hiram said:
I loved getting tickled but would surely never admit as much. I always thought my feelings about it came from so deep inside that it was just a place I would never let others see.
In fact, my question was : " What do you like to hear BEFORE the tickling and not after it has begun". In an ideal world where everything could be allowed, in your deep fantasy, would you prefer a non consensual or a very very consensual ?
As a ticklee, I have two completely opposite ways to act and to react.
When I'm playing with a tickle fetish, I feel at ease and I have no problem claiming I love being tickled. During action, of course, I say "Pleaaase stop, noo !" I beg, I threaten, and I MEAN it, you can believe me, even if as soon as it has stopped, the only thing I want is that it begins again..
If by chance, a non tickle fetish tries to tickle me, as my last boy friend did sometimes, I pretend I don't like it and I ask him coldly to stop. It's difficult to explain why. I think that it's something so deep inside, as you said, that you can't stand it being only half shared by someone who is not in the trip.
I wouldn't like at all to be tickled by someone who is not deeply moved and aroused by it, and who doesn't love it as much as I do, and who would do that, only to please me. That's why I would never try to convert someone who hasn't got this passion for ever...
