a few deep breaths before I finally pushed the button and posted it here on the TMF for all you ladies to enjoy.

Anyway thanks again...love and best wishes.

Robbie

 

[DannyMc]

Why ?

I could guess it has to do with human nature , of wanting what another has . It could be the feeling for the same attention and not recieving it .

 

[Fidji999]

.......it actually took a few deep breaths before I finally pushed the button and posted it here on the TMF for all you ladies to enjoy.

Anyway thanks again...love and best wishes.

Robbie

ohh, you did?? how could I have missed that??
I was actually referring to your sig pic and just guessing
oops!

you're welcome, btw! 😉

fidji

 

[Phineas]

Mimi hit the nail on the head, for me. It's one of the reasons that, despite my finally being free to pursue things on my terms these days, I don't see myself spending much time here (despite the fact that I'm posting again - don't get used to it, it won't be often).

I'm tired of looking at pictures, watching videos, and reading posts about how *other* people are getting to have the kind of fun *I* want to have. I'm going to be out there *doing* it. Or, at least trying to.

 

[Aragon]

I have never understood why why there is a need to be jealous. Yes, I would love to meet me a woman that meets what I want in a girl, but I am patient and busy. (by the way, knowing who Rolo Tomasy is, is one of the wants in a woman) Now, there are a few women on here I would love to meet, but doubt any would, but one day I may get to. There is no woman worth getting jealous about, nor any man for any woman to get jealous about. I would prefer to be patient, because I have a feeling I will be living the Mike Jones song when I get my studio up and going.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

i know i used to get depressed when i watched clips or heard stories of tickling. back when i was having touble finding romance, i would get depressed of just about ANYTHING that delt with romance, intimacy, etc. even with my ladylove in my life, i still feel a bit envious from time to time when someone i would love to tie down and tickle is geeting it from someone else.

btw: if anybody tickles steph, isabeau, or some of the other TMF goddesess in the future, please allow me to live vicariously through you.

 

[gargoyleofdusk]

Not so much as jealous, but envious....of the 'ler who gets to illicit laughter and reaction with a beautiful 'lee, wonder how they met, and such.....
Hard to meet 'lees in my area too.
🙁