ONLY one or the other?

[siamese dream]

One thing I don't understand, are those who claim to be only a tickler or only a ticklee. I think this group is mainly composed of male ticklers. I love both, pretty much equally. I couldn't imagine a relationship where I was ALWAYS the submissive and he was ALWAYS the dominant. How totally boring! After a few dozen times of being tied up, I don't know about you other ladies, but I'd be dying for some vengeance!

Come on you male ticklers, you all know you're dying to be tied up and begging at the mercy of some little woman with quick hands. Admit it! 😉 You would all love it. Your only excuse would be if you aren't ticklish at all... even then, you're probably just lying so no one will discover your dark secrets...ha.

 

[Krokus]

Hmm..

I do not like the feeling that you get knowing that you have no control.....but hell, if she REALLY wanted to do it to me.....I might make an exception....😎

 

[tcrewme]

For a long time I thought I wasn't ticklish!!!

I was a male tickler mostly because I wasn't ticklish, or not enough to be any fun...
Then I met a lady that used her fingerNAILS!!!😱 😱
Umm...I am ticklish😱
And hey I have no problem switching, tickling is fun giving and recieving!

 

[tklr5150]

I would love being on both ends of it. Whether playful or serious, tickling is much more fun as a two way street 😉

And I'm extremely ticklish

 

[Double T]

Admit it? I've been preaching it! Why do you think i'm so anagonistic to the ladies (S.A.M.)? So they will want to get me....GOOD! Yes, I'm a tickler, and a relationnship where I'm always the dominant one would be just as boring! I LOVE to laugh, and have no problem letting someone else take charge! So c'mon girls, if you dare and BRING IT ON!!!!!

 

[BigJim]

Interesting subject............

MY orientation is totally ler/dom but I do make exceptions. As a lot of you know I challenged the cream of the TMF fem lers to try to break me at GLAT in September. I did this out of a mixture of it being the best way I could think of of being a dom, (nothing is more frustrating for a ler than the lee goading them on and refusing to break) and a sense of "if you wanna dish it out, you've gotta be willing to take it." (British sense of fair play and all that😀 )

Also if I was in a relationship with a fellow ticklephile who wanted to switch occasionally I'd happily indulge her because I believe in give and take in a relationship.

I am VERY ticklish myself and although being the lee doesn't figure in my fantasies, it would be an interesting thing to do once in a while. ( A VERY LONG while! )

 

[Wolf]

Things can change.....

Hey, I was strictly a tickler, myself, until I got married. I'm still the one wielding the feather about 80% of the time, but let me tell you; when you're bound to a bed, straddled by a gorgeous woman, who twirls a long pheasant feather bewteen her fingers as she grins evilly and says, "You're not *ticklish*, are you?", you can begin to see the attraction. And, if you're lucky enough to have a willing, ticklish partner, sometimes it's only fair to let them feel the rush that you feel, making someone laugh.







Wolf

That's just my opinion; I could be stupid.

 

[BigJim]

Re: Things can change.....

Hey, I was strictly a tickler, myself, until I got married. I'm still the one wielding the feather about 80% of the time, but let me tell you; when you're bound to a bed, straddled by a gorgeous woman, who twirls a long pheasant feather bewteen her fingers as she grins evilly and says, "You're not *ticklish*, are you?", you can begin to see the attraction. And, if you're lucky enough to have a willing, ticklish partner, sometimes it's only fair to let them feel the rush that you feel, making someone laugh.

Amen my friend! 😀

 

[Tickling Motty]

Being as i have no experience in either a lee or ler, i cant really answer if i am just a lee or ler, but i would happily do both. Ive always wanted to be tied up by a girl who is about to get her revenge on me, i must be very mad !!

Andy

 

[Phineas]

Come on you male ticklers, you all know you're dying to be tied up and begging at the mercy of some little woman with quick hands. Admit it! You would all love it.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but no, I would not love it. I'm not particularly ticklish, and the attraction to tickling for me is the visual splendor of seeing a woman in that position, not experiencing it myself.

so if you want to think I'm secretly lying, go right ahead...

 

[HeBeGeeBee]

As a lot of you know I challenged the cream of the TMF fem lers to try to break me at GLAT in September.

