personals

[duderino84]

I'm starting to think the whole online dating thing is a waste of time. Even more so with personals. You just can't get someone to compromise because people have it set in their mind that if they're meeting somebody over the wire, they're meeting their idea of "the best", and everyone expects that a guy seeking someone is just thirsty and looking to get his dick wet or worse, a stalker. I think the way to get furthest with this fetish is forget about it until you're in the position to tickle. Otherwise, chock full of bullshit.

 

[Rectangle]

Man, really, you're best bet is to forget the fetish right off the bat, and just meet someone.
Go on dates. Tell jokes, Be fun.
Find a connection.
Then, a few dates in, when you're sitting around high on "new crush" dopamine and staring into each other's eyes, talking until 3am, you broach the subject of fetishes.
They ask.
You blush.
They say "No really, tell me!"
You blurt it out.

At this point, most of the time, and far more often than people around here seem to give credit, they'll be like "That's it? That's not weird at all!".
Sometimes it's followed by a "Well, I'll try it if we start slow" or "Let's work into it, I'm not used to it."
And then again, sometimes it's followed by a "I'll tickle you but I can't stand to be tickled, ever."
And every so often it's followed by a "Hell yeah! That sounds awesome/cute/fun!"


You gauge the reaction.
You act accordingly.

If you're not compatible, then you're not compatible.


I've had all of those reactions in my dating life before I got married.
I found girls who wouldn't even entertain the idea, albeit those were very rare.
Most of the time it was "That's the most adorable kink I've ever heard of!" and they were more than happy to tickle me, and occasionally let me tickle them.
And a few times, also very rare, it was "That sounds hot".


That's it. It's that easy.

What doesn't seem easy is wasting away dropping messages to everyone you know that's the opposite sex who has the fetish practically begging for a session.
I've seen so much dissatisfaction on here over the years from people who can't find a tickle date.

You guys gotta relax.
We're a bunch of people that like to make people laugh, and have people make us laugh.
That's it.

Go out there, fall in love, have someone fall in love with you, and tell that person that loves you what makes you happy, and hedge your bets.
Don't sit around here hoping that one of the four or five women that haven't been chased off of the TMF by creepers might choose you.

It ain't easy, but damn, it ain't that hard.


Also, sort of a sidenote, and I don't have any proof to back this up, but I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of women with this kink aren't on the TMF.
They might lurk once or twice in their teenage years, yeah..but I get a feeling most don't want to be part of a "scene" or set up a Fetlife or whatever because of how "dark" and "kinky" it feels..
..when at the end of the day all they want to do is have someone wiggle their fingers over their bodies for a little bit while they laugh.
Most girls could have any guy they date do that within the bounds of their relationship and not have to deal with the baggage of being part of a "community".

 

[Wolf]

Man, really, you're best bet is to forget the fetish right off the bat, and just meet someone.
Go on dates. Tell jokes, Be fun.
Find a connection.
Then, a few dates in, when you're sitting around high on "new crush" dopamine and staring into each other's eyes, talking until 3am, you broach the subject of fetishes.
They ask.
You blush.
They say "No really, tell me!"
You blurt it out.

At this point, most of the time, and far more often than people around here seem to give credit, they'll be like "That's it? That's not weird at all!".
Sometimes it's followed by a "Well, I'll try it if we start slow" or "Let's work into it, I'm not used to it."
And then again, sometimes it's followed by a "I'll tickle you but I can't stand to be tickled, ever."
And every so often it's followed by a "Hell yeah! That sounds awesome/cute/fun!"


You gauge the reaction.
You act accordingly.

If you're not compatible, then you're not compatible.


I've had all of those reactions in my dating life before I got married.
I found girls who wouldn't even entertain the idea, albeit those were very rare.
Most of the time it was "That's the most adorable kink I've ever heard of!" and they were more than happy to tickle me, and occasionally let me tickle them.
And a few times, also very rare, it was "That sounds hot".


That's it. It's that easy.

What doesn't seem easy is wasting away dropping messages to everyone you know that's the opposite sex who has the fetish practically begging for a session.
I've seen so much dissatisfaction on here over the years from people who can't find a tickle date.

You guys gotta relax.
We're a bunch of people that like to make people laugh, and have people make us laugh.
That's it.

Go out there, fall in love, have someone fall in love with you, and tell that person that loves you what makes you happy, and hedge your bets.
Don't sit around here hoping that one of the four or five women that haven't been chased off of the TMF by creepers might choose you.

It ain't easy, but damn, it ain't that hard.


