My success story, and a humble request. :)

[LittleFeather1]

So, here's the deal, guys.

I've been using this website since 2009, and last year I met someone on here who I have become quite close with. We met in our very own TT chatroom. It started out with just chatting, and then moved to playful tickling, before we decided to take it to a private chat. Well....we got to talking....and realized that we had so much more in common than just tickling, and over the following months decided that it is possible for something wonderful to exist for us. However, the catch is this - he lives nearly 2,000 miles away from me. However, his feelings for me are so strong that last summer he took a plane up to see me and let me tell you, the time I spent with him was incredible and that weekend is one I will never forget. Since then we have met one other time, last November, and have only grown closer since then.

Here's where you come in.

He is going to come down to visit me again in April. He and I are both HUGE tickle fetishists and we are also both into feet (I wasn't when I met him...but he sort of converted me. Heh!) We'd like your suggestions on things to do when we're together. Take it or leave it, either way, I just want to thank you all so much for being such an awesome and supportive community. 🙂

 

[blackcat_mrau]

I don't think that I can help you on your request part (no feet fetish), but I'm so happy to hear about your story 😍 hope you will have a lot of fun!

 

[dalekfire]

Kaity,

I first would like to congratulate you on meeting the love of your life, and am absolutely thrilled that our Theater could serve as a large piece of that experience. 🙂 I remember first meeting you in that silly chatroom you speak of - I do believe during your first week here in fact - and it's so wonderful to know that you've come so far and attained such happiness since then. We wish you the very best in your new journey with your lucky man!

It's great that you've met him through the net and were able to use this time to get to know each other before meeting. Your story seems very familiar to mine, as I met my love through a message board as well (and she's literally a fourth a world away!), and I can say from experience that, although a tough thing to go through, a long-distance relationship can be sooo significant in building the bond that's so important for a long-lasting relationship, since most of the focus is on communication, rather than physical...stuffs. It's a great way to build a strong foundation that'll help support all the experiences you two will have once you're finally together for good.

That said, I'd stress that, since physical meetings like the one that'll happen in April is so rare in this phase of the relationship, you two should focus first and foremost on making the most of that meeting through a myriad of different things, including of course the foot fetish/tickling. But that moment on the top of a Ferris-wheel, sharing a romantic dinner at a nice restaurant, watching a movie together with arms-around-shoulders...you can only have those a few times before the big move occurs, so best to focus on those first-and-foremost.

Then again, it's fun to combine that with tickly/feetie stuffs, too! For example, renting a movie and watching it at home can be fun if, say, you were trestled with lots of rope, with your feet on his lap, and he can randomly and sneakily tickle them at moments when the movie gets funny or something. I'm sure the foot-massage scenario is a time-honored tradition in a romantic relationship...that, mixed in with some foot-worship, can cover many bases all at once! Finally, along with all the obvious things you can do with bondage and tickling, especially after a particularly exhausting session, remember that "aftercare" can feel amazing, and can even help put you in the mood for...well, whatever it is you do at this stage of the relationship. :lol

There are lots of fun potential things you can do. But, again, just remember, because meetings like this probably don't happen nearly as often as you two would like, get through with the most important, memorable things first, before anything else.

And again, best of luck with your relationship, and keep us posted about it! :happy:

 

[LittleFeather1]

Thanks so much for your comprehensive response, Dalek! We'll keep you posted on what happens in the future. 🙂 I really agree with the bonding before playtime thing, we are both big on that. Your suggestions were great too! I'm sure he'll be thrilled.

 

[Mash]

Dude, amagawd.

Don't you love it when stuff like that happens? 😀

I'm in er, a similar boat, and while I won't be able to give you as thorough of a response as Dalek, I will congratulate you on your blossoming relationship, and wish you both the best. ^^

 

[LittleFeather1]

Thanks, Mash. 🙂 I'm a very lucky girl.

 

[Andy_D]

I'll agree with Dalek's post, pretty much covers the whole 'taking it easy/playful fun' idea.

I'm mostly just super jealous! Well done on finding someone with lots of similar interests 🙂

 

[paracarl44]

I'm glad to hear that your interest in tickling has developed into a nice relationship. Please keep us posted.