Male Ler/Lee's vs Female Ler/Lees

[BlackDragonScar]

Who are the most dominate Lers, Males or Females? Also who do you think are the cuter Lees? GO!

 

[Hyena]

The second question probably involves a lot of personal taste-factor, but I'm going to nominate myself for both.

 

[solleticoso1]

Well, IN MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCES...

Males are more dominant ticklers, while females are cuter lees 90% of the time...

 

[dalekfire]

It really all depends on the person, not a male/female thing at all. Statistically speaking (at least for those who contribute a stance on the subject), males here tend to take to the 'ler side, while most females seem to prefer the 'lee side. But the "dominance" factor really is a situational thing, and I personally believe that line falls more toward the center for males and females. 🙂

As for the cutest 'lee?

 

[Ticklish&InLove]

Hmmmm..... I really think its more a matter of "styles" of tickling. Females often have longer nails which can cause instantaneous ticklish reactions, while males generally use the strength of squeezing their hands to do the same. So therefore, it is probably a matter of personal taste (IE, "weakness" to touch) and whether the Ler is inclined to ignore pleading laughter or not. By that measure, I must confess that I've found women to be much more merciless than men.

 

[BlackDragonScar]

It really all depends on the person, not a male/female thing at all. Statistically speaking (at least for those who contribute a stance on the subject), males here tend to take to the 'ler side, while most females seem to prefer the 'lee side. But the "dominance" factor really is a situational thing, and I personally believe that line falls more toward the center for males and females. 🙂

As for the cutest 'lee?

I don't think its like that anymore statistically Dalek. Seems to me guys have taken on more of a leeish role now a days then ler. AS I seem to find a lot more guys into leeing then actually lering, but maybe that's just me

 

[BlackDragonScar]

Hmmmm..... I really think its more a matter of "styles" of tickling. Females often have longer nails which can cause instantaneous ticklish reactions, while males generally use the strength of squeezing their hands to do the same. So therefore, it is probably a matter of personal taste (IE, "weakness" to touch) and whether the Ler is inclined to ignore pleading laughter or not. By that measure, I must confess that I've found women to be much more merciless than men.

Girls have a lot more then hair my dear lol. Just stating my opinion. Girls use there body, charm, and skills of seduction very well when it comes to lering. Nails are an added bonus, but same could be said on the way they can use there tongue or hair. Men yes have strength and can usually tickle a bit harder then most. Other then that I see females as the more dominates and males (at least from what i'm told :blush ) are the cuter lee's

 

[Ticklish&InLove]

Girls have a lot more then hair my dear lol. Just stating my opinion. Girls use there body, charm, and skills of seduction very well when it comes to lering. Nails are an added bonus, but same could be said on the way they can use there tongue or hair. Men yes have strength and can usually tickle a bit harder then most. Other then that I see females as the more dominates and males (at least from what i'm told :blush ) are the cuter lee's

"Hair?" - not sure what you are referring to when you say "girls are a lot more than hair"?

But as for being seductive, as a bi person, I find either genddr equally capable of being seductive, charming and capable of using their bodies to up the ante as a Ler. So, I think you may be seeing things through a straight male's eyes in terms of associating those traits with females. Especially as the male Ler's around here are second to none when it comes to reducing me to giggles or blushing or squealing outloud at the computer screen! :blush :blush :blush :blush

As for cutest Lees, I think that is again a personal choice Reflective of a person's natural inclination towards dominance or submission. "Cute" denotes submissive, so as a male submissive, you relate to it.

I'm also more naturally inclined towards enjoying being submissive and love a Ler who can dominate me without needing to tie me up as to me that demonstrates their complete control. This also means they need to be strong enough to overpower me. As a 4'11 petite female, that means a taller woman can do that, but often, it is more likely to be a man.

In my experience, both on the forum and in life, people tend to call me "cute" or "adorable"....don't know why, but I think in life its because of my small stature and the fact I tend to squeal and giggle instantaneously when tickled!!!! blushblush

 

[BlackDragonScar]

this true its all in the eye of the ler/lee, but frankly I have known some lers who use there hair to tickle if they have long enough hair. I don't see men being as seductive as women honestly, I just think women are better at it, but maybe cuz i'm a guy, plus you aren't the only one they call cute or adorable, as you always call me missy!

 

[Ticklish&InLove]

this true its all in the eye of the ler/lee, but frankly I have known some lers who use there hair to tickle if they have long enough hair. I don't see men being as seductive as women honestly, I just think women are better at it, but maybe cuz i'm a guy, plus you aren't the only one they call cute or adorable, as you always call me missy!

I never said I was the only one called "cute", silly! :stickout I said that I get called that in life and online because you stated that you thought men were generally thought that way. The point I was making is I think preferences are largely based on one's sexual orientation. Hence why as a bi female I can see either gender as having the potential to be seductive or cute or etc. I'm personally usually going to think of dominates/Lers as "seductive" and submissives/Lees as "cute". So maybe that's the key similarity between our perspectives: The act of being "seductive" being seen as an act of dominance.