Also, sort of a sidenote, and I don't have any proof to back this up, but I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of women with this kink aren't on the TMF.
They might lurk once or twice in their teenage years, yeah..but I get a feeling most don't want to be part of a "scene" or set up a Fetlife or whatever because of how "dark" and "kinky" it feels..
..when at the end of the day all they want to do is have someone wiggle their fingers over their bodies for a little bit while they laugh.
Most girls could have any guy they date do that within the bounds of their relationship and not have to deal with the baggage of being part of a "community".

I've tried this line of argument before, and gotten nowhere; but after a while, I realized there's a logical reason for it.
A very large portion of guys who are looking for a partner on the TMF, FetLife, or whatever, are not interested in sex;
just tickling and then jacking off (maybe using a Hitachi or something on the girl if they're feeling generous).
This isn't exactly a recipe for success in dating. Despite what people might have heard, women like sex, too, you know?
And it doesn't help that years of videos and RP chats have them convinced of what a really ticklish woman acts like, and anything that doesn't meet that standard is lacking.

 

[CapturedDoll]

I've tried this line of argument before, and gotten nowhere; but after a while, I realized there's a logical reason for it.
A very large portion of guys who are looking for a partner on the TMF, FetLife, or whatever, are not interested in sex;
just tickling and then jacking off (maybe using a Hitachi or something on the girl if they're feeling generous).
This isn't exactly a recipe for success in dating. Despite what people might have heard, women like sex, too, you know?
And it doesn't help that years of videos and RP chats have them convinced of what a really ticklish woman acts like, and anything that doesn't meet that standard is lacking.

This.

I also can't help but think that people aren't use to verbal communication anymore. I mean for me I had social anxiety for YEARS. I have finally gotten past it. I still get a little nervous before I go out. And large crowds can be harder for me still... but I finally got past most of it. As a Ticklephile who in the past wouldn't say a WORD during tickling...am now working on my tickle talk skills. I can sit here and rp..or write stories...but for me half of the experience lies in my mind already... so I need to bring it out of my mouth if I want future sessions to be good. No one's honing their tickling skills. You can't be afraid of your voice... you can't be afraid to practice your Ler or lee presence at home. You can imagine it all day long... but what comes out of ones mouth if far different. And for most people it goes beyond "tickle tickle".

And you are absolutely correct. If someone were to base a first tickling session with me as me in lee mode..... they might be disappointed. They are a stranger to me. Friendship, sex, tickling takes time to build up successfully. And... What if I had a bad day... sometimes my moods affect my ticklishness. But if someone knew how to cheer me up.. or... seduce me with their tickle talk foreplay... they could change the experience to something awesome. MAYBE. I an not a Doll as my nickname would suggest. I am a complete person.

But for all the advice I try and give here... my own Bf thinks I live in "fantasy land". And that no matter what he does it will never live up to my fantasies. I am such a tickle geek...that he feels he will never live up to my expectations. So... I am trying to figure out what it is I truly want and need within tickling fantasies. But even I myself am overwhelmed sometimes in trying to figure it all out. What goes on in my head would exhaust most "normal", vanilla people. And quite frankly burn out on me. It's no joke when I say I could tickle someone or be tickled by someone.... or talk tickling aka write, rp, tickling porn.. for around 3-6+ hours a day. This is why my RP and home tickles TPE weekend went on for 5 days straight. My BF thought I needed an overdose. And I did... but did it help relax the cravings? Nope. At least I think that. He may more so thought I really needed that much. So... I'm trying to figure out what is possible in reality vs what is possible in fantasy. What are the combos plates? Now I feel like I have done this already to an extent...kinda... but to make my Bf not feel so overwhelmed is also part of the journey.

So... if anyone has something to take from my post... think "combo plate". With a side dish of patience and continued learning of your future dates and yourself.

 

[duderino84]

I've tried this line of argument before, and gotten nowhere; but after a while, I realized there's a logical reason for it.
A very large portion of guys who are looking for a partner on the TMF, FetLife, or whatever, are not interested in sex;
just tickling and then jacking off (maybe using a Hitachi or something on the girl if they're feeling generous).
This isn't exactly a recipe for success in dating. Despite what people might have heard, women like sex, too, you know?
And it doesn't help that years of videos and RP chats have them convinced of what a really ticklish woman acts like, and anything that doesn't meet that standard is lacking.

You're right, it's not the focus because we're generally looking to finally catch "the thrill" that we're all posting about. And I mean, it's dating, so what's really a matter with it? It's not like I rented some shack that looks like Jason Voorhees would jump through, tickled her feet and cummed in her face, and put on my pants and said "welp, see ya next week!"

