Married question: tickling on your wedding night?! (day....honeymoon....)

[The Internet]

I always wonder at a wedding.....will he tickle the bride? Ha.......

So when YOU got married....wives, were you tickled in your bridal dress? Or on your first night together? On your honeymoon?

Grooms, did you tickle the bride? Or maybe it was the other way around.

Or maybe you were a bridesmaid? You're at the reception with your boyfriend, or maybe you meet someone there......maybe the drunken uncle of the groom sneaks in a tickle....who knows....I sure don't, that's why I'm asking! 🙂

 

[JaySnow]

Hell yeah!!! I tickled the heck out of my wife in and out of her wedding dress. I'll never forget her very sheer white stockings that seemed barely there as I tickled her little feet.

 

[Restraints]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.

But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).

It was a long 20 years.

 

[The Internet]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.

But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).

It was a long 20 years.

Restraints, that is the single most chililng thing I've ever heard. Bait and switch.

"The rules have changed"....on your wedding night????!!!!!! I feel an insulting name coming to my lips but i won't say it.

Hey people....let's get this guy a beer or something, a sub..................so sorry to hear that, brother, so so sorry......🙁

 

[The Internet]

Hell yeah!!! I tickled the heck out of my wife in and out of her wedding dress. I'll never forget her very sheer white stockings that seemed barely there as I tickled her little feet.

Jay on the other hand......good job!

 

[Wolf]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.
But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).
It was a long 20 years.

Ouch. That's really sad.
This is why I tell people how important it is to get your sexual likes, dislikes, deal-breakers, etc. out in the open before you make a commitment. Saves a lot of heartache and hurt feelings.

 

[TKLVR18]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.

But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).

It was a long 20 years.

Yikes 🙁 Sounds like your bride thought she could 'change you once the ring was on'--ladies and gentlemen of the single variety, let me just warn you now that this does NOT happen.

~K

 

[Wolf]

Yikes 🙁 Sounds like your bride thought she could 'change you once the ring was on'--ladies and gentlemen of the single variety, let me just warn you now that this does NOT happen.

~K

Maybe she didn't know it was a sexual thing for him. It doesn't seem like there was a lot of open communication there.

 

[GQguy]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.

But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).

It was a long 20 years.

I think that's the saddest story I've heard! Definitely a cautionary tale. I've learned so much from this forum over the years.

 

[Restraints]

Actually . . . and thanks for the concern, everyone . . . she figured it out on her own quite early in our relationship. Tickling was a part of things every time we were intimate. She even allowed me to make audio recordings of her laughter for periods when work/school/circumstances would keep us apart. I "stopped" whenever she said the word. It is, indeed, a sad story. I've done better since.

 

[Sensualswitch10]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.

But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).

It was a long 20 years.

Reminds me of an un-funny joke.
Why does a bride always smile on her wedding day?

Cause she knows she's given her last blow job.

 

[TTT for joy]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.

But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).

It was a long 20 years.

Wow that's really mean of her. Why did she change her mind so abruptly: did you ever discuss it with her? Honestly such an arrogant sounding phrase like "The rules have changed." would be more than enough for me to break the marriage on the spot. That just sounds so extremely inconsiderate for any occasion let alone sex: who is she to dictate the "rules"?

 

[Libertine]

Wow that's really mean of her. Why did she change her mind so abruptly: did you ever discuss it with her? Honestly such an arrogant sounding phrase like "The rules have changed." would be more than enough for me to break the marriage on the spot. That just sounds so extremely inconsiderate for any occasion let alone sex: who is she to dictate the "rules"?

TTT for joy, you'll find soon enough that women DO dictate the rules for sex, and can you imagine poor Restraints attempting to petition for an annulment the day after their wedding, citing his newly-discovered frustration? As soon as he attempted to provide details the judge and lawyers would all be desperately trying to keep straight faces before the whole thing was 'laughed' out of court.

Fortunately my wife of almost 10 years dipped her toe in the proverbial waters and with my guidance became a TK fetishist before we married, so (for the time being at least) all's well on our Venusian Front.

 

[TTT for joy]

TTT for joy, you'll find soon enough that women DO dictate the rules for sex, and can you imagine poor Restraints attempting to petition for an annulment the day after their wedding, citing his newly-discovered frustration? As soon as he attempted to provide details the judge and lawyers would all be desperately trying to keep straight faces before the whole thing was 'laughed' out of court.

The problem is the arrogance implied in the phrase "The rules have changed". I don't care that much whether it was about sex or anything else: that kind of phrase to me is unacceptable in almost any context. It is extremely disrespectful towards the other person: and I do not think, that there can be a healthy relationship when one person of the couple makes such a statement that closes any possibility of discussion: especially right after marriage. If she said something like "I don't want you to tickle me anymore.", I could somewhat respect it, but to simply state "The rules have changed" is to me a profound mark of disrespect.

