I might not be explaining myself very well 🙂 I don't really know how else to describe it.
Hari? Morgan? A little help?
Didn't mean to ignore ya, babe -- I was just trying to get my head around it, myself... Seems Hari and I were thinking the same thing -- that you didn't want to see the handle of the key, somehow, but just the hollow for the key and the key "teeth"... I was still trying to figure the best way to work that out... Glad Hari came up with a suitable solution...
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I really hope that you will. Most of what you've shared I've liked just as much as the neuron -- specifically the tri-feather, and the feather/stomach circle.
Thanks, sweetie.
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I think if there was a way to make it into just TWO feathers of opposites it would be more appropriate to the fetish. Does that make sense?
Just reading that sparked a good idea... I'll see what I can work up... ...mind if I put it in a circle?
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My friend that is my real last name! There's only a few other first names in this world that begins with "F"!
Most people have already found it out... 😉
Well, if it's too mundane, I'll have to require middle name, DOB and SSN as well...
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Since we're on the issue of being analogous... then my name being up here... out in the open... can be the perfect testament to me being open about the fetish... as with the symbol when it is brought into the real world... like BDSM when it caught the public's eye... 🙂
Not to say everyone is the same way... I understand that not everyone shares the same view of being open...
True enough. We all have varying degrees of acceptable privacy for this sort of thing.
Exactly my friend...
I'm not saying the fetish would be tarnish or uplifted in any way...
I'm just saying, if the case comes to hiding a secret that could bring "unwanted social repercussions" when exposed, then why would you have a symbol that would LEAD to the secret you are trying to hide? That's all I'm saying...
Why have a secret if you're gonna draw attention to it with a symbol?
Why did Superman only ever disguise himself as Clark Kent with a suit and pair of glasses? Sometimes, it just works...
The idea behind a coded symbol is simply to let in on its meaning who you want -- it's control of knowledge. Now, I could have a tattooist write down my arm, "Tickling makes me horny!" ...but I may not want everyone to know that.
But if I could have a symbol, I could let my selection of who I let in on that secret be the determining factor of what social repercussions there are (some of which may be VERY positive, as well). The symbol, therefore, is pragmatic, offering risk and benefit through discretion, whereas the declaration is pride, thrusting upon you possible risks and benefits without the control of discretion. We're choosing pragmatism over pride in this case.
That's understandable... and the idea does not elude me, but I doubt that most people here have the discipline of a spy... which brings me to the point that the secret of the mysterious symbol that we're going to have, has a very strong chance of being found out by the non fetish society, and then like I said in the past comments...the cat will be out of the bag... and then what? Not to say that the love is based on the symbol or measured by it...
I'm just saying that once a symbol of the secretive get's out to the public's knowledge, then the public WILL attribute the people wearing the symbol to the secret... and you can bet by then, that it will be foolish to wear the symbol if you don't want people to know about the secret once it's been called out... 😉
Dunno what circles you travel in, my friend, but before this, did you know that that triskele was the symbol for BDSM? And if so, through what avenue did you find it? The dispersal of information tends to correlate positively with its importance to individuals. Those who find such information inapplicable to themselves are markedly less likely to spread it. Those who find it applicable to themselves or are at least curious about it
might disperse it. I think on that basis, the secret will never be fully secret, but obscure, mysterious, possibly heavily rumored, and fairly
rarely known with any certainty to total outsiders. And with that, I'm more than comfortable.
I have been reading the comments on this subject,and with all do respect,I think some are kind of overdoing it a bit.I mean just vote on some symbols and if one is chosen then great.Once a symbol is established people can make a decision of wether or not to sport it ya know.I for one,like this idea so maybe I can spot others into tickling and allow them to spot me as well without feeling so uncomfortable.That would be cool.Tis just me ; )
I think we're overdoing it, too. But I think that's inevitable when trying to create a symbol to represent a large group for the foreseeable future. And really, despite the possibility of a public vote, the success of any symbol is dependent on the widespread adoption and accurate usage of it. We may very well come to a vote here, and gradually over time another symbol may gain in popularity and supercede the one voted for. Voting's one thing, use is another. In any event, I'm glad someone's trying to put together something as a starting point for wider adoption among fetishists of our stripe.