Need quick advice: Some girl offers me to tickle her, but for money

[ichbins]

Soo I know this girl from a dating platform, and I just straight out asked to tickle her and to my surprise, she agreed but for financial compensation.

I don't really have money problems, it's not a lot a lot, but it's a sum, let's put it this way. But I won't feel it.

But do you think it's a good idea? Should I go forward with it? I didn't have many (tickle) partners since a while, so my crave is quite strong, as you can imagine.

What do you think?

 

[hammertyme]

Personally for me, I would never pay someone unless I knew they were 100% ticklish. They can say whatever they want for the money, but in the end you may be disappointed.

 

[ChicagoDavid]

It depends on the reason for your hesitation. If the only concern is value for the money, pay a small dollar amount for a few minutes. It's worth gambling, for example, $20 for a modest time period to find out if it will work great. But if the reason is, "I'm really looking for someone who wants to do this, not someone who wants to be paid," then the amount will not matter.

 

[hoseman2248]

Probably going to upset all the "morality police" on here but if you're not going to at least get a handjob out of it, or she is willing to let you finish yourself off on her feet, then don't waste your money.

 

[FFT32]

I can only comment on my own experience, I have paid to tickle many times with not one instance of regret.

 

[3xPIN]

If it’s okay with the 2 of you, it’s not really anyone else’s business. If she offered, then it isn’t like you asked. So it’s on her terms. If you agree, give it a try. But don’t get your hopes up. She might not be into it. Or she might not even be ticklish. It’s your money though. I personally would never pay to be tickled or tickle someone as I well it’s not truly consensual. But that’s my viewpoint.

 

[Libertine]

Being cruel to be kind, ichbins, you're too young to buy it.

With the exception of a married or partnered man who needs a no-strings safety valve to keep the peace, spoken or unspoken in an otherwise perfect or at very least bearable relationship, apart from those genuinely too old to be attractive (late 60s onward... 😉) commercial transactions are the lazy or incompetent man's way out.

And if that's wordy I'm simply trying to cover all the bases.

If they genuinely like you and you're a half-decent human being, the overwhelming majority of women will try quite a variety of sexual variations out of generosity or simple curiosity. But be a decent human being. Converse. Negotiate. Be pleasant. And be patient.

Don't present her with a laundry list of must-try perversions and don't be ridiculous and overemotionally tell her tickling's the most important thing on earth. (Actually, breathing is.)

Step back, take a deep breath, and calm down. Although a phony, politically inspired virus (not great but far from horrendous) is slowing things down, this is still a good time of year for socialising because even though people are wearing entirely too many clothes and the weather's not the greatest these days, there's plenty of leisure time, a drink or two is certainly in season, the gift-giving spirit is rife, and the zeitgeist is 'Peace on Earth, goodwill to men'.

Better yet, there's mistletoe as an excuse for kisses.

Have fun, Frohe Weihnachten, and best of luck.