Need advice on meeting someone for 1st time tickling

[looking4tickle]

OK guys, so I have been into tickling for as long as I can remember but have never gotten the chance to act on it....until now (possibly). So a little back story: I came across a TMF member's profile/pics on here and decided to send her a private message just saying hi and to hit me back up if she wanted to chat. About 2 weeks later I get a response from her saying hi along with her cell number telling me to text her. I figured ok, this almost seems too easy. Anyway, we've been texting each other back and forth but haven't actually spoken on the phone yet. I've tried to get her to have a conversation with me instead of just texting but she would make excuses as to why she couldn't talk. Ok so long story short, we have finally made plans to meet and have tickle date. Here's the thing tho, I asked her about meeting somewhere public first etc to get to know each other (I'm trying to make her and myself comfortable) but she's like no, you seem normal enough, just come over my house and tickle me. Does this seem too good to be true? Am I walking into a ambush and I'm about to get chopped up lol? Or am I crazy and should just be happy this is happening? Any and all advice is appreciated. Oh and I did tell her we have to talk at least once on the phone before I meet her. I want to at least make sure she is a girl. Thanks in advance guys for any advice.

Brian

 

[Wolf]

Scam. Someone wants to see if they can make a person show up at a stranger's door, hoping to tickle them. Better hope the person who really lives there isn't armed.

 

[Desparting297]

It seems a bit risky to me because no one in their right mind would invite a total stranger they only met online to their home without getting to know them first, including meeting for a coffee/drink first at least. You don't even know whether or not you'll feel comfortable with this person yourself and it sounds like you're already hesitant about the whole thing. What you should do is arrange to meet before hand so you know where you both stand and only then will you know that you will be able to go through with things 100%. Dont do anything to put yourself in any danger.

 

[EmbraceSerenity]

If she is genuine, she'd be up for meeting in public first, or at least talking on the phone/video chat. She's definitely hiding something.

 

[tickletherapist]

She is probably an evil witch who's gonna catch you and tickle you to death
If that's what you want go for it! 🙂

 

[chicago]

Personally, I'd have stopped talking when she declined a phone conversation. Without video chatting or phone chatting plus real physical proof, you're wasting your time on wishful thinking.

 

[marcusb]

Danger Will Robinson, Danger.

 

[Darkknight]

Red flag, BIG time. If it's too good to be true, that's because it is.

 

[stockytickler]

I'm with everyone else here -- this person is way too squirrely to waste time on. Tell "her" that you are not leaving your home to meet someone who won't speak on the phone, let alone coming to "her" house. Red flags a-plenty.

 

[Myriads]

Red flags ahoy.

You are going to meet with a person whom you have never had a voice conversation with.

You are going to meet at a private place with a person you have never spoken to.

Does any of this track when you think with your head and not your fetish desires? No it does not.

Interactions formed thru the web are built incrementally through slowly increasing the forms of contact from tight, to rich. Text, to voice, to video, to in person. When people skip steps there are reasons that are usually not in one sides best interest.

Tell them you want to Skype before you commit to travel. When they refuse that, for yuks and giggles say you want to talk on the phone. It can't be them worried about you being a stalker as they were going to be giving you their home address right?

This stinks.

And as Admin I'd ask you to drop me a PM with this persons forum name in it. I'd like to take a hard look at it. I'd appreciate it.

Myriads

 

[Nate6]

I guess it could be a red flag... But then again I met someone on here doing pretty much the same thing and it went just fine. We talked for months though, so you should take your time and not rush because it could be exactly what the others are saying. At the very least she sounds like she doesn't care about her own safety from what you've said.

 

[dskodj]

Drop and run.....plain and simple. Anyone who won't speak, speaks for itself. Never even consider meeting anyone if you've never even spoke with them before.

It's for sure a guy (most likely some 18 - 21 year old) messing with you and will probably end up ambushing you with a pack of their friends...or worse. Break all contact NOW! That's my common sense advice.