Pro work: Tickling only.

[Deleted member 66627]

I always glance at the Personals section, just to read some of the threads that are made (You have to admit, some of them are pretty funny). One thing I've noticed is that a lot of folks who post there aren't really looking for a relationship or anything serious.

They've got a fetish/kink/interest in tickling, they don't really have an outlet for it, they are desiring a way to experience play in a fashion they enjoy.

I think a large amount of the folks on forum (that aren't regular posters), are seeking just that. The no-frills play session. They can't get it like some of us can with lovers and/or friends, so they spend time skulking in A/V and/or complaining about what little use the Personals section has.

They avoid gatherings or scoff at them due to it being so personal for them that the idea of people getting together socially in a 'tickling minded' environment pretty much freaks them out.

You see and read on Clips4Sale, Craigslist, various BDSM sites and even internet blogs about Pro Dommes (rarely Pro Dominants), and all the services they provide.

While tickling seems to be a regular offer on many Pro's "portfolios", and I'm sure they are splendid at their job; I have entertained ideas of what it'd be like to offer services myself of doing Pro work for tickling enthusiasts alone.

Or not even just me, but someone who is as enthusiastic about the interest as the person seeking the service.

It wouldn't be like a Producing company, because it won't be seeking an image and then filming it. It'd be two consenting adults entering into a scene similar to those popular all over Dungeon's in NYC, just strictly for tickling.

With the economy the way it is and stress at an all time high for many, I'd say that it'd be a decent concept.

Thoughts?

 

[Comfort Eagle]

*In b4 dozens of "I'd pay to let you have a go at me 😉" replies*

It does sound like a good idea. Of all the mistress/dom tickling I've seen it looks like they're just good enough to get the job done, rather than being very expert ticklers. I'd pay for a pro.

 

[Phineas]

I say if you think there's a market for it, go for it! On the other hand, few things bug me more than the over-commercialization of our fetish. It seems like, for the majority of us, the only way to satisfy it is to pay for it... and given how many producers, models, etc. we have here hawking their goods it's kind of depressing.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

*In b4 dozens of "I'd pay to let you have a go at me 😉" replies*

LOL!

I say if you think there's a market for it, go for it! On the other hand, few things bug me more than the over-commercialization of our fetish. It seems like, for the majority of us, the only way to satisfy it is to pay for it... and given how many producers, models, etc. we have here hawking their goods it's kind of depressing.

Oh, I completely agree. The way a lot of things are now-a-days is making a buck out of something that could or is viewed as special to other folks.

And it is depressing that the best way to outlet a fetish without fear of being judged for many is to pay for it. But, if that needs to be done, I think it'd make for a bit more of a comfortable dynamic between two people who are genuinely into it. You know?

 

[Phineas]

You know?

I do. 🙂 Like I said, go for it.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

Yes, I admit it, I've paid to tickle someone silly more than a dozen times. It sucks to have to pay for this pleasure, but I see it as a form of therapy. It does scratch the itch nicely, as my friends wouldn't put up with it. It's better than keeping it cooped up inside, remaining frustrated, or worse, ending up on the news as a serial tickler.

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

This ... is a really good idea!

 

[ViperGTS]

I have thought about offering "Tickling Sessions" but the market for a male ler is VERY thin, and it always has been, unless I wanted to do m/m sessions.

 

[Babyshambles]

I think it's very patronising to laugh at some of the posts in the personals section.

You are ok. You are an average- to above-average-looking girl whose sex is disproportionately under-represented on the TMF. You also don't have any significant fear of the consequences of attending gatherings and posting your picture on this forum.

Not everybody is like that.

Some people on here will have major reasons why they simply cannot attend gatherings, post their picture or get involved in the TMF as much as they would like.

The men on this forum are outnumbered, and sure they all come here and act sociable and get something in return from the very promiscuous females of the forum, but some men don't want to queue up for a girl they wouldn't look at twice if they met her in the streets just because she happens to be on this forum and available for whoring herself out as a ticklee or a tickler.

I personally think there is a demand for any woman on the TMF to prostitute herself as a tickler or ticklee for money.

I don't think it achieves a great deal for society, but if it makes that person happy, why not go for it?

 

[-Hari-]

and if you were to start such a service, would you then be happy to accommodate *anyone*? visually pleasing or not? any age?

 

[Deleted member 66627]

and if you were to start such a service, would you then be happy to accommodate *anyone*? visually pleasing or not? any age?

I can't lie and say that it'd be of no issue. But, if the goal was to "help" others as well as make a buck, then it'd have to be done.

 

[Babyshambles]

I can't lie and say that it'd be of no issue. But, if the goal was to "help" others as well as make a buck, then it'd have to be done.

Lets face it. It's all about making a buck.

Which I have absolutely no problem with.

I just wish that all of the girls on this forum would realise something. They are in a privileged position on the TMF. Maybe they are more privileged on here than anything they would get in real life.

Instead of being humble about this, the girls tend to strut about arrogantly and feel free to laugh at anything they regard as undesirable or against the norm.

If you're going to do it, do it properly. I see no reason why the right girl (offering the right mix of services - including non-tickling work) could not make $100,000 + per annum and that's just for starters.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Instead of being humble about this, the girls tend to strut about arrogantly and feel free to laugh at anything they regard as undesirable or against the norm.

You're about as subtle as a sledgehammer.

 

[venray]

The thing you need to be very careful of (aside from the normal safety factors) is that doing this as a "pro" for money could affect the way in which you come to view tickling in your personal life.....

It may "water down" your personal experiences if you do it on a regular basis for pay with all who want to use the service...

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Lets face it. It's all about making a buck.

