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Missing our Christmas Angel - Mom

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5 Years ago, on Christmas Eve, my mom passed away of a malignant brain tumor. We didn't think she would go so soon but God apparently needed her up there.

I received this poem in the mail the other day. It is written by one of my nephews who drove by "Grandma's House" and he put it on paper. It's SO touching and I wanted to share it with you.


Grandma's House

I went by grandma's house today and nothing was the same
What happened to when we all used to play?
And it seemed the day would never go away.
Her house was the place where we would meet.
We would sit and talk and drink and eat.
We wrestled and nestled and played football in the street.

When I sit back and stare
and think of why and when and where
Everything that I've tried to hide
everything that's been bottled deep inside
It all breaks free and tries to be, the way we were when we were three
Over there, at the house, jumping around on the couch

These are the times that are in the past
The times that we cherished
The times that are filled with memories that will forever last

I went by grandma's house today and nothing was the same
This was the place where we were sent
The place where we were comfortable and most content
We would mess around and cross the line
This is how it was when we were nine
Under the table during dinner
tying shoes together to see who was the winner

These are the times that went by so fast
The times that we cherished
Times that flew by but will last forever

I went by Grandma's house today and nothing was the same
This was the place where we were raised
Hours went by and we weren't fazed
I like to go back to the place where we grew
At twenty-two, it was the best place I ever knew
Even if I knew what would come next
The questions and answers would be too complex

These are the times that are in the past
The times that we cherished
Times that will forever be unsurpassed

When I was three you were with me
When I turned nine you were mine
And at twenty-two, I was losing you

Well this is here and this is now
We get by but don't know how
Days go by and seasons change
We do too, but it feels strange

The one thing that will forever ring true
The one thing that we always knew....
The one person that would be there,
The staple of our family, was you


To our mother, our sister, our grandma, our Aunt, our friend
 
I remember what you went through that year,love....

I still miss dad every Christmas for these past 22 years as he was the one that ALWAYS made it special for the kids....

Remembering what our loved ones did and what they meant to us keeps them close to us always....
 
That's such a touching poem. I'm sorry for the loss. She had to been such an amazing person. You can hear the love in that poem.
 
She was, as they say, a Class act indeed. I am so lucky to have been her daughter. That poem was so amazing and it is obviously written from the heart of a nice young man who put to paper what all the grandkids, and us kids, are thinking and feeling.

It's a weird feeling. I miss her so much and yet I feel her around me often. I didn't think I could truly live my life once she was gone but the lessons learned from her, both before and after she died, have been good lessons that have enhanced my life.

That last Christmas she wanted to make sure everyone had a special gift since we all knew that would be her last Christmas. A few weeks before Christmas she picked out special ornaments for everyone in the family. We didn't know she would die on Christmas Eve as she had no symptoms of deteriorating but she surprised us that day. That made her last Christmas gifts even more special to each of us.

We have wonderful memories of her both at her house, on vacation and especially Christmas at her house. I drove by her house a couple of months ago when we were in California and while it looks much the same.... it didn't feel like her house anymore and that was ok. It's part of the healing from the grieving.

She continues to live in our hearts and our memories and I remain thankful every day that I was honored with her as my Mom.
 
What an amazing poem! This was the second Christmas without my mom and it was hard. One day at a time......
 
I understand Ray and Angel. The loss of a parent creates such a feeling of emptiness at times. Angel.... I love your little pic with the "My Mom IS my hero"... that's precious. My mom died of cancer as well - a brain tumor. The only blessing in her having her specific cancer is that she was never in any pain and only took one pain pill after her brain surgery when they removed as much of the tumor as they could. She was tough and was very open about her feelings about dying which made it easier on all us kids in dealing with her passing.

She wasn't scared at all. She was looking forward to reuniting with those loved ones who had passed and she knew all of us would be fine when she was gone. She had been through it when she lost her parents and she paved the way for us to deal with it when it was her time to go by being open about talking about it over the years. It did make it easier but it still wasn't easy.

ok... enough of this.... now let's move on with this wonderful ride called life. We're ending 2009 which has been rough on so many people. I'm looking forward to 2010 and a fresh start, a new outlook and lots of fun.

So... Happy New Year Everyone

Enjoy Livin'
 
That was beautiful. It is hard to get through the holiday without Mom. I know how you feel. We had a time of remembering this Christmas. Always keep the fun memories in your heart. Bless your heart. Have a happy New Year.
 
I understand Ray and Angel. The loss of a parent creates such a feeling of emptiness at times. Angel.... I love your little pic with the "My Mom IS my hero"... that's precious. My mom died of cancer as well - a brain tumor. The only blessing in her having her specific cancer is that she was never in any pain and only took one pain pill after her brain surgery when they removed as much of the tumor as they could. She was tough and was very open about her feelings about dying which made it easier on all us kids in dealing with her passing.

She wasn't scared at all. She was looking forward to reuniting with those loved ones who had passed and she knew all of us would be fine when she was gone. She had been through it when she lost her parents and she paved the way for us to deal with it when it was her time to go by being open about talking about it over the years. It did make it easier but it still wasn't easy.

ok... enough of this.... now let's move on with this wonderful ride called life. We're ending 2009 which has been rough on so many people. I'm looking forward to 2010 and a fresh start, a new outlook and lots of fun.

So... Happy New Year Everyone

Enjoy Livin'


And a very Happy New Year to you too!!!! :twohugs: :bubbleheart: :toast:
 
my mom passed away 3 years ago December.....I miss her very much...
 
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