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Killing a fetish

I find this interesting to say the least. Why is it that you can't integrate your fetish into your sexual life? Does your sex life have to be so vanilla?

I understood long ago about this fetish. I choose to not think of it as a burden like so many others do. I don't need tickling to get aroused. I enjoy using it as foreplay. I think it adds spice to the bedroom and makes things exciting.

Tickling is not the end all be all to my sex life. It never has been because I understood that after a certain point you are fucking. Will power is something all of us have to a certain extent. It would be wise to use it. Embrace your cup of tea and your partners while at the same time...understand that there is a time to tickle and a time to FUCK. (Sometimes you can do both if your partner is willing)

You can integrate to a point but there's also that point where 90% of girls are gonna say 'what the fuck?'. My sex life is anything but vanilla but I also still refuse to tell people about my fetish. Luckily I have no problem having sex without tickling but if I did...fuck would I be desperate to get rid of this fetish.
 
I agree, I think it sounds more like you've repressed it mentally which isn't necessarily a good thing, and mental repressing can lead to later depression in life. As for getting rid of it, only time will tell. I do know that it is possible that after a while you can get bored of the fetish and it will get weaker, I myself know this it's happened a dozen times. But rid yourself of it completely... If it's part of your genes it would be very difficult. Nevertheless I wish you luck with it.
 
I agree, I think it sounds more like you've repressed it mentally which isn't necessarily a good thing, and mental repressing can lead to later depression in life. As for getting rid of it, only time will tell. I do know that it is possible that after a while you can get bored of the fetish and it will get weaker, I myself know this it's happened a dozen times. But rid yourself of it completely... If it's part of your genes it would be very difficult. Nevertheless I wish you luck with it.

I think you're cool.
 
Well if they're anything like me it's because I was looking for reassurance that I wasn't alone. If I felt weird before I found this place at least I feel...slightly less so now...

I felt weird about my fetish before I found this place. I only joined because it put me at ease to know that it was ok to be like this and that so many other people were like me. If someone is truly ashamed and disgusted by this lifestyle I don't see how they can be a member here. Thats all I'm saying.
 
I feel frustrated just reading the first post. Doesn't sound like sexual freedom, but sexually restraining oneself. Man, I'm glad I don't want to be free of my fetish.
 
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I felt weird about my fetish before I found this place. I only joined because it put me at ease to know that it was ok to be like this and that so many other people were like me. If someone is truly ashamed and disgusted by this lifestyle I don't see how they can be a member here. Thats all I'm saying.

We should be friends 🙂
 
I felt weird about my fetish before I found this place. I only joined because it put me at ease to know that it was ok to be like this and that so many other people were like me. If someone is truly ashamed and disgusted by this lifestyle I don't see how they can be a member here. Thats all I'm saying.

I don't think that's what he was saying I think he just came across wrong. But listen its good that this place works for you but there's a big difference between being accepted here and being accepted in the real world. I think there's a lot of members here that hate the fetish. Wether it's because they don't understand it fully or they just wish they didn't have it. Doesn't mean anyone doesn't have the right to be here or should um...GTFO


'S all about acceptance right...thought it was when I signed up anyway...
 
I feel frustrated just reading the first post. Doesn't sound like sexually freedom, but sexually restraining oneself. Man, I'm glad I don't want to be free of my fetish.

I want to be your friend you too.
 
You can integrate to a point but there's also that point where 90% of girls are gonna say 'what the fuck?'. My sex life is anything but vanilla but I also still refuse to tell people about my fetish. Luckily I have no problem having sex without tickling but if I did...fuck would I be desperate to get rid of this fetish.


Well, that is why you should be up front from the beginning. Now if you are in a one night stand situation...then I doubt you would give a single fuck anyway. You may try it...get the negative reaction and then move on to just sex.

Now if it is a partner...someone who you have been dating and have a relationship with...you should be up front with your fetish. Most women I've encountered weren't freaked out by it or thought I was some weirdo....they were generally curious. I have two different fetishes...one with feet to a mild degree...and one with tickling which has been with me my entire life.

I find it usually draws curiosity over contempt. If they don't like it or feel uncomfortable...I'm fine with that...I won't continue those things and proceed to something else. Variety is key for me. I find if you concentrate on satisfying her needs then yours will be as well because lets face it...guys can get off in an instant...women (sometimes not always) need more.