What BigJim neglected to include in this post is the fact that he and I have a friendly wager over who can last the longest under the onslaught of the ladies of GLAT. Since I have already spent the $20 he will give me as a result of my outlasting him, that gives you some idea of my level of confidence.
As for the topic of this thread, I am approximately 97.35% 'lee...but that doesn't stop the other 2.65% of me getting in a few "ler shots on my lovely wife. Unfortunately, she is not the 'lee that I am. But lucky for me, she is 99.9% 'ler... 😉

 

[kwildoctr]

As for me, hey, I'm about 98% -ler, & it's not because I'm not ticklish or too wimpy to admit that I am. For me, -leeing is a very personal, very intimate experience that I only care to share with my significant other (who, as most of you know, is my beloved lite). Besides, I'm not exactly adverse to reveling in the beauty of watching a woman squeal, beg, wimper....buck, twist, bounce.....well, you get the idea..... 😀

R

 

[daddy]

I just love your posts Siamese...they are so, so, hmmmm....instigating!!! LOL j/k I really do like the way you think.

daddy

 

[kurchatovium]

I would actually love a relationship with a woman where she could alternate as both a tickler and ticklee. For me I could get turned on by either doing the tickling or being tickled. I really don't consider myself to be dominate or submissive. I think I'm just kinky. I would love to act out tons of different scenarios from being tickled by an amazon jungle queen to being kidnapped and tickled by a sorority girl and then a ton of scenarios with me being the tickler. I would agree with you siamese dream I think if you alternate as tickler and ticklee you open up a world of delicious possibilities in the relationship and it would keep it from ever getting boring.

 

[smiley_orchid]

variety is the spice of life, baby!

 

[maverick83]

Personally, I'm about 50/50, a little bit more on the 'lee side, but I would never assume that everyone would like being on both ends. I certainly understand that there are those who only like one side of it. All factors that may contibute to the fetish need to be considered, and if someone is only interested in some of those factors, it makes sense that they would prefer one role or the other. If anyone has difficulty understanding this, I believe it is because they have not been able to, in essence, silence their own bias, perhaps the most important part of empathy.

 

[BigJim]

What BigJim neglected to include in this post is the fact that he and I have a friendly wager over who can last the longest under the onslaught of the ladies of GLAT. Since I have already spent the $20 he will give me as a result of my outlasting him, that gives you some idea of my level of confidence.
As for the topic of this thread, I am approximately 97.35% 'lee...but that doesn't stop the other 2.65% of me getting in a few "ler shots on my lovely wife. Unfortunately, she is not the 'lee that I am. But lucky for me, she is 99.9% 'ler... 😉

You're lucky mate, at least YOU will enjoy the experience. But I come to a quick question. As you might know, I have a side forfeit-bet with the lovely ladies that I will jump naked into the ice-covered Lake Delton, if I fail to last to a time limit of two hours. (Which gives you some idea of MY level of confidence! 😀 )At what point do we call it quits, given that you and I might very well end up being strapped down for the best part of a week through refusing to submit?

 

[Cyrano]

I never really plan these things out, so it usually never matters of my preference. For the most part, if a girl tickles me, I give her a little while before I tickle back. I've yet to find a girl who could best me in a tickle fight.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

As for me, hey, I'm about 98% -ler, & it's not because I'm not ticklish or too wimpy to admit that I am. For me, -leeing is a very personal, very intimate experience that I only care to share with my significant other (who, as most of you know, is my beloved lite). Besides, I'm not exactly adverse to reveling in the beauty of watching a woman squeal, beg, wimper....buck, twist, bounce.....well, you get the idea..... 😀

R

Hey Kwil....
You forgot to add in her occasional, intimate term of endearment.... f*** YOU! HeeHee 😀 (love ya both!)

Do I have your permission to use that term toward the students I particularly LOVE... but who are getting on my last and only UNTICKLISH nerve?

Please say yes? ANYONE? Aw Man! 🙁

OH well! Live, Laugh and TICKLE anyway!
Sunriseticklee.... who is at the moment 60% Ler.... 40% Lee... Should I change my name? Nah!