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TklshRbn

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My goodness, the things I find while stumbling around the 'net!

I stumbled into this forum the other day and was completely dumbfounded. I never knew it existed. At the same time, it was like a door opening into understanding something that happened long ago

When I was a child back in the '50s, one of the radio programs we used to listen to was Art Linkletter's "People Are Funny." One program had a hypnotist who gave post-hypnotic suggestions to several people from the audience, and then the people were awakened and the suggestions were triggered. One woman was told that at the speaking of a certain word she would begin laughing uncontrollable.

Well, that's just what she did--she started laughing and couldn't stop. And I found myself becoming incredibly aroused (and this was before I was old enough to know what arousal was). She wasn't being tickled, but she was being made to laugh in a way that she couldn't control. And that was sooo cool.

My father tickled my brother and me, but not to excess, just normal father-son tickling. I used to tickle my younger brother, and then my own two sons while they were little. Again, just usual father-son rough-housing. Now my grand-daughter enjoys being tickled, but she's soon approaching the age where it will be inappropriate for an adult male relative to tickle her.

My wife, on the other hand, has always thought that tickling is completely anti-erotic, and I have acceded to her tastes on the matter. (Actually, these days she finds everything completely anti-erotic, but that's a subject for another forum.)

For me, tickling would be part of foreplay in straight m/f, in which the female partner would be tickled, aroused, and then brought to satisfaction, after which the male partner could take his release. If my wife suddenly found she liked something like that, I would think I had died and gone to heaven.

Oh, and here's an interesting coincidence. There was a word I used to make my brother say in order for me to stop tickling him. That word, as far as I knew at the time, was the name of a southwestern Native American tribe. that word was Yaqi.

TR
 
Welcome! I'd bet most of us, if we know what triggered the idea in our minds, would point to childhood exploits or entertainment like your radio show.

It is tough to bring tickling into a relationship, especially since the majority of us don't look for mates on their tolerance of tickling alone. I've always been able to slowly introduce it into foreplay, but then that may be because my girlfriends and I were (are) young.

Quite the coincedence there, too!
 
welcome! loved your post. especially the way you have managed to keep from sacrificing the fun for the erotic or the erotic for the fun. it’s really each of those, and both of those, at the same time, don’t you think?

I think that lots of us can relate to that “oh my God… so many things make sense now” feeling… but wow… that yaqi thing must seem kind of surreal, huh?

glad you’re here 🙂
 
That's kind of weird that the work your brother use to say to make you stop tickling him was yaqi. Seeming as how he is probably the most famous member in the tickling community.
 
Hello TklshRbn,

Welcome to the TMF. I hope that the forum continues to amuse, and thank you for joining!

Myriads
 
Yes...welcome aboard. Hope you enjoy this little slice of the world. It can be very fun and exciting.

peace out,
daddy
 
Welcome!

Your post sounds very familiar to my own!

You will enjoy it here!
 
A big hello and welcome. There is a lot of great people here to chat with and share thoughts and ideas. It will not take long for you to feel comfortable with this group!
 
Welcome to the TMF, TklshRbn, and congratulations on your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

It's a shame that your wife finds tickling to be anti-erotic for her. Here you will find people who share you own view on that subject.
 
Welcome to the TMF , TklshRbn. If uncontrollable laughter is your thing then you've defininitely come to the right place. Maybe you can show this site to your wife & it will be the catalyst to helping her understand the eroticism of tickling. The TMF ... the ANTI-anti-erotic , if you will. Good luck & good to have ya here!
 


Welcome aboard, TR! It's SUCH a relief when you find the TMF and the tickling community online for the first time, and are hit with the realization you're not alone in your desires and there are so many people on the same wave length as you. So sorry to hear of your wifes less than enthusiastic views of our little sport. I hope you can find at least a minor outlet for your interests here with us.

Mimi 😉
 
Welcome from me too! That WAS a good first post. I think you'll find you have a lot in common with many of us here.

Oh- and the Yaqi thing? Made my mouth drop open!

Have fun.
 
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Welcome...

...my friend to the show that never ends. We're so glad you could attend. Come inside, come inside...eh, you know the rest. Anyway, good to have you on board. The more the merrier, as it were. I've always wondered myself what it is about seeing women suffer through uncontrollable laughter that's so arousing. I guess I might do some research on that topic. Might there be any charitable females in here who would like to commit themselves to the greater good of science? Hmmm?
 
Welcome, brother! Welcome back to the fold!

CAN I GET A WITNESS?!?!?

Now, let me hear ya say "yeah!"


(Where IS that nurse with my medication?)
 
I'd like to thank everyone for your words of welcome. It just feels a little odd to be in a place where I can talk about things like this and not be judged.

TKLMAN, if I showed my wife this forum she'd freak out. She's so not into kinkiness of any kind. Oddly enough, she used to like a soft form of bondage--being tied spread-eagle on the bed, lightly touched, kissed, and licked all over, culminating in direct stimulation until she couldn't take any more. Now she refuses all direct sexual stimulation whatsoever. However, she still does like her feet and legs massaged and lightly stroked. She has some pretty good reactions when I separate her toes and individually scratch each one. That's almost tickling, isn't it?

I've also been intrigued by the posts on women being tickled until they wet themselves. My wife had a weak bladder for years (oxybutinin fixed that), but it was an embarrassment for her, and I have never done anything to her (or any other female) to cause involuntary urination. Having said that, I remember when I was in the military, and was driving my wife and her girlfriend through town onto the base in northern Japan. Suddenly my wife's girlfriend said that she had just seen a Japanese girl standing at the side of the street, clutching her crotch, screaming "No, no, no" in Japanese, with pee running down her leg. I know it had to be horribly embarrassing for the girl, but the more I thought about it, the more aroused I got.

Just another light turned on in the dark rooms of my psyche.

TR
 
Just my POV, Rbn.

Your wife seems to be afraid to explore the darker side of her sexuality, assuming that a darker side exists. Have the two of you ever had a one-on-one talk about this problem? I don't mean to impose on your relationship by any means, it just seems that you and your wife aren't in complete sexual agreement about what is right and what is wrong in the bedroom, which in the long run can have devastating consequences.
 
kirasao said:
Your wife seems to be afraid to explore the darker side of her sexuality, assuming that a darker side exists. Have the two of you ever had a one-on-one talk about this problem? I don't mean to impose on your relationship by any means, it just seems that you and your wife aren't in complete sexual agreement about what is right and what is wrong in the bedroom, which in the long run can have devastating consequences.

Yes, we have discussed it. She claims she doesn't want sexual stimulation because it hurts, which doesn't make any sense, because when there's pain, it's usually the intercourse that's painfun, not the foreplay. I think there are some psychological things going on here, of which she has a few.

Note that she's not denying me intercourse; she's denying me the pleasure of seeing her orgasm. And female arousal and orgasm is the biggest thing that turns me on.

TR
 
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