Agreed, but I didnt even come close to thinking it was a "tickle orgy". Its just as in any social aspect/situation, you have to wonder how much appearance ( Looks, etiquette,etc) plays a role! Like Many ppl here on TMF I have actually had about 5 or 6 paid sessions before. And the reason Im looking for a gathering like NEST was for it to be more of a social interaction leading to play time with people who share my strong interest rather than it being a paid transaction.
The only thing that is kind of holding me back is how to act as a first timer, im very socially active so thats not the problem, its just the first time I would be attending such a gathering. Most of what i read on the site is how to act within limits and respecting other attendees, which was never something I was worried about because thats a given on my part. Its more of how to interact, how open should you be, how friendly are people. I doubt someone who is a first timer can just go and be himself and be comfortable from the beg!!