nessonite said:
When did not getting something extra become being punished? I guess I'm unusual but even though I have barely any money of my own I'm not rushing out to attack the wealthy for being succesful.
And there IS widespread abuse of the welfare system. It isn't a small problem or isolated to large cities. The fact that practically everyone has anecdotal evidence "I know someone who..." shows you how widespread it is.
As you, Vlad, I was raised mostly by a single mother though mine did accept aid when we needed it. The difference between her and some other people I've known is she didnt sit on her ass all day pumping out children and fattening her check.
That boggles my mind how someone could do that. If you're already living in squalor why continue to have children?? It just seems inhumane. A woman next door to me when I was a teenager had 4 kids by 2 different fathers and was pregnant and gave birth to a fifth by a third father. All this in a miniscule 1 bedroom duplex identical to the one my 3 member family was barely squeezing into.
Unfortunately reforming a system that so many millions of people have made themselves dependant on is perhaps an impossible task. You'd have to not only change the rules but wean millions of multi-generation welfare families off of the support they've been using AND change the "I deserve a free ride" mindset. I think blaming the problem on one president or relying on one president to fix it is overly simplistic.
Exactly Ness.
And the reason I brought that up was because I feel that Bush would crack down on something like this. Kerry, he'd make it worse and easier to get around by giving even more supplements and rights to these deadbeats (those abusing the system).
I especially agree that people that think "the world owes them a living" and people that want something for nothing, and bitch and whine when they don't get freebies, extras and handouts, that its wrong to blame the other side for being better off. Just because someone is in a better financial state than someone else doesn't mean they should be penalized, criticized, or have to continue to pay for these leeches and bottom-feeders.
I have compassion for the homeless, the poor, and the disinfranchized. I do not however have compassion for people that are perfectly able of getting themselves out of whatever rut they most likely surrendered to. While the same could apply to a homeless man, thats honest poverty. The people that have some means always have options.
Thats not Bush's fault. Thats them being too weak-willed to handle their own life. Opponents of Bush act as though under his leadership there is no chance to live the American Dream. The American Dream is just as alive as it ever was. But its only lived out by those who mean to have it, strive to have it, and do what they can to have it. Its attainable to the people that are serious in life, know what they want, and find a way, despite their financial situation.
I myself am barely middle-class, its not as if I'm some rich boy who wipes his mouth with 100 dollar bills instead of napkins. LOL
I know that despite my current financial situation (which isn't as bad as it could be, and I'm thankful to God for His graces, gifts and overflowing bounties), I can live out my dreams, as simple or as complex as they may be.
People that are bottom feeding, making it by without an instability to their life or are making just enough to survive and are complaining deserve to be where they are.
"The Force is within you. Force yourself!"- Harrison Ford LOL