Player_X2020
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I'm a 19 year old single guy. I'm not cut, but I've got size. I'm completely confident and I don't have trouble with talking to women. My issue lies here:
If I'm interested in a particular girl, is it not appropriate to have a level of exclusivity with that girl?
I've been told by many to simply play the field. Diversify my portfolio if you will, but I feel like if I were seen by one with another it would throw away my chances with a lot of quality dateable girls.
My concern is that there is a girl in particular who I've been talking to, but she's busy all the time and we haven't even gone out on a date yet. However a few weeks back, we met up at a bar and one thing led to another and we had some fairly passionate kissing later on that night (but no further than that).
Was this just some drunken act and now I'm simply the ego-booster on a hook? If she really wanted to date me she would text me with a day by now wouldn't she? I almost just want to say "Are you interested in me or not?" At that point, I'd be showing all my cards and she might not be attracted to such a forward question.
I can be a very patient person, but at the same time, who likes being caught in limbo? I could go on about the mixed signals I've received however, let's just hear about the underlying question.
Play the field with multiple candidates, or simply wait until I know undoubtedly I've lost the one I'm dealing with.
If I'm interested in a particular girl, is it not appropriate to have a level of exclusivity with that girl?
I've been told by many to simply play the field. Diversify my portfolio if you will, but I feel like if I were seen by one with another it would throw away my chances with a lot of quality dateable girls.
My concern is that there is a girl in particular who I've been talking to, but she's busy all the time and we haven't even gone out on a date yet. However a few weeks back, we met up at a bar and one thing led to another and we had some fairly passionate kissing later on that night (but no further than that).
Was this just some drunken act and now I'm simply the ego-booster on a hook? If she really wanted to date me she would text me with a day by now wouldn't she? I almost just want to say "Are you interested in me or not?" At that point, I'd be showing all my cards and she might not be attracted to such a forward question.
I can be a very patient person, but at the same time, who likes being caught in limbo? I could go on about the mixed signals I've received however, let's just hear about the underlying question.
Play the field with multiple candidates, or simply wait until I know undoubtedly I've lost the one I'm dealing with.
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