Almost everything in this world is about making a buck. However, many as well enjoy the feeling that helping another person brings. Be it through a session play or something as vanilla as Math.

Assuming that no other gratification but a financial one comes from everyone who does things to make money is false and fabricated. If it's an opinion you carry, that's fine. But that doesn't make it fact.

I just wish that all of the girls on this forum would realise something. They are in a privileged position on the TMF. Maybe they are more privileged on here than anything they would get in real life.

Instead of being humble about this, the girls tend to strut about arrogantly and feel free to laugh at anything they regard as undesirable or against the norm.

This has little to nothing to do with the OP. If you'd like to attempt another thread, go ahead. But the topic is about opinions on Pro work via tickling and otherwise. Not female members of the TMF and the negative opinions you carry of them.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

The thing you need to be very careful of (aside from the normal safety factors) is that doing this as a "pro" for money could affect the way in which you come to view tickling in your personal life.....

It may "water down" your personal experiences if you do it on a regular basis for pay with all who want to use the service...

You're 100000000000% correct, and I was thinking about that.

But..

If I were to provide services (remember folks, this discussion at this present time is strictly of the hypothetical sense), they'd be as a 'Ler, where I'm predominantly a 'Lee. I didn't think nor do I really think it'd be of much effect..?

 

[Babyshambles]

If you want to help people, do it for free.

If you want to make money, do it for money.

When you exchange sexual services for money then you become a prostitute. Do you really want to be a prostitute? Seriously?

Almost everything in this world is about making a buck. However, many as well enjoy the feeling that helping another person brings. Be it through a session play or something as vanilla as Math.

Assuming that no other gratification but a financial one comes from everyone who does things to make money is false and fabricated. If it's an opinion you carry, that's fine. But that doesn't make it fact.




This has little to nothing to do with the OP. If you'd like to attempt another thread, go ahead. But the topic is about opinions on Pro work via tickling and otherwise. Not female members of the TMF and the negative opinions you carry of them.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

If you want to help people, do it for free.

If you want to make money, do it for money.

When you exchange sexual services for money then you become a prostitute. Do you really want to be a prostitute? Seriously?

Where'd the sexual services come in? Who said sex was a sole or even additional concept?

Could it be? Sure. Was I implying such? Not at this time.

And, why help someone for free, when you can help and make money?

You're speaking as if there's no way to mix the two.

 

[BellaRisa]

Good discussion 🙂

Let me say something: not everyone wants intimacy with every intimate act. Many, many people, more men than women in my experience but definitely women too, want a no-frills no-relationship session for sex and/or their kink. It's not that they can't get tickling or spanking or sex from a partner or friend, they just don't want to. They prefer to spend an hour or an afternoon indulging in their interest *without having to deal with how and what the other person is feeling*, and get back to the office and life. A male friend said it best: "When I'm paying, it's only MY orgasm I have to care about." A little cold maybe, but a highly common thought.

There are plenty of spanking-only bottoms out there (excuse the pun, heh), and age-play and damn near every other kink, who do what you'd be doing as a tickling specialist. If someone really wants to call it prostitution that's fine, but I honestly see no difference between that and a masseuse or anyone else paid to make you feel good without getting involved with you.

 

[venray]

You're 100000000000% correct, and I was thinking about that.

But..

If I were to provide services (remember folks, this discussion at this present time is strictly of the hypothetical sense), they'd be as a 'Ler, where I'm predominantly a 'Lee. I didn't think nor do I really think it'd be of much effect..?

Probably not as much an effect but there would be some changes in the way you view and deal with the fetish in general....

 

[ElFewja]

Christ. Just ignore that guy, seriously. No point to it.

I dunno. I don't imagine there being much of a whats its for this in a localized setting. I think it would be a good idea, but that you would have to travel a lot for it if it were strictly TMF based. If it wasn't, I can't see there being much of a market. But then I begin repeating myself and the space time continuum collapses.

Yeah, I dunno. I want to encourage it but I'm not sure how well it will work.

Etc.

 

[BellaRisa]

If you want to help people, do it for free.

If you want to make money, do it for money.

When you exchange sexual services for money then you become a prostitute. Do you really want to be a prostitute? Seriously?

You have to be kidding. I suppose doctors and teachers who got into their professions to help people and make the world a better place should work for free?

Exchanging sexual services for money may indeed make one a prostitute if one needs to label it that way. I suppose, since I produce erotically stimulating tickling and spanking videos in exhange for money I'm a prostitute as well. The question is how much one cares about such a pitifully outdated stigma.

 

[maniactickler]

Crystal, i would be honored to be your first client.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Crystal, i would be honored to be your first client.

Called it.

 

[Babyshambles]

You have to be kidding. I suppose doctors and teachers who got into their professions to help people and make the world a better place should work for free?

Exchanging sexual services for money may indeed make one a prostitute if one needs to label it that way. I suppose, since I produce erotically stimulating tickling and spanking videos in exhange for money I'm a prostitute as well. The question is how much one cares about such a pitifully outdated stigma.

Doctors and nurses are doing a paid job as paid professionals.

They have qualified and are certified to practice.

It is a legitimate profession, and yes - it is possible to help people and be paid for it.

However, TICKLING ON THE TMF IS SEXUAL!!!

You are not selling lollies or donuts, you are selling a sexual service.

Whether or not you get turned on by it yourself, you are selling a sexual service. That makes you a prostitute, which - by my reckoning is still illegal across most of the world - and most parts of America.

If anyone does this - be under no illusions - they ARE a prostitute. They ARE putting their self in some danger from men. They ARE exposing their self to the LEGAL risk of criminal action.