If a girl wants to "have sex", I'm all for her "climbing on". But I just feel weird about that shit, mounting someone and just straight up "having sex". It's not something I'm normalized to. The frequent thing I'm finding with approach anxiety with people isn't that I'm afraid of people finding out that I like tickling...It's that my fetishes are what turn me on to women. Like when I check someone out I'm visualizing if they might fit in with what I like. Of course, then, I have to walk away because there's no way to explain the giant hardon that occurred when nothing actually happened and I wasn't thinking along the normal lines of dating/sex.

This.

I also can't help but think that people aren't use to verbal communication anymore. I mean for me I had social anxiety for YEARS. I have finally gotten past it. I still get a little nervous before I go out. And large crowds can be harder for me still... but I finally got past most of it. As a Ticklephile who in the past wouldn't say a WORD during tickling...am now working on my tickle talk skills. I can sit here and rp..or write stories...but for me half of the experience lies in my mind already... so I need to bring it out of my mouth if I want future sessions to be good. No one's honing their tickling skills. You can't be afraid of your voice... you can't be afraid to practice your Ler or lee presence at home. You can imagine it all day long... but what comes out of ones mouth if far different. And for most people it goes beyond "tickle tickle".

And you are absolutely correct. If someone were to base a first tickling session with me as me in lee mode..... they might be disappointed. They are a stranger to me. Friendship, sex, tickling takes time to build up successfully. And... What if I had a bad day... sometimes my moods affect my ticklishness. But if someone knew how to cheer me up.. or... seduce me with their tickle talk foreplay... they could change the experience to something awesome. MAYBE. I an not a Doll as my nickname would suggest. I am a complete person.

But for all the advice I try and give here... my own Bf thinks I live in "fantasy land". And that no matter what he does it will never live up to my fantasies. I am such a tickle geek...that he feels he will never live up to my expectations. So... I am trying to figure out what it is I truly want and need within tickling fantasies. But even I myself am overwhelmed sometimes in trying to figure it all out. What goes on in my head would exhaust most "normal", vanilla people. And quite frankly burn out on me. It's no joke when I say I could tickle someone or be tickled by someone.... or talk tickling aka write, rp, tickling porn.. for around 3-6+ hours a day. This is why my RP and home tickles TPE weekend went on for 5 days straight. My BF thought I needed an overdose. And I did... but did it help relax the cravings? Nope. At least I think that. He may more so thought I really needed that much. So... I'm trying to figure out what is possible in reality vs what is possible in fantasy. What are the combos plates? Now I feel like I have done this already to an extent...kinda... but to make my Bf not feel so overwhelmed is also part of the journey.

So... if anyone has something to take from my post... think "combo plate". With a side dish of patience and continued learning of your future dates and yourself.

Honestly, I'm not sure if we overwhelm people, or if people have a really low threshold for accepting that some people just aren't into "Fuck n' Run"; It gets really disappointing when people think you're a guy/girl so you're going to be into one thing.

 

[Rectangle]

I am a complete person.

I want this to pop up as a warning box every time someone goes to message someone else on here.
These are people out here, these usernames, with thoughts and feelings and fears, families that love them and an entire life that's not defined by the "T-Word".

I've seen TONS of interactions on here over the years that suggest to me that people forget that they're talking to a human being.
It's like they're talking to a tickle object to be obtained.

I read some of the messages my wife received over her shoulder when she was asking me "How should I respond to this?", it was insane.

"Hi. I'm Me. Do you like sports?"
"Hi! No, not really, never been interested."
"That's cool. So where do you want me to tickle you?"
"What the..?"


If you're really interested in talking to people or meeting people on here, you've got to come at them as a human being, looking to make a human connection.
Put "the kink" on the back burner and let them see you can hold an interest in them as a person for five minutes without talking about touching their bodies.


This is elementary stuff for the rest of the world, but it hasn't seemed to sink in around here.

Imagine someone on OKCupid messaging a girl like this.

"Hey. Do you watch TV?"
"Hiya! I do! I like Walking Dead actually!"
"Cool. So. Do you want the dick?"


That would be the absolute end of the conversation.


Treat people with respect, yo.

