Question for the f/m lovers out there

[UnclStevel]

This may seem like a strange question, but what would the ideal male model look like in the ideal f/m video? For the most part 99% of the topics here have been discussed for over a decade to my knowledge, but this has never been brought up?!?!?

Would the ideal male model be some skinny, dorky looking guy? Or some buff model guy? Or a middle-aged fat guy? Are any of these model descriptions either a turn-on, or turn-off? Is it easier to identify with the guy if he looks or laughs like you?

Steve 🙂

 

[tklr5150]

I would think the ideal ticklee would be a good looking specimen, just as in any other scenario. Those guys who don't care one way or another probably wouldn't prefer a schlub, and those who enjoy f/m because they like guys (ergo, straight women and gay men) would probably prefer someone more pleasing to the eye (as pleasing as we Y chromosome types can be, at least)

 

[Deleted member 2452]

me of course!

you should just have me be the lee, that will solve all the questions, silly that you didn't think of that!

if i'm too busy though, you should go for a guy that's not skinny, but not mr. atlas either. average/normal. the only thing is to find a guy with feet that are not as gross as most of the guys feet that i see in the gym! talk about ugly!

older is also better ,and the guy should be turned on by being tickled, cause i know most of us f/m loving guys here are by it.

steve

 

[milagros317]

Here is my response, which is not really an answer to your question (sorry about that).

I am an F/m lover, in that F/m is what I do in real life with Mistress Zara, and in that all of my stories (fiction and nonfiction) are F/m.

But I own no F/m video tapes. All of the tapes that I own are f/f. What I want to see is f/f.

 

[JPie1]

I don't think the man has to be a model but grooming is essential. I want to see a guy that looks like he takes good care of himself (especially his feet in this case). Definitely a man that responds to the tickling. Personality definitely comes through. Doesn't have to be a body builder but just as the guys like variety of females in m/f or f/f videos a variety of men would be nice as well, boyish looking men, mature men, long haired men, clean cut men....must be groomed though!!

JPie

 

[UnclStevel]

Jpie - So true. Us guys like a well-groomed woman too 🙂 That's great advice for anyone!

Milagros317 - That's the part of the phenomenon that confuses me. Would you say that f/m tickling is more of a mental buzz rather than a visual one? Does the satisfaction that you may derive from fantasizing about being tickled trump most videos that you may watch?

areenactor - Steve, since you have my favorite name, and you're pretty cool, you obviously would be my first choice for an actor 🙂

tklr5150 - Good point. I wonder how many gay guys or straight women actually buy videos from any of the producers in the community here. It can't be amy since I can count on one hand how many f/m vids even exist. Women probably make up a very small portion. My gay male friends are such sluts they wouldn't go to a straight porn site if they had too (they'd be at myfriendsfeet), but I'm sure there are those on the line that would get a serious kick out of a good looking gent getting it hahaha


Sorry if I seem dense here, but I just don't get why people scream for more f/m stuff, but when it's produced, nobody buys it. I've always looked at the f/m crowd as a vocal minority, which is not a bad thing. I appreciate all of your help on understanding what makes an f/m lover really "tick". Your comments are very insightfull!

Steve 🙂

 

[Cosmo_ac]

Why does a guy who likes f/m videos have to be gay?

 

[BellaRisa]

Sorry if I seem dense here, but I just don't get why people scream for more f/m stuff, but when it's produced, nobody buys it.

In my experience, many men don't want to watch other men doing fun things that they would like to be doing themselves; Thy're not mean, but a little jealous and/or they find it creepy. For every email I get asking for a F/M video I get more suggesting I never shoot one, "no guys on camera!" Heck, they don't even want M/F. One gentleman flat out told me "If it's not me doing it or getting it, it should be two girls." That's not everyone, but a very vocal part.

The few F/M videos that are out there (and yes, more IS coming from us) do sell to my knowledge; I've heard good things about Pricilla's Lair, for instance. But the customers are very quiet about it-they won't be posting lots of praise when we announce it, but they'll still support us. And that's fine 🙂.

