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Massaging the feet of another man's woman, moral or immoral?

curious

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Hey guys,

I was thinking lately about whether or not giving another guys chick a foot massage was, .... well right. I mean I generally feel that a dude giving a woman a foot massage is pretty intimate, though not necessarily sexual. However I do think that it crosses some boundaries. What do you guys think?
 
I think Jon Travolta answers that pretty well in Pulp Fiction. If anyone has not seen that film, watch it. It is one of Tarantino's best.
 
Hey guys,

I was thinking lately about whether or not giving another guys chick a foot massage was, .... well right. I mean I generally feel that a dude giving a woman a foot massage is pretty intimate, though not necessarily sexual. However I do think that it crosses some boundaries. What do you guys think?

Ok, since that piece of pulp fiction script is out of the way, no. Is tickling another's S/O at a gathering wrong? In that instance you are putting your hands in a lot more places than just her feet. So I guess it comes down to what is the context of the massage? If you are sneaking into her house while the husband is away giving a foot massage in hopes to score, than that is wrong. Rubbing a friend's feet to relieve pain or as part of aftercare helping someone relax, I don't think it is. I guess everyone has their own moral scale. Can a foot massage be intimate? Most definitely. Can a foot massage be just rubbing someone's feet? Most definitely.
 
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If you do it for your and/or her sexual gratification, it is immoral unless her partner doesn't mind.

If it's just a foot rub, I don't see how that would be immoral.
 
As I think they cover in Pulp Fiction, it depends entirely on the context. If a guy with a foot fetish massages a girl's feet who he finds attractive, it's sexual and you are crossing boundaries, no question. If you are doing anything that you wouldn't do with her boyfriend sitting there, then that's your answer. Just because there are people who don't think it is sexual and aren't turned on by feet doesn't count.
I feel the quote is appropriate. Under 18s, look away.

Jules: Look, just because I don't be givin' no man a foot massage don't make it right for Marsellus to throw Antwone into a glass motherfuckin' house, fuckin' up the way the nigger talks. Motherfucker do that shit to me, he better paralyze my ass, 'cause I'll kill the motherfucker, know what I'm sayin'?
Vincent: I ain't saying it's right. But you're saying a foot massage don't mean nothing, and I'm saying it does. Now look, I've given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something. We act like they don't, but they do, and that's what's so fucking cool about them. There's a sensuous thing going on where you don't talk about it, but you know it, she knows it, fucking Marsellus knew it, and Antwone should have fucking better known better. I mean, that's his fucking wife, man. He can't be expected to have a sense of humor about that shit. You know what I'm saying?
Jules: That's an interesting point. Come on, let's get into character.
 
If you do it for your and/or her sexual gratification, it is immoral unless her partner doesn't mind.

If it's just a foot rub, I don't see how that would be immoral.

Yep. I'd go with that. But, in doing so, I also keep in mind that a person's sense of "morals" is often very unique and personal. So, I'd stop short of holding others to my own moral code. After all, none of us has that right. (Nobody would "morally" be able to do much of anything if the world followed my own personal thoughts. lol)
 
let's not forget what the woman in question thinks about this? she isn't property and can make her own decisions.
 
Well, I'd try to keep these guidelines in my head for anything similar.

1.) Would you still give the foot massage if her boy friend was looking at you?

2.) See point 1.) and add...if the guy is like two feet taller than you.

3.) How would you feel is someone gave YOUR significant other a foot massage without your approval? If you don't like the sound of that, then it's probably not a good idea.

XD

B
 
I think it depends on the intentions of the massage. Are you trying to get turned on or turn on the recipient? Then yes, it would be sexual and be more than a usual massage in my opinion. But if your intent was to just make the person feel good, maybe to help relax them after a rough day or to help ease out some soreness, esp. to someone who LOVES foot massages (such as myself, hint hint), then it's just that....something nice to do for someone. That's how I feel anyways. Most of the foot massages that I have received were not sexual in nature at all.......just wonderful ways to relax. Ahhhhhhhhhhh...........

Have a nice day!
 