 

[Rectangle]

If a girl wants to "have sex", I'm all for her "climbing on". But I just feel weird about that shit, mounting someone and just straight up "having sex". It's not something I'm normalized to. The frequent thing I'm finding with approach anxiety with people isn't that I'm afraid of people finding out that I like tickling...It's that my fetishes are what turn me on to women. Like when I check someone out I'm visualizing if they might fit in with what I like. Of course, then, I have to walk away because there's no way to explain the giant hardon that occurred when nothing actually happened and I wasn't thinking along the normal lines of dating/sex.

I know it's harder for some folks than others because the fetish is a requirement for some to have any sort of intimacy, and I hurt for those people..
..but excepting that, I always viewed "kinks" in hook ups as sort of like "trading cards".

Most people these days have something they want to act out on in the bedroom.
Women's magazines are full of articles on how to "LET YOUR FREAK FLAG FLY!" and spice up sex lives.

So it often winds up coming down to a trading game.
"I see you like tickling. I like having my hair pulled. I'll trade you."

She tries what you like. You try what she likes.
You both win.

And I totally get checking out a girl in line with what she offers to your fetish.
I've told a girl after the "big reveal" that the thin strapped flip flops she had on were drawing my eyes our entire first meeting.
Her response?
"Oh my God! This is why girls get pedicures!"

 

[chicago]

Lol who brought this thread back from the dead

 

[duderino84]

I guess, man. I don't really message anyone here because this is kind of like the island, but there's just many times where I try to have actual conversations online with people and it either trails off or someone starts doing the same shit you're describing. I think the only real solution is go out and get em. Off the couch and out of the house. To the bar stool or supermarket.

 

[duderino84]

californiasun

Lol who brought this thread back from the dead

 

[CapturedDoll]

You're right, it's not the focus because we're generally looking to finally catch "the thrill" that we're all posting about. And I mean, it's dating, so what's really a matter with it? It's not like I rented some shack that looks like Jason Voorhees would jump through, tickled her feet and cummed in her face, and put on my pants and said "welp, see ya next week!"

If a girl wants to "have sex", I'm all for her "climbing on". But I just feel weird about that shit, mounting someone and just straight up "having sex". It's not something I'm normalized to. The frequent thing I'm finding with approach anxiety with people isn't that I'm afraid of people finding out that I like tickling...It's that my fetishes are what turn me on to women. Like when I check someone out I'm visualizing if they might fit in with what I like. Of course, then, I have to walk away because there's no way to explain the giant hardon that occurred when nothing actually happened and I wasn't thinking along the normal lines of dating/sex.



Honestly, I'm not sure if we overwhelm people, or if people have a really low threshold for accepting that some people just aren't into "Fuck n' Run"; It gets really disappointing when people think you're a guy/girl so you're going to be into one thing.

As I was thinking about your reply.. I came up with an analogy. For overwhelming/underwhelming. Thinking out what you want to say to someone when it counts "more"...

In one day... you are going to meet a Waitress/Server... and the President of the United States. (Or your countries leader.)

Here's an imaginary conversation with both people based on what I believe to be the difference in how people talk to each other.

To the Server: Ok... Hi... I want a cheeseburger... fries, coke, and can you hurry up the order I have somewhere to be.
Server: Oook... coming right up Sir.
Customer: (45 mins later... food eaten) It was alright. Don't work too hard. Thanks, bye.
Server: He was... kinda nice... Wow...my customer not only left a mess on the table... he didn't even leave me a tip. Wtf? =(

To the President (sans gender... just President. But I will use Mr. here as that's what we all are use to.)

Mr. President, I saw your speech yesterday... and I had to say what a wonderful job you are doing. I myself agree with a few of the policies you addressed. I would love to sit down and talk to you about them. Now, I am a man who works as a FireFighter... and I enjoy my job. I think you could relate. I heard you say once you yourself thought about doing my job. So... we should talk. I also know you really enjoy board games. I do too! Monopoly is my favorite! What's your's?

President: Well thank you very much I'm so happy you enjoyed my speech. Why yes I have always wanted to become Fire Fighter but not so much anymore. What is that like for you? Wait before you answer how funny that you love board games too! My favorite is Sorry! Hey let's keep talking over lunch I'll brb.

If you believe everyone isn't worth putting in the effort...or very little effort... you won't stumble across the person who is.

I am sure it is hard to convince people of your gender online when you have to remain private. But so many people don't post nor fill out their profile. If everyone did that... and it could be counted on that people would read them... this might not be as much of an issue. It takes repeated information over time to convince people you are who you say are. Posting. Or many emails. A year long survey in progress if u will. I have to think frauds aren't as common as we might believe. But I don't know. I do know I wouldn't let frauds keep me from making posts here and active participation. And I wouldn't continue to converse with people who couldn't wrap their head around that I am who I say I am. You don't believe me? Ok... can I show you my picture.. or would u like to meet up? No? No? Or... you STILL don't believe me? Ok cool! Next...

