I'm a 'ler, I'm male, and I'm straight. From that narrow vantage point I'm always trying to understand how tickling works for other people. For example: I've heard the suggestion that female 'lees are drawn to it because they love the attention that the desired tickler lavishes on them.
Question: What do female 'lers get out of it? (in a f/m situation, and sticking to heterosexual cases to keep it simple for now)
Is it about flirting with the male, using tickling as a tool in her armoury of feminine wiles, trying to excite him into giving her further attention (and maybe tickling)?
Or is it about pure role-reversal: enjoying playing the male role, being dominant, and giving the attention for a change?
If anyone has insights on this it will help to answer a question that has been with me for most of my life...
Question: What do female 'lers get out of it? (in a f/m situation, and sticking to heterosexual cases to keep it simple for now)
Is it about flirting with the male, using tickling as a tool in her armoury of feminine wiles, trying to excite him into giving her further attention (and maybe tickling)?
Or is it about pure role-reversal: enjoying playing the male role, being dominant, and giving the attention for a change?
If anyone has insights on this it will help to answer a question that has been with me for most of my life...