It is good that your fetish doesn't control all aspects of your sexual life...it shouldn't. Like I said...variety is key to me.
 
I don't understand, what is there to be ashamed of? This whole thing just sounds like a load of unnecessary self-hatred.
 
I have also seen these Gurgor videos as well and I have to say I agree with what he's saying in regards to masturbation and the like. However what he's saying is devote yourself to your wife, and to stop looking at any porn/tickling material and masturbating alone. I don't think he's saying to disband your fetish in order to have great sex. In fact he definately isn't!

But from what you said you were doing to have great sex between you and your wife, it sounds like you made the right decision.
 
I don't think that's what he was saying I think he just came across wrong. But listen its good that this place works for you but there's a big difference between being accepted here and being accepted in the real world. I think there's a lot of members here that hate the fetish. Wether it's because they don't understand it fully or they just wish they didn't have it. Doesn't mean anyone doesn't have the right to be here or should um...GTFO


'S all about acceptance right...thought it was when I signed up anyway...

What are you on?

The original poster makes sure, twice, to use his Christian beliefs to re-enforce this system where what he found arousing was terrible and wrong. He went to great lengths to, apparently, make himself feel nausea at the 'porn' on here. All that detail, it all adds up to some sick inversion therapy because, unlike so many others here, the original poster is weak. He's weak because he couldn't have normal sex with his wife, which I don't know why he should be in the first place, since unless they are trying to make babies, having sex for pleasure should also be abhorrent to his myopic beliefs (but it isn't, because, well, Christian and mastibate). He's weak because he was so addicted to it that it had overtaken his life because he had no self control. And he's here to show others how to not be weak like him, through his training method and his beliefs. I'd love to pin this on the wife, because it sounds as though bro married someone who is only into dry missionary sex. But I can't, because more than likely, the original poster was so deviant, so broken, that he was an out and out creep who couldn't function without needing bust a nut.

But here's the thing; he doesn't want or need your apologizing for him. To be truthful, he probably looks at you, still with your fetish, as disgusting and vile. You've gone on and on about being socially accepted with a tickling fetish or whatever, and it makes no damn sense because NOBODY with a lick of common sense is going to publicly advertise their sexual proclivities. Know why? Because, most of us separate that aspect of ourselves, because personality and existence is about a balance. Example; in college, I battled weight issues, and still do today but that never stopped me from banging eights and nines on a pretty regular basis, and involving bondage and tickling into the deed. Never once was I shunned for it.

Public acceptance is such an opaque term in the first place. But it doesn't matter, because he didn't do what he did for public acceptance. He did what he did because his Christian beliefs were at war with his need and desire to tug himself uncontrollably to tickle porn.
 
And by the by, OP came to this site explicitly advertising his faith with wonderful posts like this;

"Was born into a non-religious family. Was first an atheist, then a Satanist, and then became a born again Christian, which I have been for the last 8 years. I have had a tickling fetish all my life and did not choose to have it, but have not let that get in the way of my faith. I joined this forum to learn more about my fetish and I was hoping to find other Christians who share it so I could learn how they integrate having a tickling fetish and faith in Christ. I am deeply saddened to read of so many falling away and am even more saddened to be
one of the only born again christians here :-( (by the way my touch screen phone has no scroll option so i have several lines below this that i cannot edit and i lost when i reread what i had wrote)
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one of the only "

He's a born again Christian hardliner. He shouldn't be here in the first place, considering how all carnal acts are sin.
 
Yeah, I never felt like I was the only one. I watched a lot of TV shows and movies I probably shouldn't have growing up and I realized early on that there are some genuinely sick people in the world and there are some people that are into some really crazy stuff, so tickling... yeah, pretty tame on the list of kinks.

The more you try to repress it, the more obsessed you're gonna get about it. The less you allow yourself to indulge, the more you're going to fantasize. The bigger of a deal you make it out to be in your head, the more likely people will act freaked out when you bring it up.

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Yeah, I never felt like I was the only one. I watched a lot of TV shows and movies I probably shouldn't have growing up and I realized early on that there are some genuinely sick people in the world and there are some people that are into some really crazy stuff, so tickling... yeah, pretty tame on the list of kinks.

The more you try to repress it, the more obsessed you're gonna get about it. The less you allow yourself to indulge, the more you're going to fantasize. The bigger of a deal you make it out to be in your head, the more likely people will act freaked out when you bring it up.

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Spot on Annie...