 

[duderino84]

I hear you, maybe I have to retune myself to be into meeting people more. I just can't stand the false starts where it seems like you're getting along and you mention "so, did you see I like tickling?"
"wait, you mean actual tickling?"
"yea, what did you think I meant?"
"I thought by tickling you meant that you were going to make me laugh with witty banter and jokes"
"Not exactly"
"well, nice to meet you! bye!"

 

[CapturedDoll]

I want this to pop up as a warning box every time someone goes to message someone else on here.
These are people out here, these usernames, with thoughts and feelings and fears, families that love them and an entire life that's not defined by the "T-Word".

I've seen TONS of interactions on here over the years that suggest to me that people forget that they're talking to a human being.
It's like they're talking to a tickle object to be obtained.

I read some of the messages my wife received over her shoulder when she was asking me "How should I respond to this?", it was insane.

"Hi. I'm Me. Do you like sports?"
"Hi! No, not really, never been interested."
"That's cool. So where do you want me to tickle you?"
"What the..?"


If you're really interested in talking to people or meeting people on here, you've got to come at them as a human being, looking to make a human connection.
Put "the kink" on the back burner and let them see you can hold an interest in them as a person for five minutes without talking about touching their bodies.


This is elementary stuff for the rest of the world, but it hasn't seemed to sink in around here.

Imagine someone on OKCupid messaging a girl like this.

"Hey. Do you watch TV?"
"Hiya! I do! I like Walking Dead actually!"
"Cool. So. Do you want the dick?"


That would be the absolute end of the conversation.


Treat people with respect, yo.

EXACTLY. And Rectangle your trading card analogy is also right. And also needs to include every card pertaining to life if people are serious about meeting others/dating. Job card, morals card, personality card, family card, location card, hobbies card, etc.. but it takes a long time to trade cards successfully. Not an hour game.

I wrote a lot more on this... but my computer crashed taking the beginning of my part 3 of my Revenge story with it. Writing is now concluded for the day lol...*sigh* But thank u for recognizing what I said and writing further on it.

 

[CapturedDoll]

I hear you, maybe I have to retune myself to be into meeting people more. I just can't stand the false starts where it seems like you're getting along and you mention "so, did you see I like tickling?"
"wait, you mean actual tickling?"
"yea, what did you think I meant?"
"I thought by tickling you meant that you were going to make me laugh with witty banter and jokes"
"Not exactly"
"well, nice to meet you! bye!"

Oh tickling can be worked into the first conversation/mail/profile. It just cannot be the totality. Maybe you should use its official name of Knismolagnia. I don't know...I think this needs further discussion... tickle torture might sound too "harsh" for most people... Knismolagnia might sound to technical or medical... tickling might come across as too "silly" to be believable... I don't know.. will be interesting to hear others thoughts on this...

 

[duderino84]

Oh tickling can be worked into the first conversation/mail/profile. It just cannot be the totality. Maybe you should use its official name of Knismolagnia. I don't know...I think this needs further discussion... tickle torture might sound too "harsh" for most people... Knismolagnia might sound to technical or medical... tickling might come across as too "silly" to be believable... I don't know.. will be interesting to hear others thoughts on this...

ha I know what you mean. Yea, I just sort of wait to see if some rapport is built and then sort of reveal it so people can decide if they think it'll get in the way.

 

[Rectangle]

Oh tickling can be worked into the first conversation/mail/profile. It just cannot be the totality. Maybe you should use its official name of Knismolagnia. I don't know...I think this needs further discussion... tickle torture might sound too "harsh" for most people... Knismolagnia might sound to technical or medical... tickling might come across as too "silly" to be believable... I don't know.. will be interesting to hear others thoughts on this...

Try skipping the word "fetish" altogether.
I've gone all out before and went deep on the question.

Something like..

"Tickling is the ultimate form of affection for me. The ultimate act of trust. You're placing yourself in someone else's hands, becoming vulnerable.
When you're being tickled, nothing else exists but that moment. You have no control of what you're doing, your mind is blank, your own body ignores your commands.
It's..freedom. Freedom from yourself.
Nobody being tickled is concerned with how they look, what you think, what they think, anything else.
You're seeing that person without pretense, fully human with no walls up in that moment.

