just playing possum

[willustop2001]

I have a question for the room.

suppose you were in a situation with a girl...who knew about your likes and dislikes...UMM(tickling). and professed to you that she would be willing to play with you, but she had no interest whatsoever in it. Would you be willing to explore knowing that she is only playing to make you happy. or would you tell her to hit the road? I know its hard for normies like me to find even unwilling participants but still its no fun without it being mutual. I guess do u wait and see how much fun is to be had or do u cut and run so you can look at other choices??? Please excuse the dear abby type question...I just need to know

 

[NG02]

I would think if she is willing to play to make you happy then there is a chance that in making you happy she might also find happines in tickling and maybe even learn to like it. But you should atleast give it a try before you just rule it out cuz you never know what might happen.

 

[milagros317]

I agree with NG02. Give it a try and see if she (maybe) will learn to like it, and if you get something out of it even knowing that she is merely accomodating your interest. 😀

 

[AffectionateDan]

There's a huge difference between...

...someone who's indulging you to patronize you, and someone who's doing something because they care enough about your happiness to give it a try despite their lack of shared interest. I say take her up on it, and maybe, just maybe, she'll learn a thing or three about herself (AND you, if you're both lucky 😉 )

Personally, I tip my hat to the lady... she sounds very caring and brave, and I've never met the person. Reward her with some affectionate laughter that you'll both treasure!

 

[NG02]

I agree with NG02. Give it a try and see if she (maybe) will learn to like it, and if you get something out of it even knowing that she is merely accomodating your interest. 😀

Wow I could get used to this having people agree with me thing. Makes me feel like somone actually cares about my opinion...lol. 😀

 

[marcusb]

OOoo. The best kind. You may have a convert on your hands if you play nice. 🙂

 

[TickledToDeath]

Allow her to give it a try........she just may end up liking it and will want more of it!

 

[ViperGTS]

Admittedly, I'd take her up on it. But, you have to understand, I'd take her up on the offer wether or not she actually offered it. I'm into the non-consensual thing, so if she's ticklish and I am stronger than she is, guess what! Hehe.

When they are more willing to comply, it just makes it easier to get em tied down, that's all.

 

[WorkInProgress]

The thing I would add, Will, is that if this is a prospective romantic interest, you presumably have a lot of other areas where you need her to be compatible with you, including various forms of both emotional and physical intimacy. On a tickling board it's easy to address this as a tickling question, but it seems to me that, if there's any substance to the relationship besides the tickling, you may be best off thinking of it in terms of the whole package of the relationship, and an internal soul-searching question for you of how important it is to have someone who shares your fetish, and to what intensity level.