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no tickling for me *cries*

Footnote: I didn't even go on my first date until after HS graduation (for reasons stated above and lack of funding...😉 ).
 
ya but today this girl who said she liked me ended up not liking me , idk what my problem is , alot of girls think im ugly which i dont think is true but im starting to think so that i am ugly
 
Mm. looks like someone needs a pep talk...May Day called it sweetie. I've been fat, skinny, had no chest, had a huge chest, braces as a kid, hideous coke bottle glasses. You know what? The men were EVERYWHERE! No one is "ugly," everyone has something beautiful in them. Sounds cheesy but I beleive it. Ya know what your Mama used to say, "Beauty is skin deep but ugly is to the bone..." You HAVE to change the way you see yourself and others will do the same!

Prom story~Senior year I was on the prom committee and my first love (who died three years later when I was 19) was stationed overseas in Germany. He said, "You have to go to senior prom!" My neighbor had just broken up w/his girlfriend, they were voted "cutest couple" 3 years in a row and we were good pals. He asked, I said what the hell, we shared a limo with 2 other couples and had a ball~there was no pressure to get physical, nothing, just a clean fun time. I'm sure there are girls you have as friends you could ask???

XOXO
 
you would think i got girls that are friends but nope i dont , idk what to do anymore im starting to get really REALLY upset
 
Whoa there, little homey. Slow down. Relax. Perhaps no one will talk to you because you're coming off....there's no nice way of saying this.....desperate. Right now my mental image of you is a compulsivly sweating, nervous wreck with blue balls the size of cantalopes.

Women like confidence. Why do you think they date self absorbed ass holes? (sorry ladies but it's true) You really need to chill to re-evaluate how you're approaching this.
 
I don't date a self-absorbed asshole. I date a psychopath. His name is Chris, and, if you look at me the wrong way, he'd burn your house down. Isn't that sweet!?! 🙂
 
no mayday what i think girls *where i live im not sayin this for girls all over just for where i live* are superficial ignorant shallow fools who only want a pretty face to kiss and it dont matter if the guy is an asshole to them

and i am not desperate if i was desperate i would have had a gf already cause i would have taken what i could have gotten , but i havent im not gonna degrade my self like that
 
The answer is simple, little homey. If you don't like the dating scene in your town, then move.

And you do sound desperate. Not in the way you described. It's more of a "Oh God! If I don't find somebody to screw soon I'm gonna pop! AUUUGGHH!!!!!" kind of thing. That's why you need to reeeelaaaaaxxx.

Use punctuation. Your posts are hard to read.
 
well first off mayday , do you like the band Bad Religion , cause you have How Could Hell Be Any Worse? in your response and that was the title of there first album

but its really more upsetting because im like a third wheel, when ever i go out with my friends im always left out cause they all go with there girlfriends, and they just sorta ...push me aside
 
You guessed it! I actually took that line from their song "Los Angeles is Burning". I'm using it in reference to another thread going on right now. Guess which one!

I can only say this so many times, little homey. If your current situation is jacked, then you gotta change your current situation. It may be difficult, but it's necessary.
 
no mayday what i think girls *where i live im not sayin this for girls all over just for where i live* are superficial ignorant shallow fools who only want a pretty face to kiss and it dont matter if the guy is an asshole to them

Then why the rush to get a date with one of them?
It's just a prom, dude, don't sweat it so much. I didn't go to a prom and somehow I survived.
 
i guess

but it still sucks when i have to be the third wheel

and may day , Los Angeles Is Burning is a very good song , do you have any albums by them i got all of them except for Tested
 
When the hills of Los Angeles are burning
Palm trees are candles in the murder wind
So many lives on the breeze
Even the stars are ill at ease
And Los Angeles is burning
 
Powerhousegym04 said:
When the hills of Los Angeles are burning
Palm trees are candles in the murder wind
So many lives on the breeze
Even the stars are ill at ease
And Los Angeles is burning

I think I still have a few. Some of my CD's got swiped a few years back and a few Bad Religion records were among the victoms. I got the second Rock Against Bush cd and dvd and this video was on there. I really like the song but the video is great! Very well done.
 
ya bad religion has been around 25 years and show no signs of slowin down , lol Greg and Brett are amazing song writers
 
Well, I'm in no better of a position than you are. Almost 20 myself and never had a date or a girlfriend... yet somehow I'm subject to an interesting dichotomy in which online girls seem to adore me and real life girls think I'm invisible. Frustrating, yes, I can understand. I'm currently being counseled for depression for this (and other) reasons. So, I wish I could offer helpful advice, but the truth of the matter is that I have none. 🙁
 
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My advice would be to get yourself some female friends out of school, cos', you see, they will then introduce you to their friends, and they will introduce you to their friends etc. so it will be a lot easier to meet 'the special one'. Believe me, my friends at school offer me to introduce me to some girl at least twice a week because I have a lot of friends and they will always know some girl who just got out of a relationship and needs comfort... or just another guy. Sometimes, being free isn't that easy.
And for the training, keep it up. It isn't a bad thing to be in shape. Me, I excersise for at least 3 hours each day, and it makes me feel good 😀
 
haah idk its not working to well with the ladies , it makes me upset how i just get sold short .......i wish girls didnt sell me short
 
You ain't alone in this world, man. I, too, have never had a girlfriend. But these three things worked for me to get girls interested in me. They worked for me and they could work for you.

1) Have a sense of humor, poke fun at a few things, say some jokes. Everytime you make a girl laugh, she'll appreciate it.

2) Have interesting things to say. Don't run out of conversation after five minutes.

3) Don't show nervousness in front of them. I have stuttered (I never do) in front of a girl who I thought was good-looking then lost interest in me. Some girls don't like people who are nervous when they are around you.

Try these out, man, and let me know if they work.
 
I think for some people (in my case anyway) a lack of self-confidence is truly devastating when it comes to pursuing girls. I haven't got any way to build up my self-confidence, so I'm truly out of luck. -_-
Besides which, I almost never hold a real conversation with any girl. Although, that's more my fault than theirs.
 
well personally i think girls think im u gly and they dont wanna give me a fair chance *even tho i aint bad looking* they only want a pretty face to kiss no matter what if the guys an asshole as long as its a pretty face its fine , but no there are guys like me who bust there ass and for what........to get rejected , to be ignored by girls who dont even know him , they dont give me a chance cause they think im ugly . the masses of girls are superfical
 
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