It is a classic case of repression and comes from Psyc Class 101.
 
And by the by, OP came to this site explicitly advertising his faith with wonderful posts like this;

"Was born into a non-religious family. Was first an atheist, then a Satanist, and then became a born again Christian, which I have been for the last 8 years. I have had a tickling fetish all my life and did not choose to have it, but have not let that get in the way of my faith. I joined this forum to learn more about my fetish and I was hoping to find other Christians who share it so I could learn how they integrate having a tickling fetish and faith in Christ. I am deeply saddened to read of so many falling away and am even more saddened to be
one of the only born again christians here :-( (by the way my touch screen phone has no scroll option so i have several lines below this that i cannot edit and i lost when i reread what i had wrote)
O
one of the only "

He's a born again Christian hardliner. He shouldn't be here in the first place, considering how all carnal acts are sin.

Mate, chill. I'm not interested in "apologizing" for anyone and I didn't mean it to seem like I'm fighting anyone's battles. I don't know the dude from Adam and I'm taking him on this one thread where it seemed like he was trying to do right by his misses so I thought fair play. And I wasn't talking about being socially accepted. As if anyone is going to spread they're bedroom habits around they're social circles for everyone to judge? And Iv been on the road for over two years with no intention of ever going home so the fuck do I care what people think? My point was in a one on one situation with a girl you'll be lucky to find one who will be accepting of something like this.

Anyway like I said it ain't my battle it would just be cool if people on here could accept that this fetish is a fucking curse to a lot of people. No reflection on you if you enjoy it that's cool too.

Oh and maybe leave the dudes wife out of your posts mate. Not cool.
 
I'm really finding it unusual that so many people seemingly hate having this fetish and see it as such a burden in life, yet they join an interactive community thats full of like minded people. Seriously, if you cant embrace it, GTFO.

And I find it unusual that so many guys on here have no trouble finding tickling partners or convert so many girls over. I want to be rid of this fetish because I can't get turned on without tickling a girl and I've never found a like-minded girl in real-life to have a relationship with. I don't think loving tickling is nauseating or repugnant but it should sure has limited my real-life ability to have a relationship. I lurked on here for nearly four years before I signed on to get the perspective of others who feel the same way as I do. I'm not in a relationship so I also want to look at clips and pictures. If I ever find my tickling sole mate I will happily GTFO.
 
Well, that is why you should be up front from the beginning. Now if you are in a one night stand situation...then I doubt you would give a single fuck anyway. You may try it...get the negative reaction and then move on to just sex.

Now if it is a partner...someone who you have been dating and have a relationship with...you should be up front with your fetish. Most women I've encountered weren't freaked out by it or thought I was some weirdo....they were generally curious. I have two different fetishes...one with feet to a mild degree...and one with tickling which has been with me my entire life.

I find it usually draws curiosity over contempt. If they don't like it or feel uncomfortable...I'm fine with that...I won't continue those things and proceed to something else. Variety is key for me. I find if you concentrate on satisfying her needs then yours will be as well because lets face it...guys can get off in an instant...women (sometimes not always) need more.

It is good that your fetish doesn't control all aspects of your sexual life...it shouldn't. Like I said...variety is key to me.

Lol sex advice? Cheers man!
 
Mate, chill. I'm not interested in "apologizing" for anyone and I didn't mean it to seem like I'm fighting anyone's battles. I don't know the dude from Adam and I'm taking him on this one thread where it seemed like he was trying to do right by his misses so I thought fair play. And I wasn't talking about being socially accepted. As if anyone is going to spread they're bedroom habits around they're social circles for everyone to judge? And Iv been on the road for over two years with no intention of ever going home so the fuck do I care what people think? My point was in a one on one situation with a girl you'll be lucky to find one who will be accepting of something like this.

Anyway like I said it ain't my battle it would just be cool if people on here could accept that this fetish is a fucking curse to a lot of people. No reflection on you if you enjoy it that's cool too.

Oh and maybe leave the dudes wife out of your posts mate. Not cool.

