Looking to talk to people as people

[jgj]

Hi,

So I'll be straightforward, I am interested in getting to know people on here around my age, 21. I've seen many posts and have caught the occasional bout of negativity, and its not in my nature to pass judgement. After all, I wouldn't have joined the site if I wasn't open minded, however, I'm a straight guy and I'm not interested in talking tickling with another guy. I have seen that many of the females here struggle to trust the male populace, and sometimes, I don't blame them. But if this even slightly interests any girls, I would say that, yeah my end goal is to maybe someday meet up and comfortably explore this friendly activity in whatever way is best suited to both of us. But first, I am solely interested as getting to know you as a person, and not a second before that has been accomplished am I going to do anything to put you, or myself, out of a comfort zone.

Sorry, I pray it offends no one, it's just my personal preference. If you're a guy, and you wanna talk sports or something, I'd be happy to, I'm an avid fan of nearly all major sports, and I'm not saying that I am against getting to know you as a person.

Shoot me a message if you like.
Thanks.

 

[SecretSwitch]

Hate to be "that guy" but I think this might be better suited to be in the Personals section. I could be wrong though, I often am wrong about things haha.

 

[jgj]

Thanks for the help! Not always sure where things go, definitely not being "that guy" when trying to be helpful.

 

[Myriads]

Perfectly okay place to post this. It touches on aspects of things that many community members deal with, and might spark some debate.

It all falls under the topic of "How do I connect with people here". And that is always worth chatting over.

Myriads

 

[piyr]

I get how you feel. I'd like to talk with someone about how it's affected us, issues we deal with, etc... and am not comfortable talking about it with another guy either. I think women are so used to guys having ulterior motives that it they just avoid it altogether.

My other concern is that I don't completely trust myself either. It's an intimate conversation after all. I think my perfect chat partner would be a lesbian that would have absolutely no desire for me.

 

[TigerChick22]

I totally get it! I'm here to make friends as well. There are some great people here that are awesome to talk to and seem like REAL people! No matter where you go there are one track minded people who don't care about anything else, but weed through those people and you'll find some awesome ones!

 

[gigglemakr]

I'm a straight guy also, but I could "talk tickling" with TMF guys, but NOT in the sense of an encounter, but only in the sense of past experiences and strategies regarding female lees. As far as my local male friends, I don't discuss this fetish at all as it is part of my sex life which I consider to be private.