There's an intimacy in that. In stripping away those layers of control that we've erected around ourselves.
There's an intimate trust as well in letting someone else strip those layers away from you.

It's like you're a machine and for a brief moment in time, you hand the controls to someone you care for and just..let go.
And in turn, they get to see you at your most base, primal, and human level.
Pure reflex, pure reaction, pure instinct.
Pure human.

I find that beautiful."




Then she either says "Wow, I've never thought this deeply about tickling before, I actually feel you.."
..or..
"Not for me, sorry."

The last girl I went into it with like that wound up becoming my wife and wants to be involved in "the scene" now.
So..it worked at least once in history.

 

[CapturedDoll]

Try skipping the word "fetish" altogether.
I've gone all out before and went deep on the question.

Something like..

"Tickling is the ultimate form of affection for me. The ultimate act of trust. You're placing yourself in someone else's hands, becoming vulnerable.
When you're being tickled, nothing else exists but that moment. You have no control of what you're doing, your mind is blank, your own body ignores your commands.
It's..freedom. Freedom from yourself.
Nobody being tickled is concerned with how they look, what you think, what they think, anything else.
You're seeing that person without pretense, fully human with no walls up in that moment.

There's an intimacy in that. In stripping away those layers of control that we've erected around ourselves.
There's an intimate trust as well in letting someone else strip those layers away from you.

It's like you're a machine and for a brief moment in time, you hand the controls to someone you care for and just..let go.
And in turn, they get to see you at your most base, primal, and human level.
Pure reflex, pure reaction, pure instinct.
Pure human.

I find that beautiful."




Then she either says "Wow, I've never thought this deeply about tickling before, I actually feel you.."
..or..
"Not for me, sorry."

The last girl I went into it with like that wound up becoming my wife and wants to be involved in "the scene" now.
So..it worked at least once in history.

THAT was AWESOME. Question SOLVED. Just maybe each person do this in your own words. 🙂

 

[duderino84]

Try skipping the word "fetish" altogether.
I've gone all out before and went deep on the question.

Something like..

"Tickling is the ultimate form of affection for me. The ultimate act of trust. You're placing yourself in someone else's hands, becoming vulnerable.
When you're being tickled, nothing else exists but that moment. You have no control of what you're doing, your mind is blank, your own body ignores your commands.
It's..freedom. Freedom from yourself.
Nobody being tickled is concerned with how they look, what you think, what they think, anything else.
You're seeing that person without pretense, fully human with no walls up in that moment.

There's an intimacy in that. In stripping away those layers of control that we've erected around ourselves.
There's an intimate trust as well in letting someone else strip those layers away from you.

It's like you're a machine and for a brief moment in time, you hand the controls to someone you care for and just..let go.
And in turn, they get to see you at your most base, primal, and human level.
Pure reflex, pure reaction, pure instinct.
Pure human.

I find that beautiful."




Then she either says "Wow, I've never thought this deeply about tickling before, I actually feel you.."
..or..
"Not for me, sorry."

The last girl I went into it with like that wound up becoming my wife and wants to be involved in "the scene" now.
So..it worked at least once in history.

That's nice. I can see why you're married. But way too interpersonal for me. Would be too many implications I didn't actually mean. The ideal Lee is just one that likes any kind of attention simply because you're doing it.

 

[CapturedDoll]

That's nice. I can see why you're married. But way too interpersonal for me. Would be too many implications I didn't actually mean. The ideal Lee is just one that likes any kind of attention simply because you're doing it.

That's why you would have to write something in your own words if you plan on adding something to a profile or even in talking with someone.

Would you expound on that last sentence please... I don't quite understand what you mean.

 

[Mrcool]

I agree

 

[duderino84]

That's why you would have to write something in your own words if you plan on adding something to a profile or even in talking with someone.

Would you expound on that last sentence please... I don't quite understand what you mean.

As in lately I don't feel deep, intimate, personal feelings. That I just want to tickle someone. Lol

I'd just want a Lee I don't have to explain anything to lol.

 

[Mrcool]

As in lately I don't feel deep, intimate, personal feelings. That I just want to tickle someone. Lol

I'd just want a Lee I don't have to explain anything to lol.

Wait do you mean you want a lee who won't say/ask a thing

 

[duderino84]

Nah I'm not that selfish. I just wish say, that I could time travel past all the fetish explaining biz.

 

[CapturedDoll]

Nah I'm not that selfish. I just wish say, that I could time travel past all the fetish explaining biz.

Completely understandable.

 

[Mrcool]

Yeah I hope I did not come off sounding like a dick