Dude I wish I had your way with words.
 
well, the point is easy. someone feels overtaken by the fetish, someother not. same way as someone could feel overtaken by the urge of have vanilla sex. the point is not that the fetish is bad itself but that some people can have troubles cause of it, as this guy had.

so no prob if he wanted to quit the fetish, if he feels better then it was the right choice. only wish that this can last long

anyway honestly it seems that he had more problems about masturbating himself too much to enjoy something else
 
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Mate, chill. I'm not interested in "apologizing" for anyone and I didn't mean it to seem like I'm fighting anyone's battles. I don't know the dude from Adam and I'm taking him on this one thread where it seemed like he was trying to do right by his misses so I thought fair play. And I wasn't talking about being socially accepted. As if anyone is going to spread they're bedroom habits around they're social circles for everyone to judge? And Iv been on the road for over two years with no intention of ever going home so the fuck do I care what people think? My point was in a one on one situation with a girl you'll be lucky to find one who will be accepting of something like this.

Anyway like I said it ain't my battle it would just be cool if people on here could accept that this fetish is a fucking curse to a lot of people. No reflection on you if you enjoy it that's cool too.

Oh and maybe leave the dudes wife out of your posts mate. Not cool.

This is a lot easier to take if you weren't posting in this thread from the get go by taking an antagonistic approach to people who were all wtf. You don't want to apologize for him, but you're using this thread as a proxy for something for yourself, maybe the notion that this fetish is to some level a curse or what have you. And that's whatever. You're not using inversion therapy to 'heal yourself' or find the stuff on this forum 'nauseating'.

And I used your words of socially acceptable, commenting how opaque it was. You might post in this post about any number of things, but your posts before this one are about social acceptance, about the potential of the fetish being a curse, and how 90% of women, even if they indulge, or going to say "WTF". You made the context of those points exist in a vacuum without your personal background information shared here.

As for bros wife? He made it about her. He went into menstrual cycles to explain his self inversion therapy. His wife is the centerpiece of his original post, and how being a born again Christian made it difficult to accept his tickling fetish, yet somehow not make it difficult to want to have a lot of sex with his wife even if this is problematic with his religious beliefs. He offered her up, period, and personally, I don't care if it's not cool because he gave everyone here way more information about their lives than was asked for.

The salient point shouldn't be that someone has difficulty with their fetish, it is that someone here is giving some sort of weird road map with his inversion therapy technique to cull it from their life completely. It reads like a born again testimonial of someone who is 'cured' of their homosexuality.
 
I want to be your friend you too.

Sure, let's have pizza sometime. 😉

But listen its good that this place works for you but there's a big difference between being accepted here and being accepted in the real world.

Guess what, the real world doesn't HAVE to accept you for your fetish, because your fetish isn't the real world's business. It's only your SO's business, and obviously his wife war lering for him, so - she did accept it. There didn't seem to be a problem, maybe except the guy's porn-addiction. I admit, that can be a problem!
 
This is a lot easier to take if you weren't posting in this thread from the get go by taking an antagonistic approach to people who were all wtf. You don't want to apologize for him, but you're using this thread as a proxy for something for yourself, maybe the notion that this fetish is to some level a curse or what have you. And that's whatever. You're not using inversion therapy to 'heal yourself' or find the stuff on this forum 'nauseating'.

And I used your words of socially acceptable, commenting how opaque it was. You might post in this post about any number of things, but your posts before this one are about social acceptance, about the potential of the fetish being a curse, and how 90% of women, even if they indulge, or going to say "WTF". You made the context of those points exist in a vacuum without your personal background information shared here.

As for bros wife? He made it about her. He went into menstrual cycles to explain his self inversion therapy. His wife is the centerpiece of his original post, and how being a born again Christian made it difficult to accept his tickling fetish, yet somehow not make it difficult to want to have a lot of sex with his wife even if this is problematic with his religious beliefs. He offered her up, period, and personally, I don't care if it's not cool because he gave everyone here way more information about their lives than was asked for.

Hmm yeah maybe. Look this is getting stupid so let's just agree to disagree. You call me antagonistic for defending the op and I only piped up in the first place because I felt others were being antagonistic so maybe we're all pricks right? You said I'm using this thread as a proxy for myself like I have my own agenda here? Nah that ain't really me dude so to prove it this is me officially trying to end it. Anything I said about this fetish being a curse to some people or how 90% of women would be freaked the fuck out by it was only drawn from personal experience to underline my point about the op - not to have a pop at anyone. I apologies if anyone was offended but I stand by my point.

Tata 🙂
 
Sometime's when people say they can never find, or almost never find, a potential partner that would be willing to indulge them, I wonder what they're approach to bringing up the subject of tickling sounds like.

Cuz a lot of people have no issues.
 
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