As a fan of F/M myself, I echo Jpie; a variety of well groomed, reasonably attractive males who are ticklish and respond well, and have personality. The banter and connection between ler and lee are the best parts of such material 🙂

Bella

 

[tklr5150]

Jpie - Grooming? Geez, what is it with you nutty females? You expect us to groom ourselves?! The gall! Hey I'm lucky if I can find the time to shower once or twice a week 😛

Uncy Stevey - You're right, there probably isn't a lot of crossover to our side of the fence. And if straight tickling material sometimes seems integral with foot fetishism, gay tickling material and foot fetish is practically inseparable. But I will say that when I'm watching f/m, I prefer it if the victim is relatively young and good looking (so I can relate to him 😉 )

 

[BellaRisa]

Why does a guy who likes f/m videos have to be gay?

I don't think that's what he meant. I took it as there being two types of males who enjoy F/M: the ones who don't care what the guy looks like as long as he's ticklish, and the ones who are attracted to other men. Since that's kinda true (although there *are* straight guys who'd still want a good looking 'lee) I didn't get any stereotyping from it 🙂

 

[Krokus]

The guy definetly needs to look groomed. Nice and clean, and well shaven...young, and preferably good-looking....just my opinion. Dark hair....dark brown eyes....ah, lol, well, I'll stop there...you get the idea. 😉 😀

 

[kurchatovium]

I like f/m videos and I have bought several. Priscilla's Lair was the best in my opinion. Even though I don't get excited by the guy in the video, he should not look so odd as to take my mind off the video. More importantly is the f in the f/m video. If she is hot and dressed in a provocative outfit and taunts her male victim then it is very exciting I think IMHO.

 

[UnclStevel]

cosmo_ac - I wasn't implying all men into f/m are gay 🙂 Bella hit the nail on the head!

tklr5150 - I bet you represent a large portion of the viewing audience. I'm curious why a site like myfriendsfeet.com hasn't come out with a few f/m videos. They have well grommed guys there, and I'm sure they could find enough women to tickle those guys!

Krokus - I can feel your boner poking at my computer screen hahaha

kurchatovium - Amen brother. We think alike. Precilla was hot in that vid too.

 

[Ticklish9's]

For me, I guess, the point is putting myself in the place of the guy in the video.

Most of the points above are really good points, but I'd be happiest if the guy looked roughly similar in build to me (or was me, lol).

That said, average looking, "normal" guys are probably best, because that's going to hit the largest crowd - that being what defines average and normal, after all.

 

[Diego]

F/M

Being tied helpless and tickle tortured by a sexy and sadistic woman (or maybe two women) is one of my great pleasures, I have experienced it many times, with my wife and other females working together with my wife in my feet. ITS Fantastic!!!

My feet are awfully ticklish and my wife says they look great (she is my wife after all!!!) but I am not happy watching a movie that focus its attention on a man s feet. I only LOVE female feet

Regarding the videos, I saw a clip Priscilla s Lair and its great but I admit that I prefer to see a woman ticklin another than F/M clips but as tickling is something sexual in my case, I am not really a fan of any porn movies when a man is having sex with a woman unless the camera focus virtually all time with the female.

Just my comments
Diego

 

[ontheverge]

It's not so much the package...

...although I do agree that the victim should be scrubbed up, pedicured, groomed, etc.
HOWEVER, the laugh is everything to me. I like a lusty, loud laugh that tells me the 'lee is truly ticklish and is feeling the sensations. Laughter-with-abandon...please, sir, may I have some more?

 

[Oddjob0226]

I'd want to see a guy who is a 'good-looking average'. Not someone ugly - I don't want to identify TOO much with someone in the video; fantasy and escapism have some role, after all. But then, I don't want some super good looking guy that will make me jealous and sad. Someone good looking enough that I can stomach him, but not so pretty that I can't see him as a sort of surrogate for me, or that I lose any hope of something to shoot for. A guy somewhere in the middle, but leaning towards good looking.