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I am curious....this question is probably the most relevant to m/f and f/f lers with a lot of different tickling experiences but for anyone who has had a variety of sessions....
To the lers who have done a tickling session both with a 'vanilla' person, friend, fetish model, or sub who allowed it but wasn't into tickling as a fetish, and have also done a tickling session with a lee will the same fetish who wanted tickled: Are there any really noticeable differences in the reactions you got, the way the lee sounded, moved or anything, were lees with the same fetish more likely to engage in 'bratty' behavior to encourage you to get them worse, or were you ever surprised by a non-fetishist who got bratty and taunted you into really letting them have it??
For me, I am really going by a lot of long-ago experiences with my first boyfriend who was 'vanilla' and several much more recent experiences with 2 guys who have the same fetish... In both cases bondage and tickling was involved (pretty amateurish bondage with long-ago bf but still lol), and all these lees were male. I have not had enough experience with f/f to speak to women's reactions. The um...Biggest 😂 and most 'noticeable' difference was that with the non-fetishist bf, he would get hard when I would switch things to more erotic teasing or very light touch, but not during tickling him ... If he had been turned on just getting tied up by his insane gf then during really tickling him he would not stay hard generally. Lol, whereas the guys with the same fetish, hard getting tied up, harder getting tickled, it was pretty much a bonerfest all around! 😂😂
'vanilla' boyfriend was pretty much never ever a brat and would likely have never encouraged me to get him worse, I'm lucky he let me tickle him at all really. One play partner with the fetish was a total brat though and loved to smack talk my ler skills. 😂
There was begging with all three...and it was hot lol.. But with the fetish guys, it seemed like.... Maybe a few genuine ones, but a lot of putting-on, like saying begging things, "I'll do anything, not there, not my (insert body part)!" and so on ... as fetish triggers more than genuinely saying them. This isn't to criticize because it still turned me on like crazy haha, I generally don't say longer phrases but do say "no, stop, please don't" without really meaning it a lot myself. That was probably the other 'biggest' difference, ha. With vanilla bf... When he begged it wasn't an act 😂 which ironically, also made it the hottest of all... SAnd my response usually then was to lighten up or stop, I'd say something like 'aww, come on, it isn't that bad...' usually to low-key hope we could keep going, but yeah he was pretty much always way done before me haha. Since we'd go from that to hot sex usually it wasn't too sad for me to have to stop... 😄 But with the guys into it, a lot of times I almost feel like the begging often was meant to get both of us more into it and intensify the experience of it ... So like brattiness it was actually meant to encourage me to get them worse, and maybe to get themselves into the helpless feeling more..... SOMEtimes they really meant it haha, but usually not the first few times they said anything 'beggy'.
I can't speak too much to my own response vs a non fetishist's, I hear that I make a lot of sigh/moan noises between bouts of laughter though, haha 😰
To the lers who have done a tickling session both with a 'vanilla' person, friend, fetish model, or sub who allowed it but wasn't into tickling as a fetish, and have also done a tickling session with a lee will the same fetish who wanted tickled: Are there any really noticeable differences in the reactions you got, the way the lee sounded, moved or anything, were lees with the same fetish more likely to engage in 'bratty' behavior to encourage you to get them worse, or were you ever surprised by a non-fetishist who got bratty and taunted you into really letting them have it??
For me, I am really going by a lot of long-ago experiences with my first boyfriend who was 'vanilla' and several much more recent experiences with 2 guys who have the same fetish... In both cases bondage and tickling was involved (pretty amateurish bondage with long-ago bf but still lol), and all these lees were male. I have not had enough experience with f/f to speak to women's reactions. The um...Biggest 😂 and most 'noticeable' difference was that with the non-fetishist bf, he would get hard when I would switch things to more erotic teasing or very light touch, but not during tickling him ... If he had been turned on just getting tied up by his insane gf then during really tickling him he would not stay hard generally. Lol, whereas the guys with the same fetish, hard getting tied up, harder getting tickled, it was pretty much a bonerfest all around! 😂😂
'vanilla' boyfriend was pretty much never ever a brat and would likely have never encouraged me to get him worse, I'm lucky he let me tickle him at all really. One play partner with the fetish was a total brat though and loved to smack talk my ler skills. 😂
There was begging with all three...and it was hot lol.. But with the fetish guys, it seemed like.... Maybe a few genuine ones, but a lot of putting-on, like saying begging things, "I'll do anything, not there, not my (insert body part)!" and so on ... as fetish triggers more than genuinely saying them. This isn't to criticize because it still turned me on like crazy haha, I generally don't say longer phrases but do say "no, stop, please don't" without really meaning it a lot myself. That was probably the other 'biggest' difference, ha. With vanilla bf... When he begged it wasn't an act 😂 which ironically, also made it the hottest of all... SAnd my response usually then was to lighten up or stop, I'd say something like 'aww, come on, it isn't that bad...' usually to low-key hope we could keep going, but yeah he was pretty much always way done before me haha. Since we'd go from that to hot sex usually it wasn't too sad for me to have to stop... 😄 But with the guys into it, a lot of times I almost feel like the begging often was meant to get both of us more into it and intensify the experience of it ... So like brattiness it was actually meant to encourage me to get them worse, and maybe to get themselves into the helpless feeling more..... SOMEtimes they really meant it haha, but usually not the first few times they said anything 'beggy'.
I can't speak too much to my own response vs a non fetishist's, I hear that I make a lot of sigh/moan noises between bouts of laughter though, haha 😰