 

[SwingerJ]

I'm getting married soon and my fiancée just scheduled her pedicure for two days before the wedding. I guess she told someone "yeah, I'm getting a pedicure and he just loves to tickle me" she's in for it, BAD!

 

[porcelaindoll2]

We didn't really have a wedding or not in the traditional sense. In PA they have something called a self uniting marriage license and that is the option we chose. It is basically exactly as it sounds we united our self's and had two witnesses sign the license. We both didn't really believe in the institution of marriage(I mean really we already knew we loved each other and no stupid paper was going to make us love each other more!) and therefore we didn't want to spend or have our families spend all that money on something we pretty much found to be worthless. Well except for the fact this country pretty much forces couples to get married if they want their lives to be easier and I wanted to get on his health insurance. We had already been living together for almost two years and had been dating for three years before we got married in Dec. 2015. He pretty much tickles me almost every night when were not apart and we're in an open marriage, so I can tickle/ be tickled outside of the relationship. We are going to have a honeymoon, but when we got married he was in between jobs. Once we're moved and settled in North Carolina we'll figure out what we want to do for a honeymoon. I want to rent a cabin in the mountains, but I think he wants to go somewhere tropical. Sorry if I got a little ranty about marriage. More power to the other couples that believe in it and had a huge reception.

 

[gilmourwaters]

Of course there was tickling on our wedding night! Hell I tickled her foot at the reception! lol

 

[Restraints]

The problem is the arrogance implied in the phrase "The rules have changed". I don't care that much whether it was about sex or anything else: that kind of phrase to me is unacceptable in almost any context. It is extremely disrespectful towards the other person: and I do not think, that there can be a healthy relationship when one person of the couple makes such a statement that closes any possibility of discussion: especially right after marriage. If she said something like "I don't want you to tickle me anymore.", I could somewhat respect it, but to simply state "The rules have changed" is to me a profound mark of disrespect.

TTT, I have other marks, too. Thanks for your kindness.

 

[mabus]

TTT, I have other marks, too. Thanks for your kindness.

Why stay married?

Fear she may shame you to your family or friends? Some other negative reason?

That doesn't sound anything close to a healthy relationship at all.

I'd have hit the road the next day. Or been such an asshole SHE would either hit the road, or joined me in my misery.

"Oh that's fine, the rules have changed for me too. I ain't taking a bath everyday. Or seeing your stupid family again. Or going watch those dumb ass romance movies."

The list would go on and on.....

 

[Deleted member 2452]

For three years, I tickled my bride-to-be. She didn't love it, but I didn't abuse the privilege. She never complained.

But on our wedding night, as I began to tickle her sides, she stopped me. "No more," she said. "The rules have changed." Only on the rarest occasions was I allowed to tickle her after that (she allowed me to gently tickle her feet when she was "too tired" for sex).

It was a long 20 years.

in all seriousness, i would have said "are you sure that is how you want it?" if she said yes, i would have gathered my stuff and left. the next day i would have filed for an annulment.
steve

 

[Wolf]

in all seriousness, i would have said "are you sure that is how you want it?" if she said yes, i would have gathered my stuff and left. the next day i would have filed for an annulment.
steve

I'm wondering why he put up with it for twenty years, when she made it clear that was the way things would be.

 

[The Internet]

I started this thread thinking this would be the sweetest of all threads.....turns out it's the saddest! And most bitter! I feel that way, too. You can almost hear us guys all growling and shaking our heads.

But now, what do you say, let's cut Restraints a break! It's a little more complicated then just "why did you take it for twenty years?" Easy for us to say! He seems to be very in touch with his own reality and his own regrets, a bitterness that's palpable..... let's not rub it in! I think he knows!

You want to help Restraints? Donate your girlfriends! You heard me! Donate your girlfriends! Start packing their bags, we're taking up a collection, they're going down to Restraints on a bus for a summer of tickling.....what do you think, Restraints, you think that might help you get over it?

Anything to bring closure to one of the most appalling and saddest of stories ever to surface on the TMF. 🙁

 

[Libertine]

You want to help Restraints? Donate your girlfriends! You heard me! Donate your girlfriends! Start packing their bags, we're taking up a collection, they're going down to Restraints on a bus for a summer of tickling.....

Your girlfriend first, please. And while you're at it, post a picture of her, showing her face.

So much for that.

 

[Sensualswitch10]

You want to help Restraints? Donate your girlfriends! You heard me! Donate your girlfriends!

Not sure how any of my lady friends would feel about being "donated".
Maybe you could start a go fund me page instead lol. Mistress Mia or Siren Simone or Addie Juniper could probably be talked into it if they make it to Restraints's area. 😀

 

[ticklishmrs]

Wow, those are quite the responses!
I was married fairly young, 20, and my husband to be already knew of my ticklishness from our dating. So on our wedding night, after the reception and when we arrived at the hotel for our honeymoon, he tickled me all night(of course there was a lot of intimacy too). He tickled me all through our honeymoon and has tickled me often since, for 33 years. I have no complaints.