Hello, Everyone
An Old-Timer here - I check in frequently but haven't posted very often, as I don't have much real world experience or all that much unique to offer.
Hopefully that will change soon, as my wife (finally!) is beginning to really understand what tickling does for me. She is extremely ticklish herself, but absolutely HATES being tickled & always has. I certainly respect her views, but it has clouded the reality to her that someone could actually ENJOY being tickled. After many years and discussions that I won't bore you with, we've just begun to incorporate bondage and tickling into our sex life. Several times now she's tied me to our bed in a tight spread eagle and really worked me over in a spectacular manner. I'm in my mid-forties, but, fortunately for me, still exceptionally ticklish.
Now to my problem/question: Does anyone know of a technique or a product that's readily available to aid in my laughter? It seems like an odd request and I don't recall reading much about this previously on the TMF.
You see, even though I'm so ticklish and she's doing a great job tickling the crap out of me, my responses tend to be grunts, thrashing, some coughing, pulling violently, gasping for air, begging & pleading for her to stop with just a little laughter thrown in. Even the bursts of laughter I do have sound (at least to me) forced and a bit fake. She knows from my reaction "below the belt" that I'm enjoying it in some way, but has to be puzzled as to why. She hasn't complained about it yet, but I think my reacting with more laughter would make it appear more fun and less bothersome for her. Most would agree that hysterical laughter is a lot more fun, light-hearted & infectious and preferrable by almost everyone (except you hard core sadists out there!)
I'm not overthinking it or stressing out about it, but with her background I'd like it to be as comfortable and as fun as possible for her (knowing full well she'll never be as "into" it as I am/we are.)
Wheeling in a tank of nitrous oxide may get me to laugh like crazy, but I have no idea where to get one and am afraid it would be a bit over the top! Any thoughts, suggestions or commentary would be much appreciated Thanks!
An Old-Timer here - I check in frequently but haven't posted very often, as I don't have much real world experience or all that much unique to offer.
Hopefully that will change soon, as my wife (finally!) is beginning to really understand what tickling does for me. She is extremely ticklish herself, but absolutely HATES being tickled & always has. I certainly respect her views, but it has clouded the reality to her that someone could actually ENJOY being tickled. After many years and discussions that I won't bore you with, we've just begun to incorporate bondage and tickling into our sex life. Several times now she's tied me to our bed in a tight spread eagle and really worked me over in a spectacular manner. I'm in my mid-forties, but, fortunately for me, still exceptionally ticklish.
Now to my problem/question: Does anyone know of a technique or a product that's readily available to aid in my laughter? It seems like an odd request and I don't recall reading much about this previously on the TMF.
You see, even though I'm so ticklish and she's doing a great job tickling the crap out of me, my responses tend to be grunts, thrashing, some coughing, pulling violently, gasping for air, begging & pleading for her to stop with just a little laughter thrown in. Even the bursts of laughter I do have sound (at least to me) forced and a bit fake. She knows from my reaction "below the belt" that I'm enjoying it in some way, but has to be puzzled as to why. She hasn't complained about it yet, but I think my reacting with more laughter would make it appear more fun and less bothersome for her. Most would agree that hysterical laughter is a lot more fun, light-hearted & infectious and preferrable by almost everyone (except you hard core sadists out there!)
I'm not overthinking it or stressing out about it, but with her background I'd like it to be as comfortable and as fun as possible for her (knowing full well she'll never be as "into" it as I am/we are.)
Wheeling in a tank of nitrous oxide may get me to laugh like crazy, but I have no idea where to get one and am afraid it would be a bit over the top! Any thoughts, suggestions or commentary would be much appreciated Thanks!