My friends wife used to put her feet on my lap and wimper for a foot rub. He hated doing it. I was good at it. She loved it. Three way win. It's just a foot rub. C'mon.
 
Funny - I just had a conversation with this girl i use to go out with talking about friends with benefits.

I eluded to how extra special it is when one party has kinks. I told her how i use to give my ex girlfriend massages and we use to tied each other up making love, tickling and body worship.

She said she never trusted anyone that much but she loves foot massages. I'm going to stop by her place, bring a movie and a bottle of wine and see where it goes.... not really wrong.

From a vanilla stand point, it is more of an intimate thing. Usually when a guy genuinely gives a foot massage, it is a way of saying I like/am comfortable with you.
 
I do it all the time in real life, though my personality borders on coolguy that can pull it off and douchebag.

If they had a problem with it they can say something, but if a girl willingly put her feet in my lap and let me massage her obviously I've done something right and see no problem with anything unless the man was a "That's my woman!" type of jackass.
 
It's not the action necessarily, it's what's behind it. If feet are sexually arousing to you then it's wrong of you to be doing that.

However, even if feet aren't sexually arousing to you, giving a foot massage as someone said is still an intimate activity. Even without my foot fetish, I would be very upset to find someone else rubbing my woman's feet.
 
I'd never massage another woman's feet unless we had something going on. When we went camping earlier this year, a friend of mine massaged another friend's lady's feet. I couldn't help but think about Pulp Fiction.

If someone massaged my lady's feet (unless it was in a professional setting [Podiatrist]), I'd be upset as I think that's personal and intimate, even more so considering I have a toe fetish. Even a back massage would be enough to tick me off.
 
There are only three people involved, including the husband or boyfriend of the woman who's getting the foot massage. If all three are agreed that it should happen, then it is entirely moral and ethical.

I have massaged a married woman's feet at NEST with her husband sitting right there and happy that she's getting what she wants, a foot rub. :feets:
 
There are only three people involved, including the husband or boyfriend of the woman who's getting the foot massage. If all three are agreed that it should happen, then it is entirely moral and ethical.

I have massaged a married woman's feet at NEST with her husband sitting right there and happy that she's getting what she wants, a foot rub. :feets:

This sums it up. If the boyfriend or husband does not mind, then it's not a problem. Of course the girl has her own mind and can make her own choices and if those choices bother her significant other, then they probably are not going to workout anyway.

But I have always believed that you never do anything to someone else's woman, or guy for that matter, unless their bf or gf does not mind. I don't think anyone wants the carma of causing problems in someone else's relationship on their hands.
 
It really depends on who is doing the massaging, what their relationship is to the person, and so forth.

Being the foot fetishist I am, I'm pretty certain that I wouldn't like anyone else touching my woman's feet other than me. That being said, if the person giving the massage, was, for example, her brother, her cousin, or a platonic best friend, who I knew was just doing it to relieve pain in her foot, or what not, I'd probably be okay with it. Also, I would hope that except for the circumstances I mentioned, my wife or gf wouldnt want a foot massage from anyone else but me.

If it was just a random person, or someone who was not a good friend, who I didnt trust, then no, I wouldnt like that at all, and I would hope any girl I was with wouldnt like or want it either.

Mitch
 
If a guy with a foot fetish massages a girl's feet who he finds attractive, it's sexual and you are crossing boundaries, no question. If you are doing anything that you wouldn't do with her boyfriend sitting there, then that's your answer.

Right on.

Can a foot massage be intimate? Most definitely. Can a foot massage be just rubbing someone's feet? Most definitely.

This is also right on. It depends on the context of doing it. It doesn't ALWAYS have to be sexual and wrong.

--T
 
Its fully dependant on the mutual understanding of the situation. Theres no rules here.
 
Hey guys,

I was thinking lately about whether or not giving another guys chick a foot massage was, .... well right. I mean I generally feel that a dude giving a woman a foot massage is pretty intimate, though not necessarily sexual. However I do think that it crosses some boundaries. What do you guys think?
I think you should ask the man and woman in question. Theirs are the only opinions that really matter.
 
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