It would be sad to see this become one of those cases where another fine lady thinks people like us are obsessive freaks due to a few people asking (or begging) her to do something out of the norm and out of what she is comfortable doing.
Just a little thought...
- Chaneda
Exactly, I just wasn't as eloquent as Chaneda. I myself would feel uncomfortable as a fetishist myself, if I kept beign harassed by freaks (while I'm no prude neither, I make jokes, that I do within the boundaries of these boards).
I am one of these people who refuses to see our passion like a way of life. We are no 'oppressed' group that needs to stand up for 'our' rights. All members on these boards are individuals in my eyes, but in no way are we a group that feels too much connected to each other.
Personally, that foot perv who molests random chicks or that obsessive wild tickler, I don't think they are harming 'our' reputation, as I hardly feel connected to them. I NEVER have had problems finding girls who like to have their feet given attention to or who like to be tickled (I keep such details wisely inside the bedroom, or within the act of flirting). Still I frown at the molesters.
To find female feet attractive never really was a huge deal in Belgium or anywhere in continental Europe (more then once in a while you'll see people complimenting the feet of a lady as it's mainstream enough, the whole female body as attactrive to healthy men, anyway). If you don't fixate on the feet, it's not even to be considered a fetish (while worshipping them might be, but then I say that sex can be dirty in many other forms, and I also enjoy the non-footworship or -tickling aspects of it).
At that, and only at that point, I am disagreeing with Chaneda, but that's going off topic.
😉 I am sure of it that in so-called sexually immature or respressive countries like the US, I neither would have problems finding girls with simular interests. You just don't have to be an exhibitionist, that's all. Compare it with obscene gay parades and you know why they'd frown if we were to act like a 'movement' or 'pressure group'. We only share a common interests, it's nothing much.